Wife stormed out about cuckold fantasy
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yeah dude your gonna get slapped and be called a sick fuck. probably wont get any pussy off her anymore.
You can learn to seduce her to want black dick with out you telling her. Can teach uoi white Boy
....Joey, you make it kind of difficult for members to help you; you've provided no info on what "steps" you've done thus far, her reactions to them, etc. In fact, you haven't discussed your wife's "particulars" at all, so any suggestions you get are going to be "general", not specific to your own situation.
....First, understand that this isn't an easy topic to talk about with the average married wife. To many, sex is a part of the love in a marriage, not a separate event. For example, if your wife won't masturbate in front of you ... its a good indication that love & sex are one and the same for her, and sex is something she prefers the 2 of you share together. She would prefer you giving her orgasms, not her pleasing herself when she's horny. So, it'll help tremendously if you can help her separate those events so she can actually sexually enjoy her own body, with or without you.
....Second, every couple and person is different ... this is not a cookie cutter event that follows basic steps. Each couple and person involved need to evolve into this activity in a way that is acceptable to their terms. You've already evolved, obviously ... ready to go, but your wife hasn't. IF she's to consider this activity, you need to resolve her issues about it, and you don't even know what they are, I don't think. That gets us back to the first sentence I wrote ... what have the 2 of you done thus far, and what have been her responses?
....Lastly, if your relationship isn't to the point where you can discuss topics without someone getting upset, then its a pretty good indicator your marriage isn't stable enough to introduce a third sex partner into your marriage. Cuckolding and swinging are violations to the standard marriage and relationship, so I imagine you have several steps to accomplish before you realize the real event ... therefore, you might should just get use to "jerking off" like most everyone else until then.
....Help us out a bit, here in this forum ... ok?
....Mac
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Well first of all, Joey14, I would say that MacNfries hit the nail on the head in his comments! I would also add this I totally agree with his comment, "every couple and person is different ..." Unquote.
I've written about my initial experience with my wife, Pam, on numerous posts on this site, however I'll give you a short, quick dissertation which might be of interest and, perhaps, address at least a portion of your anxieties as to how your wife might react.
The first time I ever suggested anything to Pam we were married almost a full year. It was about a little fantasy of mine about seeing a black guy get into a white girl, or more bluntly, I directly asked her, "Did you ever think of a black guy getting into you?" The result was that I ended up that night sleeping in the spare bedroom plus the following four nights! It would be an understatement to suggest the the temperature around the house when I was home was well below the freezing point for that period. (Did I mention that I was also called a sex pervert!) (lol) Anyway, I learned my lesson .... real well! I did not however lose my fantasy or my determination to share it with her! I did however allow several months lapse before I ever mentioned anything to her again. I quickly learned to take advantage of every little opportunity to bring up anything interracial! I recall vacationing in Bermuda, a place we love to visit. Bermuda has numerous little secluded beaches which are easily accessible but never crowed. You may/may not be aware but the most favoured way to get around in Bermuda is by Scooter/motor bike/motor cycle. Anyway, early one morning we got on our scooters to take a full day touring the island. On one of those stops we climbed down an embankment to a small beach area. It was about noon by this time. We thought we were alone until we got down there. The mixed couple, probably in their late teens, didn't hear us probably because of the motion of the ocean as they say! I recall the gasped look on Pam's face as she stared and seemed to be frozen in time. The white girl was on her back, the black guy removed himself from between her outstretched legs, holding onto his manhood, bought it to her mouth as she simultaneously sat up, mouth open to receive his big black cock and whatever desert it might offer! She balanced herself with one hand on the ground and grasped his cock with the other and sucked furiously! I recall he grasping her head in both hands as he thrust back and forth. I don't know how long it took, perhaps just seconds, when it was evident that he had unloaded into her mouth as his cum began to run down her chin onto her breasts as she gagged! At that point our presence was given away as Pam yelled, "Oh, My God! Did you see that!", or something similar, anyway, the couple scrambled to cover up and Pam and I scrambled back up the path way much faster than we had come down. I had learned my lesson well! I never said a word about that event for weeks on end! Somehow however, I knew Pam would at some point! Then she did one night when we were out with some friends for dinner and the subject turned to vacations. Pam, unabashedly bought up the matter we had seen while vacationing in Bermuda. After that, whenever the opportunity presented itself, I would bring up little things, for example, if I saw a nice looking black guy I'd simply ask, "You like that black guy?", or if we were on a beach and a black guy walked by I'd say, "Think you could handle that black guy!" or, "Think that black is well hung?" Eventually Pam came around and would often insitgate a little fantasy herself! The four years ago this March (2017) Pam got blackened. That happened while she and I were on a combined vacation/convention trip. The night of our arrival we were attending a pre-convention cocktail party where, surprisingly, I met up with an old university friend and roommate of mine, Edwin. The following night we went out to dinner, did lots of club hopping afterwards, drank a little more that perhaps we might have had otherwise done, upon returning to our hotel we all ended in our suite for a nightcap and Edwin ended up balls deep in Pam.
