BLM and our white wives

[Blaquemajix]

No such thing as systemic racism. Only racist individuals.
Like my company's CEO, who hired a Diversity Officer for the company after the George Floyd event, to ensure more people of color were being given jobs based on the color of their skin, rather than their education and experience.
Didn't make the system racist, because many of us believe in hiring someone based on their resume and interview performance. All it did was make him stand out as a racist.

Here's a quick example of systematic racism. Let's say Tim's Great Great Grandfather owned slaves and became a millionaire. Down the line, Tim will have advantages that comes with money. The slaves descendant will not.. Need another? Questions on the ACT. If you come from a family class family, you will be more familiar with some of the terms and expressions that say someone from a poor family. Systematic racism is a very nuanced thing. Here's one more before I live this alone. Are you aware of charter schools in the country? They are funded through taxpayer dollars just as public school. White charter school enclaves—defined as charter schools located in school districts that are thirty percent or less white, but that enroll a student body that is fifty percent or greater white— are emerging across the country. - https://scholarship.law.duke.edu/dj...text=Abstract,are emerging across the country.

 

[Paleonpigment]

Here's a quick example of systematic racism. Let's say Tim's Great Great Grandfather owned slaves and became a millionaire. Down the line, Tim will have advantages that comes with money. The slaves descendant will not.. Need another? Questions on the ACT. If you come from a family class family, you will be more familiar with some of the terms and expressions that say someone from a poor family. Systematic racism is a very nuanced thing. Here's one more before I live this alone. Are you aware of charter schools in the country? They are funded through taxpayer dollars just as public school. White charter school enclaves—defined as charter schools located in school districts that are thirty percent or less white, but that enroll a student body that is fifty percent or greater white— are emerging across the country. - https://scholarship.law.duke.edu/djclpp/vol14/iss1/5/#:~:text=Abstract,are emerging across the country.

Smh..

 

[mw29]

I started this post for open dialog about BLM and how its now being talked about at home openly with white wives, and this lifestyle, Black men with white couples, cuckolds, . Not for others to argue and be political.. Please this is about this lifestyle not anything else..

 

[riffman]

How many other places have you lived? I have friends who've moved to Europe and New Zealand who definitely don't miss a thing about living in the US. Spare me the angry lash-out response, I don't hate it here, I'm not a communist, or any of the other things American exceptionalists like to yell at people, but I will definitely say I've been to several other countries I could live in just fine. This weird idea that this is the only country in the world where citizens enjoy living the way they choose to live is, in my experience, perpetuated almost exclusively by people who've never been anywhere else.

I have lived in the Middle East, worked in Africa and Asia, grew up in Europe, currently live in North America. I can witness that anyone born in North America has already won the lottery of life. It is true that the prizes are not distributed evenly, but in NA we are all winners!

 

[Dellvan]

I have been able to open up more talks in general about black people and BLM with my white wife, giving her and us both a better understanding how black people are not treated fairly or equal and should have never been this way, but things need to change now. I feel and hope this could be a good first step in helping others look and treat black people the right way, also feel this can open up white wives to this lifestyle like my wife as this being on news etc. It has become everyday talks with us. Any others feel the same? Anyone see this attention to BLM helping this lifestyle?

I support the BLM movement and message....but the organization sucks.

 

[SCBlknNsty]

I have lived in the Middle East, worked in Africa and Asia, grew up in Europe, currently live in North America. I can witness that anyone born in North America has already won the lottery of life. It is true that the prizes are not distributed evenly, but in NA we are all winners!

I can agree with you to the extent that there is much to the quality of life here. BUT as overwhelmingly Americans don't have views of the rest of the world based on experience or interaction, the uneven distribution as you call it, remains a festering wound. There is NEVER healing without acknowledgement of wound/injury.

 

[BigSarge]

How many other places have you lived? I have friends who've moved to Europe and New Zealand who definitely don't miss a thing about living in the US. Spare me the angry lash-out response, I don't hate it here, I'm not a communist, or any of the other things American exceptionalists like to yell at people, but I will definitely say I've been to several other countries I could live in just fine. This weird idea that this is the only country in the world where citizens enjoy living the way they choose to live is, in my experience, perpetuated almost exclusively by people who've never been anywhere else.

Hello how are you? My name is Walter I live in Denver

 

[submission52]

Here's a quick example of systematic racism. Let's say Tim's Great Great Grandfather owned slaves and became a millionaire. Down the line, Tim will have advantages that comes with money. The slaves descendant will not.. Need another? Questions on the ACT. If you come from a family class family, you will be more familiar with some of the terms and expressions that say someone from a poor family. Systematic racism is a very nuanced thing. Here's one more before I live this alone. Are you aware of charter schools in the country? They are funded through taxpayer dollars just as public school. White charter school enclaves—defined as charter schools located in school districts that are thirty percent or less white, but that enroll a student body that is fifty percent or greater white— are emerging across the country. - https://scholarship.law.duke.edu/djclpp/vol14/iss1/5/#:~:text=Abstract,are emerging across the country.

