Our female friend insists that the most important thing in BDSM is the trust of a woman for a dominator.
She needs to be sure that he will do what he wants with her, but he won't hurt her

Do you think she is right?

For my wife, this image is very sexy. And my wife is opposite.
Humiliation ******* on the dominator's anus, insecurity even though it signals that this is the limit. The fear of it and his decision to let her go at all.
Yes she is. BDSM only elevates the need for communication and trust that goes along with sex. And it goes both ways, the Dominant needs to be able to trust the sub to communicate if they are in distress (and not try to 'bear it' just for the sake of the Dominant's feelings).
Any play which threatens a subs ability to breath must be carefully considered and preferably trained for. Eemergency signals, etc. all agreed to beforehand. It's strongly recommended people don't start with breath play. Full disclosure, I've been perving a long time and the closest I've gotten to breath play is deep throating and face sitting :)
 
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