Being Cuckolded by Some Woman, not your wife???

BethLuvsBBConly

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I have had numerous requests here and other websites, where men want me to cuckold then. I find this confusing because IMHO without the emotional connection (wife/hub or GF/BF) then it is just a game. Seems to me, that the emotional aspect of seeing your woman eagerly having intense sex with other men, especially black bulls, is the essence of cuckolding. What am I missing?
 
Although I think women that like black men are very hot and enjoy interracial porn it just wouldn’t be the same for me. I want to see my wife being stretched and cumming hard on that big cock and watching that big cock cumming in her and cleaning her up after.
 
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I agree with you that there is a difference between voyeurism and hot wife / cuckolds , vixen / stage relationships. There are lots of reasons I guy would like to watch a lady engage in hot passionate sex. Be it a physical issue due to emparement, physical size, health issues. Emotional emparment / mental emparement issues.

There are just as many reasons a lady wants to be watched. Some for money (thought very few out side of the adult industry), some for power, some for revenge, some for longing for physical contact.

I have friends that fit into each of these groups.

One of my friends is confined to a hospital bed at home with a live in male (physical strength required) PSW (Personal Support Worker) to help his family take care of him. Thank god for universal health care. He is there due to a tire coming loose from a transport truck and hitting his car. He ended up paralyzed from the waist down. With limited upper body motion. My help came in the form of cleaning the roof gutters each year, putting up Christmas tree lights, and building with others the ramps to and from the house. We also widened the doors in the house to better allow access for a wheel chair.

Another friend has been treated twice for cancer. Once about fifteen years ago for throat cancer and once ten years ago for testicular cancer. The throat cancer removed his voice, the testicular cancer removed his balls but not his desire and love of his wife of thirty years (this year). The doctors have him on a hormone program and say he should be functional however his brain says no.

Both these couples have alternate arrangements for the wife for a physical relationship.

I know of way to many ladies that want to be watched for revenge following a divorce. Especially if their ex is getting remarried. Or there ex is having children with his second wife. Especially if as a couple her ex and her had chosen not to have *******. As you know following a divorce friends of the couple are expected to choose sides. I have found that it is usually the guy that has been the lying sack of ******* not only to his wife but to his so called friends. These ladies have a need to feel desired / beautiful again and some want that physical desire by another man witnessed. Another thing about divorce couples will shun the female half for fear on the wife’s part that the divorced lady will make a play her her husband. You know the bald, dumpy some what in shape husband who is happy with his twice a month with his wife and Sunday afternoon golf game. Usually a male friend is asked to have dinner with the new couple so word can get out about her hew boy friend who is younger, hotter more desirable than her ex. From time to time this extends to the bed room, or swinger club. Some times she just wants a male friend to go with her to a swinger club on BBC / HUNG / CUCKOLDS night at a swinger club. Yes clubs do have these nights set aside for certain fantasy / fetish couples. I have also gone to steam puke fantasy night parties. The club I usually go to when asked has very strict rules for their fetish parties. NO SINGLE LADIES, ALL LADIES MUST BE ACCOMPANIED BY A HUSBAND / BOY FRIEND. IF THE CLUB THINKS A LADY HAS BROUGHT A “DITCH” you know a guy you are going to ditch / send home once in the door the hand cuff the two of you together with fifteen feet of chain. They also issue wrist bands with numbers so if one partner leaves they go find the other and have them leave. For Cuckold nights they issue two different coloured wrist bands orange and green one for tested in the previous two weeks clean and one for couples not tested. The bulls are also are tagged with two tags. One to say they have been tested and a second if they are also v safe.

There are more than I am comfortable with and number is growing widows in my circle of friends. They too like physical contact from time to time with no strings attached. They have admitted they get nicer bulls when the bull preceives there is a husband around. I guess it the idea of putting on a show. The look what I can do that you cannot. Kind of like an end zone dance after a touch down.

