Asian Women.....Why are so few into BBC?
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SanDiegoBlack
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The Bay Area is the only place I've been where I've been successful. But that was only once, and these days it's almost a prerequisite that you know something about the woman beforehand. When I read some of the stories, it almost makes me want to quit (notice I said, almost!). "Looking for 5-10 guys for a gangbang, looking for a 'Thug,' looking for someone to fuck her in the car," etc., etc. Must be old school, because a lot of people seem oblivious to STD's, herpes, etc. There have always been "hit and runs," but there were always the classy, one step at a time, flirty, seductive women and couples, too. Man, have times changed!
This is the truth right here but I believe it will change over time as more black men get into position of of wealth and power.
“We may come from an MTV Rap Video Culture but THEY do not”. From the film, Rising Sun with Sean Connery and Wesley Snipes.
I guess my experience was different. The first time that I lived in Japan (2005-2010), I didn’t have any trouble getting with any asian woman if I initiated contact first. Same when I made trips to Hong Kong, South Korea, Cambodia, Australia, Malaysia, and Singapore. Only issue I had was with the military women stationed there. Now I’m back stationed in Japan for the last time and not really finding any issue even though I’m married.
SanDiegoBlack
Male
Been to all of the above except for Cambodia. When you say "no trouble," were these bars near bases? I lived in areas far from the military bases (corporate locations). Even speak a bit of Japanese and Chinese....still no luck!
“This right here is not too buku. This right here is pure Alabama black snake.”
I had my first black boyfriend in Phils when I was 19
I think a lot of ladies afraid of how big the guys can be
I had many black boyfriends and when I got married and my white hubby would ask me I finally told him I LOVE black men. he was soo turned on he wanted details .
he suggested we add some spice with a handsome black guy. after like 2 years he finally introduced me to his co worker he was very handsome 6'3 and dressed well was a great dancer and such fun
so I told hubby to find out if he was interested. He was. we took him home after a night of partying and well he was a great lover and I fell in lust with him . we got together so much our ******* knew him as uncle terell.
we taught my hubby to be a good cleanup and from then .hubby and I were hooked.
I think a lot of ladies afraid of how big the guys can be
I had many black boyfriends and when I got married and my white hubby would ask me I finally told him I LOVE black men. he was soo turned on he wanted details .
he suggested we add some spice with a handsome black guy. after like 2 years he finally introduced me to his co worker he was very handsome 6'3 and dressed well was a great dancer and such fun
so I told hubby to find out if he was interested. He was. we took him home after a night of partying and well he was a great lover and I fell in lust with him . we got together so much our ******* knew him as uncle terell.
we taught my hubby to be a good cleanup and from then .hubby and I were hooked.
SanDiegoBlack
Male
Thanks for the explanation, and for the story! Would have loved to have been in Terell's position. I guess it's partially luck!
no yokohama, akihabara, roppongi, kamakura, etc. of course its easier near base but i don't want everyone up in my business. I speak very little japanese now though, spoke more back in the day.
SanDiegoBlack
Male
Even with all of the people in Akihabara (shopping for every imaginable electronic device), and the cool, classiness of Roppongi, no luck! Must have been my approach--or lack thereof!
I dunno, think you may have been unlucky.
huh?
cuckold747
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My asian wife likes black men. I am still working on trying to get her to explore that aspect of her sexuality in our relationship. It's hard to convince and talk to her 
SanDiegoBlack
Male
Well, if she likes black men, that's a good start. Would love to be in this situation. I would take the time to become friends first. Try to show her that she can trust me, I'm caring and not just in it for a "one and done." If you had someone nearby that could help put her at ease, and if you let her know that your feelings for her are not going to change, that would probably go a long way towards moving things forward. Some women are ready, other women need time to know and trust the guy without being pressured. Wish I was nearby! I enjoy building up friendships and trust. Once the trust is there, she'll feel more comfortable slowly coming out of her shell. A tease here, a flash there, looking into her eyes and putting her at ease. Takes the right guy, and someone who is willing to take the time to get to know her instead of coming through the door and dropping his pants. Good luck, my friend!My asian wife likes black men. I am still working on trying to get her to explore that aspect of her sexuality in our relationship. It's hard to convince and talk to her
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i am chinese women, and it is not common for chinese girls to express interest in black but there is many girls who secret admire black. black are still rare in china, and porn is banned unless you use VPN so it can be hard for girl to become expose to black, but once they are exposed, they will have strong interest. I know 20+ girls who discuss this to me.
Unfortunately, a big part of it extends from the aftermath of Vietnam; a LOT of GI's walked away from children, black and white as well as women who were addicts. During my navy time (76-85) a lot of brothers either stayed or fought their way back to the Phillipinnes, as the economy at the time made military guys 'wealthy' to many.
In 1983 I was married and stationed out at Point Loma (I KNOW you know where that is!) and got into it with a Chinese woman who worked out there and lived in National City....damn near lost my marriage struggling to get out of her bed, and damn if still doesn't call from time to time.
then wouldn't that be a prejudice based on religion and not ethnicity?
Perhaps...but do we consider it prejudice if anyone else believes "Stay within your own kind"?
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