Hello again, Everyone and for those of you in the lifestyle, we have put together a series of very fun poker parties in the past. See below ...
Chocolate Texas Holdâem Parties
These parties donât always meet everyoneâs needs, but we had an absolute blast until COVID put a stop to them. Since that time, weâve moved from Virginia to Ohio and Iâm thinking about starting up another series. The intent of this recap and potential plan are to begin looking for playmates, but also to give everyone some ideas that you can incorporate into your own parties.
The overall concept is a bi-weekly (could be monthly) poker game for sexy chocolate men and the ladies who enjoy playing with them. Our primary target is married ladies, but this is not exclusive. The overall attendance for this type of party is somewhere between 10-20 chocolate men and about 1/3 of this number in ladies. As you might guess, the concept is that ladies can comfortably play with 3-4 (or more) men before, during or after the poker game. The chosen game is
Texas Holdâem with âRapid Blindâ timing to make sure the game wraps up in 4-5 hours.
Actual Queen of Spades
My role in these parties has been sexy âDen Queenâ (lol), between myself and a couple of the other ladies, weâre able to secure the right number and variation of players/playmates. We have a couple of smart and sexy chocolate men that recruit and vet the players, although I always had a hand in it because this is truly a scenario where one bad apple can ruin the fun. For newbies, itâs not unusual to ask for references of current/former playmates. Gym-rats and hard bodies are not required, curvy ladies are in high demand and unfortunately, fatties donât really work ⊠unless theyâre clean up only ⊠lol. As you might guess, I always âtest drive and/or taste testâ a few of the players and at times a lady or two ⊠just to be sure ⊠ok, it always fun.
Some Details
To delve a little bit more into the details, weâve held games in larger homes and hotel suites ⊠actually held one in a husbandâs business office(s), using 2 conference rooms for poker and various other offices for fun - clean up wasnât fun tho and a lack of a shower was a bit of a pain. Everyone typically brings food, munchies and/or drinkies to share. We tend to keep smoking of any kind outside of play.
Now onto the good stuff. The wife of a cuckold or stag/vixen couple arrives about an hour before game time (think 6p on a Saturday night). She/they prep food and a âmake your ownâ bar before getting into fun attire. Most ladies bring multiple outfits for reasons that donât need explaining. The guys usually set up the poker tables, cards, chips, etc.
The Game and Playing
For those of you who donât know poker or Texas Holdâem, the game is a âLast Man Standingâ style game. While the winner can win a lot of money, he usually gets the least amount of fun, because heâs not able to leave the table often. The two tables begin playing and when the total number of the two tables is whittled down to 10, the two tables are combined into one table. Weâve brought in dedicated dealers in the past, but most of the time, we leave the dealing to the guys playing.
Each player receives a âFuck Chipâ which allows them to step away from the table for 15 minutes of sexy fun. The ladies serve drinkies, give fun little massages and will get snacks if asked. Each player that is bounced out of the game is now free to invite a lady (or two) back to one of the bedrooms (or offices) for play. We normally encourage âquick funâ that lasts 20 minutes or so instead of marathon play at this type of event.
And More Fun Details
Onto more fun details ⊠for the players, itâs a $250 âBuy Inâ, with 80% going to the winner and 20% to cover party expenses. Each couple pays $200, but it is expected (and we made it so) that each lady would receive at least this amount in âSexy Waitress Gratuityâ. The reason for this âupfront paymentâ is to make sure there are no last minute, âOops, I forgot, had a change of plans, hubby chickened out, etc.â
Now for the fun and for some, the hard parts ⊠this is a bareback event and players have to have had a clean STD test within the last 48 hours. We considered having the ladies do the same, but we never actually implemented it. Now the harder part for some is that the cuckold and stag husbands are not invited to the event. They drop their wives off, we identify a nearby bar that the hubbies can gather at or theyâre free to go off on their own. My hubby tends to be the calming host at these anxious little gatherings. We donât videotape the events for obvious reasons, but we will provide 6 pictures per lady and send them via text to the hubby (or the wife) during the event. Everyone loves it, tho we have a hubby now and then that doesnât want to know the âfine detailsâ and there is always a jealous or passive aggressive hubby that we calm down or ask the wife to depart early.
Successful Party Recipe
The key with successful parties is the proper vetting of players, where professional, fit, well hung chocolate gentlemen can produce tests and the $250 âBuy In" without issue. Repeat players are even better. For ladies, repeat players are always fun, though depending upon her age, you may have to navigate around âAunt Floâ (lol). Even with all of the vetting and preparation, once in a while, the group has to police itself. Weâve not had any issues at our parties, but have heard about them at otherâs parties.
When the party is over, everyone is amorous and work together to clean up. Our plan is always that our âPlay Palaceâ is in better shape than it was when we arrived. On occasion, a bull and wife will decide to head off together and/or spend the night together, but we strongly encourage hubbyâs knowledge and consent.
Hope this helps everyone and while itâs not easy to pull together, the fun is legendary! For those that don't know me, I am more âplayâ than chit-chat about this stuff. So, a question or two is no bother, but donât expect on-going âj-offâ chat from me. Enjoy! Carlene