I do have one lady friend that is single. To keep the wolf’s at work away she placed a photo of her and her “brides maids” on her desk indicating she was married. How ever her latest boss is into married ladies especially around company dinners, picnics and when travelling to conventions and trade shows. He let her know her performance review would be better so she gave in. Only thing was he wanted her husband around when it happened. Yes he is a pig. The first time was at a Christmas party in his office while I sat out side at her desk. The second time was at a convention in Florida that family’s where invited to. It was at a famous theme park. This time she got it on tape and reported him to HR who dealt with the problem. Funny thing is she probable would have played with him with out the threat. She now has a late fifties lady boss.

I also have two friends that like company when they travel to the resorts in the Caribbean usually the Virgin Islands where where is less drinking more relaxed parting and lots of social time for ATVs, horse back riding, snorkeling and sailing to name a few as well an night time play.
 
I agree with you that there is a difference between voyeurism and hot wife / cuckolds , vixen / stage relationships. There are lots of reasons I guy would like to watch a lady engage in hot passionate sex. Be it a physical issue due to emparement, physical size, health issues. Emotional emparment / mental emparement issues.

There are just as many reasons a lady wants to be watched. Some for money (thought very few out side of the adult industry), some for power, some for revenge, some for longing for physical contact.

I have friends that fit into each of these groups.

One of my friends is confined to a hospital bed at home with a live in male (physical strength required) PSW (Personal Support Worker) to help his family take care of him. Thank god for universal health care. He is there due to a tire coming loose from a transport truck and hitting his car. He ended up paralyzed from the waist down. With limited upper body motion. My help came in the form of cleaning the roof gutters each year, putting up Christmas tree lights, and building with others the ramps to and from the house. We also widened the doors in the house to better allow access for a wheel chair.

Another friend has been treated twice for cancer. Once about fifteen years ago for throat cancer and once ten years ago for testicular cancer. The throat cancer removed his voice, the testicular cancer removed his balls but not his desire and love of his wife of thirty years (this year). The doctors have him on a hormone program and say he should be functional however his brain says no.

Both these couples have alternate arrangements for the wife for a physical relationship.

I know of way to many ladies that want to be watched for revenge following a divorce. Especially if their ex is getting remarried. Or there ex is having children with his second wife. Especially if as a couple her ex and her had chosen not to have *******. As you know following a divorce friends of the couple are expected to choose sides. I have found that it is usually the guy that has been the lying sack of ******* not only to his wife but to his so called friends. These ladies have a need to feel desired / beautiful again and some want that physical desire by another man witnessed. Another thing about divorce couples will shun the female half for fear on the wife’s part that the divorced lady will make a play her her husband. You know the bald, dumpy some what in shape husband who is happy with his twice a month with his wife and Sunday afternoon golf game. Usually a male friend is asked to have dinner with the new couple so word can get out about her hew boy friend who is younger, hotter more desirable than her ex. From time to time this extends to the bed room, or swinger club. Some times she just wants a male friend to go with her to a swinger club on BBC / HUNG / CUCKOLDS night at a swinger club. Yes clubs do have these nights set aside for certain fantasy / fetish couples. I have also gone to steam puke fantasy night parties. The club I usually go to when asked has very strict rules for their fetish parties. NO SINGLE LADIES, ALL LADIES MUST BE ACCOMPANIED BY A HUSBAND / BOY FRIEND. IF THE CLUB THINKS A LADY HAS BROUGHT A “DITCH” you know a guy you are going to ditch / send home once in the door the hand cuff the two of you together with fifteen feet of chain. They also issue wrist bands with numbers so if one partner leaves they go find the other and have them leave. For Cuckold nights they issue two different coloured wrist bands orange and green one for tested in the previous two weeks clean and one for couples not tested. The bulls are also are tagged with two tags. One to say they have been tested and a second if they are also v safe.

There are more than I am comfortable with and number is growing widows in my circle of friends. They too like physical contact from time to time with no strings attached. They have admitted they get nicer bulls when the bull preceives there is a husband around. I guess it the idea of putting on a show. The look what I can do that you cannot. Kind of like an end zone dance after a touch down.

