My husband is unemployed too, Steve, like you were. He can't afford to take me out, and wine, dine and romance me. And let's be honest, all girls like that sort of thing. I know a couple of guys with plenty of money, including a black businessman who is in a relationship with a friend of mine, and the big boss at my work. Both really have some swagger, I can tell you. The boss man has acted inappropriately with me on a couple of occasions, nothing serious, I just feel he infringed on my personal space a little too much, and paying me compliments. Last week he told me I smell good, which I thought was a little odd but sexy.
But when I get home my husband hasn't cleaned the house and there is washing up to do, it's just not romantic and who wants to kiss a chubby middle aged guy in a white vest, jogging bottoms and dirty socks?
Oh well, my husband has a job interview this week, maybe things will change and he will get some of his swagger back. I hope so!