So we have been into this lifestyle for awhile now and never pulled the trigger as both of us are mostly introverted and dont go out much. I (the wife) spontaneously used a empty house my husband and I own to invite over a college football coach over for a little fun. My husband and I have rules that we follow but I completely disregarded them as I was trying to turn him on with it. With that said, the sex was terrible. The guy had a decent cock. (8") or so but I couldnt get into it. I could barely feel him and he was only into missionary.. I dont know how to continue to want to try this because it was so bad. Ive been with one man since I was 16 and I dont understand how that happens.. I guess my question is, has anyone else here, experienced this? My husband was really pissed off because some of the rules we agreed to didnt happen (safety and agreement) and to top it off, it wasnt good. I feel like a need a little council to help me get past this.
Haven’t you heard, most people think ? and say, the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence....
Truth of the matter is, why don’t you water ? n take care of your own lawn, it will be nice ? and green just like your neighbor as well.
heard a story about a couple who were on a date at a restaurant. The two were finished eating so the man asked for the waiter to bring him a to-go box. This was a nicer place, so the waiter took the food back and boxed it for him. He put the box of food in a paper bag and rushed out to give it to the man.
On the way home, the woman happened to peek in the bag and gasped. Instead of a to-go box, she counted nearly $2,000 in cash! Apparently, the manager had a bag of petty cash sitting around, and the waiter, in a rush, accidentally grabbed it instead of the to-go box.
So the two turned around and headed straight back to the restaurant. When the man ran in and gave the money back, the ecstatic manager told him, “I’m going to call the newspaper and let them know you’re the most honest man in town!”
The man looked at the manager and said, “No, no, no. You see, I’m married… and the woman I’m with isn’t my wife.”
Sometimes, what people seem to be on the outside isn’t who they are on the inside. In fact, to find someone who is honest through-and-through is a rarity these days. So in a world full of people who are consistently inconsistent with their morals and values, be the exception!
Bottom line, be happy ? n content with your husband/ wife at home, and no need to look for a lover. Once you start this lifestyle, you won’t stop ? n it becomes an obsession n addiction.
REPRESENT CHRIST WELL BY BEING CONSISTENT IN YOUR VALUES, WHATEVER THE CIRCUMSTANCE.