That's basically what she described.White guys.
That's basically what she described.White guys.
If I've agreed to meet up with you, you've already impressed me lol sandals or noOh I wasn't referring to You personally.... I'm just agreeing with the homie @Youngphillybbc because us single guys are EXPECTED to jump thru hoops to impress ANOTHER MAN'S WOMAN /WIFE..... that just ain't happening
There's no incentive for us to do all of that just to get some pussy, smh...
I'm liable to show up in shorts tank top socks and sandals @avaadore lol
Woman I'm bringing DICK.
Tbh that's not my style AT ALL but I've seen 'that guy' in some of these media pics lolIf I've agreed to meet up with you, you've already impressed me lol sandals or no
If I can't wear lululemon I am straight up not goingTbh that's not my style AT ALL but I've seen 'that guy' in some of these media pics lol
I don't wear Slides, I'm more of a Stacey Adams loungewear type. Unless it's a late night booty call... Yes I'm showing up in grey shorts, dick hanging
Yes yes I understandOh I wasn't referring to You personally.... I'm just agreeing with the homie @Youngphillybbc because us single guys are EXPECTED to jump thru hoops to impress ANOTHER MAN'S WOMAN /WIFE..... that just ain't happening
There's no incentive for us to do all of that just to get some pussy, smh...
I'm liable to show up in shorts tank top socks and sandals @avaadore lol
Woman I'm bringing DICK.
White guys.
I had to Google wtf is Lululemon.If I can't wear lululemon I am straight up not going
Yes yes like I say before... know your audience. I was just sharing my personal interests.I just think like everything else some women are seeking different things from a "bull" while some don't mind the meeting and then straight to fucking, some women like @Molly1980 wants some more mental stimulation before she "spreads eagle" its just how people are some want different things in the mix or @avaadore who doesn't mind getting bruised and choked
maybe it was intentionalTHAT could have been phrased a bit more clearly. View attachment 3656356 I think you meant to say "I just like to know a little bit about the person I'm going to fuck."
You don't have to like the way I said it. It was clear, imo, or you wouldn't have gotten the meaning.THAT could have been phrased a bit more clearly. View attachment 3656356 I think you meant to say "I just like to know a little bit about the person I'm going to fuck."
Oh my God that sound so awful as an experience, I would die.My biggest turn off is a couple who is disingenuous with recording content during a meeting...
There are many content creators in the lifestyle currently... Now if you wish to meet me strictly to shoot content, please specify to this to me... Then I have a choice if I want to meet or not...
Please don’t say “ Do you mind , if we take a few pics or videos for personal use “
Then have me show up to a hotel room with 4 cameras and 2 huge flood lights pointed at the bed....
My biggest turn off is a couple who is disingenuous with recording content during a meeting...
There are many content creators in the lifestyle currently... Now if you wish to meet me strictly to shoot content, please specify to this to me... Then I have a choice if I want to meet or not...
Please don’t say “ Do you mind , if we take a few pics or videos for personal use “
Then have me show up to a hotel room with 4 cameras and 2 huge flood lights pointed at the bed....
I couldn't have said this better.Pushy or controlling husbands - she’ll tell me I don’t need your coaching
Jealousy- know your partner. If you can’t handle it,why are you doing this? Check it at the door. You can’t ever undo the deed. So be sure
Drunks - if you gotta be ******* to do this don’t waste my time
Disrespect- I am an educated black man. I have my own home. I have a profession. I am NOT your BOY. You are NOT doing me a favor. I will treat you with respect. I expect the same
Hygiene- I love all types or women. Don’t care if they wax, shave, trim but put in the effort. Just like the ladies don’t want funk on us. It goes the other way too
For me, my biggest turn off is when people display unhealthy patterns of certain actions and behaviors that they do that hurt themselves and other people.I think we need to help our black studs out there. Sometimes a little communication goes a long way. Let's give them a view of the world through our eyes by sharing what will ruin the chance of meeting or more. These are a few of my personal turn offs...
BEFORE WE MEET:
MEET:
- Creepy (If I ever feel like my life or health can be in danger, it's over before it can even begin.
- Bad grammar (english is my second language, if I can do it you can do it)
- No imagination (let's "fuck" is too vanilla, too boring. Might as well look for a white stud)
- No inclination towards KINK (submissive doesn't mean masochist, there's a difference)
Does anyone else have turn offs?
- Bad Hygiene (BE CLEAN PLEEEEEASE, funky odors is a deal breaker which include the smell of cigarettes, alcohol and especially weed. No little boys, just men)
- Bad dressing habits (Dress NICE! Casual wear, NOTHING FLASHY that draws attention. Pull up your pants. Dress your age, dress like you are as old as you are, no little boys)
- No reservation, small talk (Be reserved, no small talk. Stop blabbering, Intimidate me, make me feel like I don't know what's on your mind by limiting unnecessary conversation)
- Going too fast (Go slow... you have me. Take your time seducing my mind)