In her early teens, my wife saw family conflict of a family member marrying a black guy, which stuck with her for many years. We entertained men throughout our marriage, so her having sex with other men was the norm for her, but never black. Thirteen years ago my mom shared her experience with her first black man and the incredible sex she had (mom knows of our liefstyle and knows my wife struggled with having orgasms.) This convinced my wife to try. My wife's first time in her own words...
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