Will the term "Bull" ever be dropped?

[SanDiegoBlack]

"Black Bull" has never sat well with me. May be an exciting term to some, but is that really the way most people look at us Black men? Too late to replace it, but if we could, what term or phrase would you use? Stud (just about the same meaning)? Black Lover (depends on the meaning of love). Thoughts?

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Just a lifestyle nickname, don't think too much into it. Unless YOU seriously looking for love? I can't help you there

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

Just a lifestyle nickname, don't think too much into it. Unless YOU seriously looking for love? I can't help you there

I doubt many on here are looking for serious love. It's just hard to brush it off as nothing. I think a lot of Whites, Latinos, Asians, Europeans and others wonder why that particular term is used. Just asking...

 

[CyberpunkBBW]

I think it ironically puts lots of pressure on you blacks. The world has stereotypes of you as hung and sex-addicted and expects this of every black. It is like every German is belligerent and has no humor or every Chinese is a master of martial art

 

[funtime46112]

BBC is what i prefer, as it Tells me and the other party exactly what im lookin for...

 

[KatKat2021]

A "Bull" isn't just used in the interracial world lol. A Bull can be any ethnicity depending on the situation.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

I doubt many on here are looking for serious love. It's just hard to brush it off as nothing. I think a lot of Whites, Latinos, Asians, Europeans and others wonder why that particular term is used. Just asking...

I actually did a lot of research on this lifestyle 8 years ago.

"BULL" basically references any man (not just black) who is a sexual partner for many women. The same way one actual ******* bull is used on many different cows.

nothing racial about. Lifestyle terminology

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

I actually did a lot of research on this lifestyle 8 years ago.

"BULL" basically references any man (not just black) who is a sexual partner for many women. The same way one actual ******* bull is used on many different cows.

nothing racial about. Lifestyle terminology.

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

BBC is what i prefer, as it Tells me and the other party exactly what im lookin for...

I've heard this term far more often than "Bull." Even if it only applies to far less than one half of us!

 

[MagicMikeATX]

I refer to women as BBC Sluts and Snowbunnies, Hotwives, fuckdoll, fuckbunny, Babygirl... The list goes on

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

I refer to women as BBC Sluts and Snowbunnies, Hotwives, fuckdoll, fuckbunny, Babygirl... The list goes on

She must have given you a clue before you went to some of those phrases. Most of the women I've met wouldn't want to be called a slut, fuckbunny, fuckdoll, etc. I can imagine a few even saying, "what the hell did you call me?"

 

[MagicMikeATX]

She must have given you a clue before you went to some of these phrases. Most of the women I've met wouldn't want to be called a slut, fuckbunny, fuckdoll, etc. I can imagine a few even saying, "what the hell did you call me?"

Not really CLUES, its not a guessing game.
Just ask them upfront "what do you like to be called?'
Some women get reeeeal naughty in the moment. Those my favorite

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

Not really CLUES, its not a guessing game.
Just ask them upfront "what do you like to be called?'
Some women get reeeeal naughty in the moment. Those my favorite

Cool....Now I understand!

 

[BaltMDcple]

We've always played with Karl, or Frank, Bill. Don't remember any Bulls.

 

[James Moody]

I'm on record as not preferring the term "bull" myself but not enough that it keeps me up late at night or anything. Frankly, I like giving it to a woman in a way that she gets so turned on, hot and ready to cum that she'll even start making up names to call me and start speaking in tongues. That's what it's all about!!

As for before we get to that stage, I know what she's talking about and wanting and that communication, that understanding is all that really matters.

 

[Mdelgr]

Not every man is a bull (and any ethnicity can be a bull), just like not every black man has a BBC. Some just have an average sized black cock. Lol

 

[JemmaNye&Herbi]

BBC is what i prefer, as it Tells me and the other party exactly what im lookin for...

But they're not interchangable. BBC stands for big black cock, not the person it's attached to.

 

[Mdelgr]

But they're not interchangable. BBC stands for big black cock, not the person it's attached to.

That’s exactly my point…. that many people (particularly black men themselves) think black man = BBC when maybe it’s just a BC.

 

[Jockjester]

Not all brothers are Bulls and not all Bulls are Black.

 

[NaijaCokk]

It better be dropped. It is derogatory. Slut is quite normal. Cuck is a chosen term. Bull is like a slave male cow used to plough and till the land for sugarcane planting...