I have to ask. Why is verification so important? Just posting a few naked pictures of you and your husband all of sudden make you real? We have been swingers for many years. For us, the Real designation would only be useful if it meant the people you are corresponding with have a Real Interest in a meeting, and that they are being honest!
Unfortunately, this is what it is a place to share a fantasy. Extensive experience has taught us that the vast majority of contact sites like this are there for fantasy and getting off by e-mail. They talk a good game, but when it comes time to show up, they never do. The solution for us is that we always meet at a swing club. That does two things. If they are fakes they don't have the courage to go to a swing club. That eliminates most of the fakes. In the rare situation where they do show up, and the picture they sent you was 20 years and 30 pounds ago, there are other options. There is also a place to play when things do workout!
On the internet, you can be anyone you choose. I can't imagine that posting a few naked pictures make it any more likely that you'll be honest and actually do what you say you'll do. Am I wrong?
, and here’s why:
