I'll be totally honest and say I don't give two hoots about the number of inches. The most recent guy in my life says he's 8, and I have no reason to doubt him. But even more important is that he knows what to do with it, and has amazing stamina. He did tell me that he has been at some swinger parties where he was passed over by a woman because he was "just average" and not as "thick as a Coke can". All I can say is... definitely her/their loss!!