Bringing the subject up

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Whtsub4bbc, Mar 20, 2016.

  1. Whtsub4bbc

    Whtsub4bbc Active Member

    Gender:
    Couple
    Country:
    US
    The past 2 times I have had sex with my girlfriend I brought up sharing her with mostly a black man. She has never came harder since we have been together. She knows I have a BBC dildo for her and some interracial porn. Should I keep what I am doing it should I try something new to bring her along?
     
  2. Maleslave

    Maleslave Well-Known Member Gold Member

    Gender:
    Male
    Country:
    Belgium
    Keep playing, have patience and let her decide.
     
    Freespirit1 likes this.
  3. xxxhubbywifexxx

    xxxhubbywifexxx Active Member Real Person Gold Member

    Gender:
    Couple
    Country:
    US
    That's what I did with my wife to start.then I started bringing home some of my black friends so she would get more comfortable around them.then I took her to some primarily black clubs and gave her a few drinks let her dance and everything fell into place
     
    MyWifeWantsBBC and Maleslave like this.
  4. Ann4BBC

    Ann4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

    Gender:
    Female
    Country:
    UK
    Keep trying babe! Do role play with her, introducing her to the dildo and the idea of sex with black men. Introduce her to naughty clothing and lingerie. Different sex toys. But most of all reassure her that it's just for fun and you love her! X
     
  5. Whtsub4bbc

    Whtsub4bbc Active Member

    Gender:
    Couple
    Country:
    US
    See I have been doing that. I have always loved her in lingerie. Her self esteem has gotten in the way a lot of the time. We have so many toys for her it is unreal.
     
  6. Ann4BBC

    Ann4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

    Gender:
    Female
    Country:
    UK
    The lifestyle can boost her self esteem! I used to be shy and think my body wasn't all that, but after getting great comments from guys and queues of men wanting to fuck me, it's boosted my confidence! Ladies in this lifestyle come in all shapes and sizes. Have you suggested posting a couple of sexy pics here or hamster etc? No faces obviously. See what comments she gets. X
     
    Roy Randall and tristan_dirden like this.
  7. Whtsub4bbc

    Whtsub4bbc Active Member

    Gender:
    Couple
    Country:
    US
    She is so self-conscious about her body that she won't let me take pics. I have to sneak them. When we went to bars she would pick the darkest most in the corner table or booth possible.
     
  8. sweetginny

    sweetginny Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

    Gender:
    Female
    Country:
    Canada
    Show her the pics of the women from here. And other amateur sites. We aren't Barbie. Don't want to be. We're proud of the bumps and bruises and sags life has rewarded us with.

    When she reads the remarks and adulation from the men who see us, she'll see that we are very desirable to a great many men. She will be too!
     
    Jewbaka likes this.
  9. Whtsub4bbc

    Whtsub4bbc Active Member

    Gender:
    Couple
    Country:
    US
  10. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

    Gender:
    Male
    Country:
    US
    Well, she's not offended by your discussion of the topic, that's a plus. Sounds like a self-esteem problem to me ... and quite resolvable if you so desire it to be. She simply doesn't feel attractive or able to measure up to the younger, petite girls that she probably wishes she could be. A few things come to mind ... and you can be a significant contributor to them:

    ....
    #1 join her on a weight loss (execise & diet) program with the mission of helping her lose 20-30 lbs to boost her self-confidence/self-esteem level, plus, it will be healthy for the both of you. My entire family joined a self-defense class for a few years to develop good living habits. Join a gym together, go on long, brisk walks, replace high fat/carb diets with fiber/protein diet. Take her most favorite food (usually the worst for maintaining a good weight) and let her have it as a reward once a week for reaching certain diet goals. Keep high fat foods OUT of the house; they're too tempting + you can learn to replace these sugar products with naturally sweet fruit products.
    ....#2 continue to discuss your fantasy of seeing her with a well-hung black man
    ....#3 continue complimenting her and encouraging her
    ....#4 convince her that not all men desire a slim, petite female; my observances and readings is that black men prefer their women a bit more 'meatier' than a lot of white guys. Possibly some of the black guys here will add their opinion to this.

    This is doable, and if you're sincere, you can accomplish what you desire. You need to become motivated to get her motivated. Good luck ... Mac
     
    Roy Randall likes this.
  11. tomtomjim

    tomtomjim Well-Known Member

    Gender:
    Male
    not much boosts a womans confidence more than knowing she has total control over a man, if she knows that she dominates you she will feel much more secure about other things. Just because a man tell his wife he wants her to fuck other men does not mean she believes him. Any woman who is fucking other men with their mates knowledge is either very secure or does not care what the man thinks
     
  12. Paulus50

    Paulus50 Well-Known Member

    Gender:
    Couple
    Give her the dildo as a gift and, if she ├žoves it, ask her if she loves a meat black dildo. Good luck.
     
  13. sweetginny

    sweetginny Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

    Gender:
    Female
    Country:
    Canada
    That her in the pictures you posted? Any man would love to be with her. She will drive them wild.
     
    Jewbaka and Wife 4 bbc like this.
  14. tomtomjim

    tomtomjim Well-Known Member

    Gender:
    Male
    I agree with you but I also find nothing is more off a turn on than attitude. When you actually are having good sex with a woman you cannot see much of their body. When my tongue is in a pussy all I see is fur and flesh. An eager woman is a pleasure to behold and fuck while a cold model is just fun to look at.
     
  15. Whtsub4bbc

    Whtsub4bbc Active Member

    Gender:
    Couple
    Country:
    US

    That is her plus the avatar
     
    tomtomjim likes this.
  16. tomtomjim

    tomtomjim Well-Known Member

    Gender:
    Male
    Ever notice that all the big women have happy looking husbands
     
  17. Miamicouple

    Miamicouple Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

    Gender:
    Couple
    Country:
    US
    It's pretty simple. Put on a interracial porn with a good looking black male. The "Blacked" series is great! But put it on next to the bed as you two are being intimate. If she spends more time watching the porn and reacts better to it than to you. You are definitely on to something! It'll only grow from there. Good luck.
     
    Roy Randall likes this.
  18. LucyGirly

    LucyGirly New Member

    Gender:
    Female
    One thing that you can do to add to this is make a point of telling her when you see other men checking her out, especially black men in this context. The more she feels desired, the easier it will be. That's a simple step that will build her confidence.
     
    torontocuck likes this.
  19. Whtsub4bbc

    Whtsub4bbc Active Member

    Gender:
    Couple
    Country:
    US
    We I did it again last night. She was all but asleep when I asked her if she had a fantasy. She said yes. Then I started to run her clot through her panties. She got so wet. I pulled them off and started fucking her. I kept on telling her to imagine I was black and imagine I had a bigger dick. This went on for 30 minutes or so. When I was about to cum she had such a tight grip on me. Arms around my neck and legs locked around my back I ended up busting 2 huge streams inside her before I could pull out.

    I ask her if we were going to talk about it after cleaning up she said no. I think it is time for some interracial porn. I have tried to stretch her out with a small dildo and my dick but it hurts her so such.

    Any thoughts on the porn or other ways I can stretch her out and to get her ready or to at least open up about her fantasy.
     
  20. Whtsub4bbc

    Whtsub4bbc Active Member

    Gender:
    Couple
    Country:
    US