I do have one lady friend that is single. To keep the wolf’s at work away she placed a photo of her and her “brides maids” on her desk indicating she was married. How ever her latest boss is into married ladies especially around company dinners, picnics and when travelling to conventions and trade shows. He let her know her performance review would be better so she gave in. Only thing was he wanted her husband around when it happened. Yes he is a pig. The first time was at a Christmas party in his office while I sat out side at her desk. The second time was at a convention in Florida that family’s where invited to. It was at a famous theme park. This time she got it on tape and reported him to HR who dealt with the problem. Funny thing is she probable would have played with him with out the threat. She now has a late fifties lady boss.

I also have two friends that like company when they travel to the resorts in the Caribbean usually the Virgin Islands where where is less drinking more relaxed parting and lots of social time for ATVs, horse back riding, snorkeling and sailing to name a few as well an night time play.
I understand your response and yes there are various reasons, but it is the specific request that I 'cuckold' them which like I said IMHO requires an existing relationship.
 
I love the hotwife/cuckold relationship feelings. But since I am not in a relationship at the moment, I would not refer to myself as a cuck. I like to call myself as a slave for the couple i play with. Ive played with dominant women also, but I missed the feeling of a "bull". They are a D/S couple but she wanted to experience her dominant sides, just not dominate her husband. It is not the same as a cuckold relationship, but I really enjoy being their slave. This way I get all the "goods" from a cuckold relationship such as humiliation, cleaning, chastity etc but not the emotional part. But the feeling of being owned is still there. Maybe that is what they want from you? But they just dont know how to explain it?
It could be. Long before going black I would dominate bi men with my hubby.
 
One of the fantasies that my gf and I talk about when we're having sex is the concept of her collaring me and selling me off to a meaner, nastier woman (and it's usually some friend of ours who has no idea that we think about them in that way) who then, among other things, decides to cuckold me with an enormously hung black guy and ******* me to clean up.
And of course, when I watch porn I typically imagine the woman in the porn to be my wife who is cuckolding me.
 
One of the fantasies that my gf and I talk about when we're having sex is the concept of her collaring me and selling me off to a meaner, nastier woman (and it's usually some friend of ours who has no idea that we think about them in that way) who then, among other things, decides to cuckold me with an enormously hung black guy and ******* me to clean up.
And of course, when I watch porn I typically imagine the woman in the porn to be my wife who is cuckolding me.
So your girlfriend should cuck you by fucking black men.
 
I have had numerous requests here and other websites, where men want me to cuckold then. I find this confusing because IMHO without the emotional connection (wife/hub or GF/BF) then it is just a game. Seems to me, that the emotional aspect of seeing your woman eagerly having intense sex with other men, especially black bulls, is the essence of cuckolding. What am I missing?
This is a very interesting post. If a wife and a man with a cuckold nature, because of one reason or another has no white wife of his own start chatting on the internet, can build some kind of emotional bond. I am now one of those men. In so many ways it appears on this site Cuckolding is a game. Very strange dynamics in so many ways. I just want to say that I personally feel that Cuckolding on the internet has become a sexual form of living out fantasies, and these fantasies are placed under the umbrella called Modern Day Cuckolding.

Know matter what people say if any of us men have a wife or girlfriend fucking another man, he is a cuckold, all else that is done in a relationship continues on from that starting point. I found a woman online that caught my attention from the very first time I discovered the title of her thread. I will not disclose the threads title or any personal details that would break a bound of complete trust and locality. This woman is a married white wife 100% a black cock only wife, her white husband is a complete cuckold, her Alpha black man is her fulltime, live in lover. I cannot refer to their cuckold lifestyle as a game because it isn't.

I sent her the first email because I needed to know more about their lifestyle because from the very first time I read her post, I knew that they where living the lifestyle so closely to, what I have fantasized about ever since I realized, I am a cuckold. I am an older man, twice divorced, and I never understood what cuckolding really was until I found it on the internet. It certainly opened my eyes and showed me what I had been missing my entire life.

