Are There Any Husbands Here Who Regret Letting Their wife Play?
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I think it varies with couples but it seems to us that that there are now more couples where both partners are enjoying this lifestyle. In the beginning , it was perhaps mostly good for her but not the husbands are also getting pleasure from the arrangement. Most of these couples are once again sexually active where their sexual relationship had "drifted" to the point neither husband or wife was being satisfied . The condition leaves one or the other open to cheating and often now it is the wife that finds the new lover . She enjoys visits with her new lover until it becomes more obvious to the husband. Many husbands now recognize her new sexuality and chose to continue or even encourage her activities . The new lover is not always a black man but it is increasingly so . Perhaps the racial difference actually helps support the new sexual situation and is more acceptable today for these husbands . Perhaps in years past , this was exactly the opposite .
i have been doing online polls and there are many young women who tell their hubbies that they are going to have as many men as they please and that the husband must accept it and do as they are told but there are coupples like yours
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Yes The young women today are very sexually active and often with a variety of partners . The young couples we know also have very sexually active wives with men other than their spouses . However , seems like most of the husbands are ok with this which is something of a change from just a few years ago .
Yes . Seeing more of this too but also seeing lots of white guys who are really into BBC fucking with their wives often to
"liberate" and "open" her sexuality . Of course , once she starts with BBC then things get hot and sometimes complex too .
My wife and I both have no regrets as to getting into this lifestyle. I helped her into it and she loves it now. We set rules and talk about EVERTHNG that happens and how we feel about it. For me it is about giving her the ultimate sexual experience and seeing the pleasure she gets from it. For her these guys are just toys to play with and I imagine thats what these women are for the bulls. For all of you women out there who knows her man is having mixed feelings , its up to you to make him feel secure in your relationship and each encounter if you still love him, if not just leave. From the first time we did anything and to this day my wife made me feel like their was nothing in the world that could come between us including anyone, any cock or anything else and has said that and meant it. We talk about it from time to time to make sure both of us are still on board with it. If anything innapropriate happens when i am out of the room she will tell me right then and there(happened twice where a guy tried to get her to play alone)and he is asked to leave right then. We only play together at HER request and all messages and such go through me. Thats how we decided at the beginning this was gonna work no exceptions unless we talk about it first. I think the biggest thing you need is communication on what is expected from day one.
Perfect. Exactly where we are in this lifestyle. We are using the "bull" as well. We recruit playmates together, male or female. We only play together but hubby prefers to watch me as his personal porn star when with BBC. I love putting on a naughty show for him too!! Then we always have great sex afterwards.
What you said is right on! I do join in, depends on who it is and how dominant they are. If they are real dominant I like sitting back more and watching videoing it otherwise I like joining in and being part of the action
To be honest, hubby has told me he prefers to watch if possible. Have asked hubby to join in at times when the BBC wasn't pleasuring me. Also, hubby doesn't mind being cucked to a certain point. We communicate a lot about our fantasies and limits!
I am not a sub at all but I do enjoy some cuck activities. I will grab the Bulls cock and put it in her or pull it out and rub her clit til she squirts and will clean her up and cum swap with her, she loves this and it turns her on big time! We like you have communicated and learned each other's limits and boundries and found what we both like and found things we didn't even know we would like.
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Hello wahoosurfer , Interesting age combination but seeing lots of "older" guys with hot young wives that want MORE ..... smile . Also , even younger husbands with hot young wives that want MORE .... smile ....but the young guys keep up for awhile ... ha ha . Nice that you have a happy solution that is good for both of you .
Thank you! I can still keep up just fine, lol. She still attacks me when I get home from work almost everyday! When we are around friends they joke that I have to keep up with her and she will correct them and let them know that she has trouble keeping up with me! lol
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ha ha well keep up the exercise and run those miles . Need to keep the testosterone pumping .
My wife is three months pregnant with our mixed race babygirl. We are happy. Of course we don't regret that!
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As long as there's much understanding between the hubby making it clear his desires to the wife, it's obvious they would delve deeper in this with less fuss.
And the ******* of the baby will be involved too? And how are you going to explain all this once the baby grows up?
