Hi!
I hope everyone is doing well! I'm just looking for some quick advice or scenarios on a situation I'm going to go through.
I had a three some a couple months ago with my bf and a black guy and I'd say it was a positive experience. One of the biggest reasons it was a three some was that when me and my bf were initially going to do this, we wanted to be safe and comfortable for me. So having someone familiar there was good! Of course, my bf's main reasons was obviously he wanted to participate.
I'm thinking of wanting to try a bbc again but this time just between me and the black guy we choose. The reason is that while the three some was good, it sort of ruined the rythm whenever someone switched places and it was a bit distracting. So that is my little complaint about a three some.
Is there a way to bring up the fact that you might not want your partner to be there? Or at least not be a participant? I just think it's a sensitive topic and can come off the wrong way.
It'd also give me a chance to try to find a bbc on the larger side too lol. The previous guy we had a three some with was 22 cm which was good! But this time maybe a bigger?
I hope everyone is doing well! I'm just looking for some quick advice or scenarios on a situation I'm going to go through.
I had a three some a couple months ago with my bf and a black guy and I'd say it was a positive experience. One of the biggest reasons it was a three some was that when me and my bf were initially going to do this, we wanted to be safe and comfortable for me. So having someone familiar there was good! Of course, my bf's main reasons was obviously he wanted to participate.
I'm thinking of wanting to try a bbc again but this time just between me and the black guy we choose. The reason is that while the three some was good, it sort of ruined the rythm whenever someone switched places and it was a bit distracting. So that is my little complaint about a three some.
Is there a way to bring up the fact that you might not want your partner to be there? Or at least not be a participant? I just think it's a sensitive topic and can come off the wrong way.
It'd also give me a chance to try to find a bbc on the larger side too lol. The previous guy we had a three some with was 22 cm which was good! But this time maybe a bigger?