Hey, all! I'm sure this has come up A TON in the past, but I'm gunna tailor this post to my situation. I'm the male half of a young couple (20's) who is pretty into the hotwife/black for my wife fantasy. Fetish. Whatever you want to call it. My wife isn't really keen on going through with sleeping with other men. However, she is perfectly fine that I would like her to. She supports that its my fantasy to see her with a black man much larger than I am. You can tell she humors me by taking all of the pics I have in my media. I know what you're thinking. You can't make her want to be with other men. And I whole heartedly agree. I don't want to force her to. However, I feel like she does like the idea, but is too embaressed or scared to admit it. Does anyone have any advice on how I could present a situation where she'd be more open to accept it? By this i don't mean the response of replying with a pic of a huge phallus and "show her this. It'll change her mind". If it were that easy I would have tried already haha. I understand I may get the "distinct difference between fantasy and reality" response and I understand it. Are there any ideas where we could ease into it without fully commiting or seeing what she will do when presented with the suggested options? Once more, I fully appreciate it if she is definitely against hooking up with other men. The purpose of this post is to see what we could to to really find out. Thanks in advance!