Agreed. Well, there is a stigma attached to it being messy just by the nature of the hole itself... and really all it takes is one impatient guy or one bad experience to completely taint (pun intended) the experience forever.Fingering and licking is a great place to start and show it can feel good and enjoyable. It helps to relax and get into the mood. Anal is just one of those things that seems to have a negative stigma around it for a lot of people. I remember when I started so many of my friends spoke about how it was uncomfortable or down right painful and I was on the opposite end of the spectrum.
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