Getting Pam to spread her legs and get her first big black cock was an overnight effort that took almost nine years! If you think you can convince your wife to do likewise within a few weeks or months, good luck! The concern you expressed is then probably totally justified! I think I would've been concerned also if Pam had spread her legs after just a year or so married! If you're looking for an overnight success, good luck, you're gonna need it!
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Start slow. Don't tell her everything just ask what she's interested in. Get a conversation started.
....Joey, regarding my comment in #5 regarding masturbation, it took me over 5 years before I finally got my wife to masturbate to orgasm in front of me. And I use her own words ... "that's why I have you" as to why she was so shy to do it in front of me. By the way, we started "swinging" with other couples & individuals when we were in college together, so getting her to screw other men in front of me wasn't an issue when we married ... but, the self-masturbation was an issue to her.
Some very good comments!
While my gf didn't storm out or anything, her first reaction was a "That won't happen with me". I left it at that and we continued on with life (very positively!)
She circled back to it on her own over a period of time and we have talked more and more to the point I signed up here and we read the various posts, articles, interviews, discuss the positives and negatives and bit by bit we are making forward progress.
I'm looking forward to her being comfortable enough to where WE have a profile here and she contributes openly and regularly as well.
For my own situation it was important to me to be open and honest with her as that is foundation of our relationship.
Positive or negative, she deserves to know what headspace I am in and more importantly to have my respect whatever her position was as a result of our initial discussion.
I am fortunate in that we are moving in what we both consider a positive direction but unless your wife can magically read your mind, "The Talk" will have to happen.
Hope it works out for you!
While my gf didn't storm out or anything, her first reaction was a "That won't happen with me". I left it at that and we continued on with life (very positively!)
She circled back to it on her own over a period of time and we have talked more and more to the point I signed up here and we read the various posts, articles, interviews, discuss the positives and negatives and bit by bit we are making forward progress.
I'm looking forward to her being comfortable enough to where WE have a profile here and she contributes openly and regularly as well.
For my own situation it was important to me to be open and honest with her as that is foundation of our relationship.
Positive or negative, she deserves to know what headspace I am in and more importantly to have my respect whatever her position was as a result of our initial discussion.
I am fortunate in that we are moving in what we both consider a positive direction but unless your wife can magically read your mind, "The Talk" will have to happen.
Hope it works out for you!
good answer....................
yes !!!!!!!!!
I've approached it using the idea of a threesome. Lots of women that I've been with are pretty open to at least talking about a threesome with another woman. If they're ok with that then I kind of shift it to threesomes with another man and see how she responds.
good idea,,,,,,,,
Thanks for the info, I totally get what you are saying and the reason I started the thread is because I started everything slow and when I encouraged her wearing sexy dresses she was confused howcome I don't get jealous when othem men are checking her out and why is it exciting for me to watch. I thought by telling her that other men are checking her out is something she will enjoy. She is very shy and she says other men checking her out makes her uncomfortable so I stopped talking about it for awhile and gave her space to do whatever she is comfortable with. I don't think she will actually storm out and get mad but she wouldn't understand.
Once we watched porn together and she hated it and thinks it's disgusting. On the hand sometimes she gives me that indication that her flirting with other men while I'm there can be exciting. It's been a year since I started very slowly but I see no progress. I don't wanna be pushy if it's not gonna happen I think i should give up the whole thing and keep it to myself.
Thanks for the info, I totally get what you are saying and the reason I started the thread is because I started everything slow and when I encouraged her wearing sexy dresses she was confused howcome I don't get jealous when othem men are checking her out and why is it exciting for me to watch. I thought by telling her that other men are checking her out is something she will enjoy. She is very shy and she says other men checking her out makes her uncomfortable so I stopped talking about it for awhile and gave her space to do whatever she is comfortable with. I don't think she will actually storm out and get mad but she wouldn't understand.
Once we watched porn together and she hated it and thinks it's disgusting. On the hand sometimes she gives me that indication that her flirting with other men while I'm there can be exciting. It's been a year since I started very slowly but I see no progress. I don't wanna be pushy if it's not gonna happen I think i should give up the whole thing and keep it to myself.
Thanks for the info, I totally get what you are saying and the reason I started the thread is because I started everything slow and when I encouraged her wearing sexy dresses she was confused howcome I don't get jealous when othem men are checking her out and why is it exciting for me to watch. I thought by telling her that other men are checking her out is something she will enjoy. She is very shy and she says other men checking her out makes her uncomfortable so I stopped talking about it for awhile and gave her space to do whatever she is comfortable with. I don't think she will actually storm out and get mad but she wouldn't understand.
Once we watched porn together and she hated it and thinks it's disgusting. On the hand sometimes she gives me that indication that her flirting with other men while I'm there can be exciting. It's been a year since I started very slowly but I see no progress. I don't wanna be pushy if it's not gonna happen I think i should give up the whole thing and keep it to myself.
Thanks that was really helpful