I think you need to look up the definition of racism.
More importantly, you are making the assumption that not a single black person that descended from slaves can make a success of themselves because of historic injustices. We have seen tens, if not hundreds of thousands of American black people make successes of themselves.
Successful people (of every race) shed off the victimhood mentality. When they do that, their potential becomes unlimited.
Your incorrect definition of "racism" is based solely on your victim mentality.

 

[Blaquemajix]

I think you need to look up the definition of racism.
More importantly, you are making the assumption that not a single black person that descended from slaves can make a success of themselves because of historic injustices. We have seen tens, if not hundreds of thousands of American black people make successes of themselves.
Successful people (of every race) shed off the victimhood mentality. When they do that, their potential becomes unlimited.
Your incorrect definition of "racism" is based solely on your victim mentality.

We have become successful against all odds. here's an example of systematic racism: https://www.npr.org/2022/03/18/1087661765/house-votes-crown-act-discrimination-hair-style
I'm not playing the victim. I have my eyes wide open to how life really is. If you believe that there is equality throughout then you're being blinded by privilege. Why do you think that so many red states are trying to change their voting laws and practices despite there not being any real reason to do so. And why do you think those changes will affect mostly minorities?

 

[submission52]

We have become successful against all odds. here's an example of systematic racism: https://www.npr.org/2022/03/18/1087661765/house-votes-crown-act-discrimination-hair-style
I'm not playing the victim. I have my eyes wide open to how life really is. If you believe that there is equality throughout then you're being blinded by privilege. Why do you think that so many red states are trying to change their voting laws and practices despite there not being any real reason to do so. And why do you think those changes will affect mostly minorities?

I read the article you attached, and it supports my argument that racist people implement policies, but it doesn't make the system racist. A system has no opinion. It's an inanimate object.
Take my company for example. By our CEO hiring a Diversity Director to hire more people of color based on their skin/ethnicity/culture, the system itself didn't become racist. A racist CEO put in a racist policy. It is a pure definition of racism. By giving special privilege to people of a certain race, in this case, colored people, it marginalizes people who are white/Caucasian.
Also, that article was flawed in its logic. It said 80% of black women in the study "felt" pressured to change their hair. Feelings aren't an objective study statistic. If 80% of black women were ****** to change their hair or be fired/demoted/passed up for promotion, that's an objective statistic. But this article talked about feelings. Sorry, but anyone who has been around the block a few times knows that people's feelings (of any race) are often irrational and mostly based on internal fears that have little-to-no basis in reality.

 

[SCBlknNsty]

I think you need to look up the definition of racism.
More importantly, you are making the assumption that not a single black person that descended from slaves can make a success of themselves because of historic injustices. We have seen tens, if not hundreds of thousands of American black people make successes of themselves.
Successful people (of every race) shed off the victimhood mentality. When they do that, their potential becomes unlimited.
Your incorrect definition of "racism" is based solely on your victim mentality.

What level of 'success' removes any and all possibility of racism? How many 'successes' were based on the successes of prior generations? EVERY member of today's Kennedys have millions, not so much by their political fathers and grandfathers but great grandfather Joe's ******* and political intrigue (as well as Rose Kennedy) and both of them were established by their *******'s successes.

When (if ever) has the U.S. education system been balanced? The legal system? The housing system?

In U.S. history there have been 115 Supreme Court justices total:
108 white men

Thurgood Marshall
Clarence Thomas Black men

Sandra Day O'Conner
Ruth Bader Ginsburg
Sonia Sotomayor
Elena Kagen

Ketanji Brown Jackson will be the 116th and as the first Black woman to make it, many view her nomination as racist for not considering white men-is it supposed to be always white men? 108-7 seems rather racist to me.

 

[Blaquemajix]

I read the article you attached, and it supports my argument that racist people implement policies, but it doesn't make the system racist. A system has no opinion. It's an inanimate object.
Take my company for example. By our CEO hiring a Diversity Director to hire more people of color based on their skin/ethnicity/culture, the system itself didn't become racist. A racist CEO put in a racist policy. It is a pure definition of racism. By giving special privilege to people of a certain race, in this case, colored people, it marginalizes people who are white/Caucasian.
Also, that article was flawed in its logic. It said 80% of black women in the study "felt" pressured to change their hair. Feelings aren't an objective study statistic. If 80% of black women were ****** to change their hair or be fired/demoted/passed up for promotion, that's an objective statistic. But this article talked about feelings. Sorry, but anyone who has been around the block a few times knows that people's feelings (of any race) are often irrational and mostly based on internal fears that have little-to-no basis in reality.

