A couple of weeks ago my DOM sent me out on a date with a bull who was visiting Detroit. My husband is always with me on my dates. He drives us, and does whatever the bull says.
This bull was very polite at first to both of us when we picked him up. We went to a racially mixed bar for a few drinks. As soon as we arrived at the bar, the bull started treating my husband as a cuck while putting his hands all over me in public. He was making it clear to the others in the bar that he could do what he wanted to us and that my husband would tolerate anything the bull did to me.
I told the bull that I found him very sexy (because I did) and made it clear that he had no competition for me that night. It did not matter what I said. The bull felt it necessary to demonstrate his superiority and our submission.
We had great sex later that night and my husband cleaned both of us up. As I watched my lover smoke a blunt while my husband was licking clean his still semi hard cock, everything became clear. It was then that I realized the demonstration of superiority attitude at the bar by my bull made sense and was totally appropriate.
I realized that it was only my sheltered upbringing that caused me to feel like something was wrong when he asserted his dominance at the bar. Here in the quiet of our bedroom, with no one watching, the domination and submission was clear. So why shouldn't the bull show the world what my husband and me admitted in that private moment in our bedroom.
I believe that anyone who rejects this reality is either fooling themselves or has led a sheltered life that keeps them in denial.