Agreed- the Mrs had a similar experience- he was pretty much the biggest she has had at about 10 inches long and thick, but he didn’t seem to have a set rhythm, or read her body language well, and really just pounded her into the mattress. He was young, black, and carrying a big stick. Now from feedback we have read here and on other sites, there seem to be some ladies who enjoy it that way, but my wife tells me that after a couple of deep hard repeated jabs, just pounding a stiff cock against her cervix is more painful than enjoyable. She likes to tell her playmate “don’t break my cookie”, which we borrowed from one of the sexy podcasts that we like to listen to.
On the other hand, she has had a long term black partner who’s middle-aged, about 8.5 to 9 inches long and gives her lower lips that little bit of a stretch that she thoroughly craves. He’s extremely observant, and reads her body language like a musician reads sheet music. He is truly a Maestro, and he plays her like a well-tuned instrument, as he works her up to a crescendo and then takes her over the edge, multiple times. She tells me (and I can see it in her expressions and emotions when they play) that he gets her so aroused with their foreplay and buildup that, by the time his stiff cock makes contact with her soaked pussy, her posterior fornix has already started opening and she hungrily takes him deeply over and over again with each stroke. It’s hot as hell to watch them play together and then join in as he and I focus all of our attention on her, and tease her over the edge again and again.
And that’s one of many reasons why he’s been invited back over and over again.