Sorry this happened to the OP. We know the feeling well. This has happened three times in the last few months, each instance found us sitting in a hotel looking at each other. What I dislike most about the disappearing act is that Mrs Zsa takes a hot to her confidence. All three instances were from people we found on reddit (we now know that were doing it wrong). Aside from those no shows, we have sent enough pics to ensure a mini jerk off convention. Those recipients of her pics usually vanish after they get what they want, never to be heard from again. Our only recent real post covid successes SBM wise have come at "Swingers Clubs" and those experiences were excellent. Mrs Zsa was able to pick who she wanted to fuck and we all had a memorable, erotic time with no drama and best of all, no rejections. And while that is all cool, our goal has always been to meet longer term erotic friends.
We have learned much in the last month or so thanks to a couple of verified Bulls who take this stag / vixen / bull thing very seriously. We are now looking exclusively for verified and validated men from Kasidie and SDC and she communicates directly with them via an actual phone number before it gets too far. We also have booked a few IR events and have communicated with several solid and experienced bulls. It think we have turned the corner and set ourselves up for success in finding some quality people who will be long term lovers for Mrs Zsa. We may meet someone here but it will be more difficult to get to that "let's meet stage" especially if they just ask for pics and insist on communicating on KIK. To me that spell fake, flake or pic collector though I am sure there are exceptions.
To each their own but we are trying to learn as much as we can from the established serious bulls we are talking to. The China Shop podcasts at Keys and Anklets have taught us what to expect, qualities to insist on and our role in making sure that the men we gain as friends are respected just as we would hope to be. Hopefully we have learned enough to minimize ghosting, rejection and wasting valuable time on those who have zero intention on meeting.