When I was in my late 20's, my girlfirend at the time was cheating with a black man she worked with. We had been together for about 2 years and she was cheating with him for the last 6 months of that when they had the chance to meet. He actually lived out of town but traveled back and forth to her division office where they met. She started traveling to his city using the excuse of work, but later admitted to me that they spent all of their time together in his hotel room. I met him once before I knew about it and we was very arrogant and about 10 years older. We broke up when she told me over dinner one night out at a restaurant. Fast forward, my wife today has not cheated and I know she wouldn't do anything without us discussing it first, but she does openly tell me she is curious to try black if the right opportunity comes along. I am not in favor of cheating, but I think it happens much more than most peopel think.