Not going to discuss this with you as I see you are more part of the problem

 

[DiscreetGent]

I have been able to open up more talks in general about black people and BLM with my white wife, giving her and us both a better understanding how black people are not treated fairly or equal and should have never been this way, but things need to change now. I feel and hope this could be a good first step in helping others look and treat black people the right way, also feel this can open up white wives to this lifestyle like my wife as this being on news etc. It has become everyday talks with us. Any others feel the same? Anyone see this attention to BLM helping this lifestyle?

BLM is only helping the pockets of BLM. Not a good way to go as far as the lifestyle.

 

[SCBlknNsty]

I read the article you attached, and it supports my argument that racist people implement policies, but it doesn't make the system racist. A system has no opinion. It's an inanimate object.
Take my company for example. By our CEO hiring a Diversity Director to hire more people of color based on their skin/ethnicity/culture, the system itself didn't become racist. A racist CEO put in a racist policy. It is a pure definition of racism. By giving special privilege to people of a certain race, in this case, colored people, it marginalizes people who are white/Caucasian.
Also, that article was flawed in its logic. It said 80% of black women in the study "felt" pressured to change their hair. Feelings aren't an objective study statistic. If 80% of black women were ****** to change their hair or be fired/demoted/passed up for promotion, that's an objective statistic. But this article talked about feelings. Sorry, but anyone who has been around the block a few times knows that people's feelings (of any race) are often irrational and mostly based on internal fears that have little-to-no basis in reality.

So, if the CEO of your company came to the conclusion the company overwhelmingly hired only whites, the only non racist thing to have done would be to continue that policy? Taking steps to correct that scenario 'marginalized' white/ Caucasians?

How much time did you spend as a Black woman to be knowledgeable enough to dismiss their viewpoint?

Feelings are ALWAYS a real and valid indicator. Forgetting that they are instantaneous and momentary then blindly reinforced is the irrationality.

 

[Blaquemajix]

So, if the CEO of your company came to the conclusion the company overwhelmingly hired only whites, the only non racist thing to have done would be to continue that policy? Taking steps to correct that scenario 'marginalized' white/ Caucasians?

How much time did you spend as a Black woman to be knowledgeable enough to dismiss their viewpoint?

Feelings are ALWAYS a real and valid indicator. Forgetting that they are instantaneous and momentary then blindly reinforced is the irrationality.

That's why I stopped answering him. He's ignorant about the whole issue

 

[jojo23]

Can anyone name one person or thing blm has helped? Other than themselves

how many college tuitions did they pay for?
how many houses did they buy or build for people?
what specific organizations did they donate to?
how many homeless people did they help?
how many medical bills did they pay? especially during the last 2 Covid years
have they even donated one penny to help anyone?

Seriously have they even helped one person with the hundreds of millions that they received in donations, which half of is now missing. Not to mention the multiple mansions and other properties they spent donors money on and are now complaining that people are asking questions

Why aren’t all the donors asking what they did with the money? Or who they helped?
if you donated why aren’t you asking? is the reason you aren’t asking, political?

What good have they done for anyone black or white?

 

[bbcalpha]

On a different note... BLM = Buying Large Mansions
I wonder how everyone here feels about money they donated to that cause, which did nothing for black people, except the few black women at the top who bought a $6 million mansion. Oops.

You do know BLM stood for Black Lesbian Movement when it was originally made by those that bought them $6 million mansions.

 

[sxypet 222]

Their should be no futher arguing, white woman should be spread their thighs for black men to stop all of this

 

[submission52]

That's why I stopped answering him. He's ignorant about the whole issue

Funny how you consider a different opinion based on facts "ignorant" just because it isn't how you feel it is. I've experienced anti-white racism in my life, but you don't hear me calling any system racist. I call the person who put the quotas for women and minorities in place a racist (and sexist).

 

[Sakuu]

I'd rather keep BLM and interracial sex fetishization separated. With some people the fetish gets so bad that the black guy isn't seen more than just a guy who just fucks and isn't there for the relationship at all, which is fine if the black guy is all-in for it. However, that completely steps away from Black Lives Matter movement, as the black guy is completely objectified in sense, almost to the extend that he's just a sex toy.

"Blacked" term is somewhat racist itself as it included a white girl getting "blacked" by the black guy, implying that the "blacked" process is something dirty or taboo. Like she is being "dirtied up" by the black guy, which sounds already racist itself. Imagine if there was a porn company called "Bleached". Yeah.