Are we being disloyal to our lovers by picturing other people making love to us while they are?

[FineLine]

Yes or no?

 

[FineLine]

Isn't the brain the help meet for our pleasure? Wouldn't it be great to never imagine another lover or they not imagining another, yet when we make love together-it is right of rightness together-like, they are enough. Every one of them? Hmm

 

[SwirlSexr775]

Yes or no?

I would say more unfair... To yourself and him.

 

[SwirlSexr775]

Isn't the brain the help meet for our pleasure? Wouldn't it be great to never imagine another lover or they not imagining another, yet when we make love together-it is right of rightness together-like, they are enough. Every one of them? Hmm

If both of you aren't totally "present" when you're fucking. There's a case to be made that there's something "wrong" with your sex life .

 

[harrybogel]

Yes or no?

The fact that in order for my viagra to work for me I need to have a porn image/thought in my mind is a source of guilt and shame for me. I love my wife but I struggle with this and she senses this. Have I lost my “lust” for her? Stress has taken away all my libido.i need the porn image or thought.

 

[MacNfries]

RE: Are we being disloyal to our lovers by picturing other people making love to us while they are?​

I've found that if it would offend or upset YOU if your lover did it to you, then its not right to do it to them UNLESS you've discussed it with them first.
Sound FAIR? It's the old Golden Rule, actually ... my family firmly agrees and follows this rule.

 

[FineLine]

The fact that in order for my viagra to work for me I need to have a porn image/thought in my mind is a source of guilt and shame for me. I love my wife but I struggle with this and she senses this. Have I lost my “lust” for her? Stress has taken away all my libido.i need the porn image or thought.

Guilt or help