What seems to completely elude some folks is that this specific style of street dress whether it be with Jordan's or Chuck Taylors is actually a part of many black men's culture and upbringing! Some people like black dick bit don't know ******* about black culture. I grew up in the hood in the gang culture of Southern California.The only people in the hood who wore suits were either pastors or pimps and there were alot more pimps. I went in the military to get out of the hood, traveled the world and got cultured and when I got out I got my education. Growing up all we had to look up to were the OG's and these 40 year old guys only wore their Chucks Levi's Jean's and Dickie pants, yet these older guys were always surrounded by beautiful women. They were bad boys, gangsters, and thugs who never had a shortage of women who were in love with them. Everyone knows Bad boys get ten times more pussy than yuppies! A woman will marry the yuppie and fuck the bad boy behind his back and I know it's TRUE because this sight has plenty of posts were women have confessed to just that!
If you have a preference or certain criteria for this lifestyle then it's your job to properly screen your potential playmates properly to your own special specifications. Whatever you like say it on your swinger profile or post and whatever you don't like do the same, but to tell these black men in this forum that you are going to "help them" is basically telling them "there is something wrong with you"! "There is something wrong with your culture"! It is completely unrealistic to expect most black men to not dress how they grew up culturally and that goes the same for all men universally. I could go to the Barrio right now and show you every other OG Vato over 40 wearing exactly what they were wearing when they were 15 years old. Why? Because that's their fucking culture and how they grew up!
So if you really want to help black men you can help by first learning what that person's culture is before you go thinking you have to help someone.
