After 3 years, It finally happened and we are both confused

[whtcpl4fun]

If a man cums in less than 5 mins. He knows he did bad. Haha

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[deepbreeder]

Smoke some weed

 

[MrRyanIron32]

Unfortunately some times things don’t seem to work out the way you expect.. A couple of years back I meet up with a black guy that ended in a hotel room and I can say when we started he almost choked me when I sucked his cock grabbing my head and shoving me on his cock, we had sex he was so rough held me around the throat I couldn’t breath and he bit my tit and nipple and made that ******* I told him to get off and go to that he became all aggressive and verbally abused me... so went into the bathroom and locked it and rang hotel reception and asked them to help ... he left thank goodness... I was that worried I left that hotel and booked another room in a different hotel.... a memorable date for all the wrong reasons... always cautious when meeting guys ...

Sorry that you went through that.

 

[Holestuffer]

So we have been into this lifestyle for awhile now and never pulled the trigger as both of us are mostly introverted and dont go out much. I (the wife) spontaneously used a empty house my husband and I own to invite over a college football coach over for a little fun. My husband and I have rules that we follow but I completely disregarded them as I was trying to turn him on with it. With that said, the sex was terrible. The guy had a decent cock. (8") or so but I couldnt get into it. I could barely feel him and he was only into missionary.. I dont know how to continue to want to try this because it was so bad. Ive been with one man since I was 16 and I dont understand how that happens.. I guess my question is, has anyone else here, experienced this? My husband was really pissed off because some of the rules we agreed to didnt happen (safety and agreement) and to top it off, it wasnt good. I feel like a need a little council to help me get past this.

You just need to find the right BBC! ??‍

 

[latinmaleny1986]

So we have been into this lifestyle for awhile now and never pulled the trigger as both of us are mostly introverted and dont go out much. I (the wife) spontaneously used a empty house my husband and I own to invite over a college football coach over for a little fun. My husband and I have rules that we follow but I completely disregarded them as I was trying to turn him on with it. With that said, the sex was terrible. The guy had a decent cock. (8") or so but I couldnt get into it. I could barely feel him and he was only into missionary.. I dont know how to continue to want to try this because it was so bad. Ive been with one man since I was 16 and I dont understand how that happens.. I guess my question is, has anyone else here, experienced this? My husband was really pissed off because some of the rules we agreed to didnt happen (safety and agreement) and to top it off, it wasnt good. I feel like a need a little council to help me get past this.

threesomes of any kind are hard to coordinate, and just like any endeavor, the more you attempt it the better you get at it.

 

[Molly1980]

Sex no matter how you plan is entirely unpredictable if you do it right. Is not feel natural if you operate off of structure. It need to be instinctive to feel natural and pleasurable. Go into sexual endeavors with no expectations other than to enjoy and you can't be disappointed. Less rules more impulse

 

[MrRyanIron32]

Be Front as fuck with your expectations. I prefer a partner who can play hard. Ive been disappointed someone who was toooo tender and nice, since then, I lay down what I'm looking for exactly, ask about experinces With that activity and how they feel about it, THEN if they pass nun physical vetting, the link ensues.
People hate to have their time wasted, don't be afraid to state exactly what you'd like
Provide porn for examples

I like this advice. It's always best to be honest and up front about what you're looking for and what expectations you have.