I have been communication back and forth for with her faithfully for going on two years. I have never personally met her and my contact is emails and photos. First we came to understand each other and found a wonderful friendship. She next, a few months later made it clear that she accepted me as a cuckold, no one had ever thought of me in that way, I was ecstatic because she set me free to enjoy my cuckold nature for time. I am in love with this woman and will continue loving her more everyday for the rest of my life. The emotional bond is real for me. I risked losing her as the best friend I ever had, I needed to tell her that I fell in love with her, one evening I confessed and asked her if my loving her was acceptable to her and I confirmed that I know my place and I will never expect more from her then to be her second, completely denied Cuckold and I have since understood her feelings for me.

We have a very emotional relationship of love and respect, I love her more then any woman I have ever had a physical relationship with, her passion, body, and most powerful love belongs to her black husband, this excites me more then an attempt by me of ever
wanting intercourse with this woman or any other because have giving myself to her. Because of this I vowed to stay faithful to her as her real second cuckold. For us this is not a game at all and the emotions are. In the same way as her cuckold husband's love for her continue to grow. If you take on any of these men's requests, it sounds like it is a game to them based on wanting to be humiliated. I am sure at least many of them will search for another source if you reject their request. As a game it could be a rush to take control of other men, for some the crueler the better.
 
We have a very emotional relationship of love and respect, I love her more then any woman I have ever had a physical relationship with, her passion, body, and most powerful love belongs to her black husband, this excites me more then an attempt by me of ever wanting intercourse with this woman or any other because have giving myself to her. Because of this I vowed to stay faithful to her as her real second cuckold. For us this is not a game at all and the emotions are. In the same way as her cuckold husband's love for her continue to grow. If you take on any of these men's requests, it sounds like it is a game to them based on wanting to be humiliated. I am sure at least many of them will search for another source if you reject their request. As a game it could be a rush to take control of other men, for some the crueler the better.
Just curious, do feel that loving connection when you talk on the phone?

The men who contacted me were typically married and wanted me to cuck them which I believe was them playing the game without risking their own wife. Which is very differentthen seeing your own wife taken to sexual ******* in ways you could never provide.
 
Looking back after I had gotten divorced I became friends with a girl who was my neighbor
She made it clear from the start that she wast interested in a relationship with me but we did hook up sexually fairly often
We traveled through South America for about a year together and she would often hit on guys with me there and even fuck them with me in the room or in the next room. Then the next day she’d tell all
Anyway I’m sure that pretty much qualifies in this scenario
After she moved to Hawaii and I met my second wife it didn’t take long for me to realize that I wanted my wife to be with other men too
 
That sounds more like voyeurism than cuckolding
My neighbour in very active in this lifestyle. She never married, but has two black *******. I knew all of that. She once started to flirt with me, we had sex, and one day she asked me if she could bring her gang to my flat. Long story short, we agreed I would not have sex with her but would be allowed to watch and to occasionally clean her.
 
I have had numerous requests here and other websites, where men want me to cuckold then. I find this confusing because IMHO without the emotional connection (wife/hub or GF/BF) then it is just a game. Seems to me, that the emotional aspect of seeing your woman eagerly having intense sex with other men, especially black bulls, is the essence of cuckolding. What am I missing?
Personally I think you’re one of the biggest fake assed lying no good jacking yourself white guys on here. Which is appearant since only other white guys are answering you
 
Personally I think you’re one of the biggest fake assed lying no good jacking yourself white guys on here. Which is appearant since only other white guys are answering you
I left this site 2 years ago because my photos were high-jacked and someone mis-represented them as their own. Recently friends asked me to re-join. Now I am attacked by a self-absorbed person not liking what I say, so that means I am not me. Fortunately admins had the foresight to include an ignore function.
 
I left this site 2 years ago because my photos were high-jacked and someone mis-represented them as their own. Recently friends asked me to re-join. Now I am attacked by a self-absorbed person not liking what I say, so that means I am not me. Fortunately admins had the foresight to include an ignore function.
I just viewed your media, you are a delectable woman, I encourage you to stand firm, jerks on here are just words on a computer screen, ignore them.
 
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