In toto, we agree with the OP with caveats. We play as a couple and are both active online. We may end up posting a few pictures but doubt few, if any, of them will be "action" shots nor will they be face pictures. In this small corner of the real world, being condemned for our choice of play partners is a not a likely outcome; however, in the world where we reside the majority of the time, i.e., work, family and friends, knowledge of our sexual proclivities would likely not be met with enthusiasm and positive affirmation but with derision or worse. This fact alone serves as the primary reason we have the picture policy we follow.
In our over 30 year involvement in the IR sex world, we've been members on many different sites. Some we're still a part of but one thing remains constant...the pool we will draw from will be small. We're not looking for members six states away who will only come to our area infrequently. We seek more regular encounters with the man/men we invite into our life together. Therefore, if you're local to our area, our interest will culminate in a vanilla meeting to assess chemistry amonst all of us and gauge if there is a reason to proceed further down the path to the bedroom or not. It is usually this step that allows us to weed out the "lookie loos" as we refer to them. Adults meet in adult ways and do not need to have their desire to meet someone stimulated by nude pictures showing the party in question engaged in sexual congress with a black man in order to provide "proof" one is who they profess to be. I, personally, am not a "size queen," so the length, girth and heft of your cock are, truly, inconsequential to me; it is more important you know how to use what you possess to bring me to orgasm. THAT is something not tied to cock size in my experience; rather it is based in one's skill as a sexual partner at first and, hopefully, as a lover if things progress to the long-term.
As for the comments regarding the number of fakes on sites such as this, we wholeheartedly agree. It is usually at the "face to face" meeting negotiations when we find out who is a one-handed typer and who is a genuine black man interested in the type of relationship my husband and I seek. Unfortunately, anyone with a credit card, a device and a desire can join sites such as this and play in their fantasy world to their heart's content. It's sad because it makes finding the right person a bit more difficult, but it also ensures we value those few nuggets of gold we do find on sites like this who become a part of our journey in the IR sex world.
And FYI my avatar is 100% real! That is me and my wife or SO ( significant other) and the bull was the one took the photo... that night it was Dwayne Johnson AKA THE ROCK. Can you smell what im cooking????
