My question - Has this happened to anyone else and were you quicker with the iPhone cam than me?
My wife of 15 years together 25 (******* flown the nest) went for an evening out, supposedly, with a girlfriend. Nothing unusual, then a friend texted that I should go to a country pub about 25 miles from where we live, as he thought something was unusual. I later covered it and spoke and allayed his concern.
Anyway, I drove out to the pub which is a typical small English ye olde country pub, dimly lit and cosy. I went in by the side door and saw my wife sitting at a corner table with a good looking, well dressed black guy. A shock to say the least. They were flirting and behaving as if they were a couple, I don't think this was the first meeting. She'd had a few drinks, judging by the half empty wine bottle on the table they were sharing and I think her more than him. They hadn't seen me come in, so I sat out of sight with a ******* and watched. She's always had a thing about black guys since I first met her but never acted on it although I did encourage her, so perhaps this is a hidden leaning for me.
I admit I felt strange, mad but more and more turned on. She was wearing, (not in the clothes she went out in), a new dress far more revealing than normal, and definitely wasn't wearing a bra which was usually a no-no, I could see the action clearly from my position, and as the pub was fairly busy, I could keep hidden. She was obviously very comfortable with him and he was discreetly taking advantage with roaming hands in and under her dress with her encouragement, and her hands roamed over his lap from time to time. She was completely wrapped up in this guy.
By the time I started to think more clearly and before I could get my iPhone out to take some shots, she'd made herself decent and they got up and left through the main door, went to his car and drove off. I returned home. I was so confused by my mix of feelings, but horny was definitely winning.
She came home around 2.30 am, she quietly peeked into the bedroom, I pretended to be asleep so she went into the family bathroom so she could undress with the light on and remove make up etc the intention not to wake me. I slipped out of bed and was able to watch her undress through the partially open bathroom door, and no there was definitely no underwear at all, but God she looked fabulous and to my surprise, shaved. All completely out of character and a surprise to me.
In the morning she acted normal, perhaps a little more attentive to me and later in the evening was rather playful and horny, what with her new idea of shaving (for me, obviously haha) and the memory of previous night, I'm afraid things happened a bit quicker than it should have, not normal. But sex is so much better and adventurous at home now. So I guess we're all winners.
A little later, (afterwards), she said her girlfriend had had such an enjoyable evening and had suggested they go out once a week, was that OK?
Absolutely, only this time I'll be right behind her with phone cam ready.
I'll give it some time and see how this plays out and try to get her to come out in the open with it - a step at a time.
I am really excited, but am I nuts? what do I do next?
My wife of 15 years together 25 (******* flown the nest) went for an evening out, supposedly, with a girlfriend. Nothing unusual, then a friend texted that I should go to a country pub about 25 miles from where we live, as he thought something was unusual. I later covered it and spoke and allayed his concern.
Anyway, I drove out to the pub which is a typical small English ye olde country pub, dimly lit and cosy. I went in by the side door and saw my wife sitting at a corner table with a good looking, well dressed black guy. A shock to say the least. They were flirting and behaving as if they were a couple, I don't think this was the first meeting. She'd had a few drinks, judging by the half empty wine bottle on the table they were sharing and I think her more than him. They hadn't seen me come in, so I sat out of sight with a ******* and watched. She's always had a thing about black guys since I first met her but never acted on it although I did encourage her, so perhaps this is a hidden leaning for me.
I admit I felt strange, mad but more and more turned on. She was wearing, (not in the clothes she went out in), a new dress far more revealing than normal, and definitely wasn't wearing a bra which was usually a no-no, I could see the action clearly from my position, and as the pub was fairly busy, I could keep hidden. She was obviously very comfortable with him and he was discreetly taking advantage with roaming hands in and under her dress with her encouragement, and her hands roamed over his lap from time to time. She was completely wrapped up in this guy.
By the time I started to think more clearly and before I could get my iPhone out to take some shots, she'd made herself decent and they got up and left through the main door, went to his car and drove off. I returned home. I was so confused by my mix of feelings, but horny was definitely winning.
She came home around 2.30 am, she quietly peeked into the bedroom, I pretended to be asleep so she went into the family bathroom so she could undress with the light on and remove make up etc the intention not to wake me. I slipped out of bed and was able to watch her undress through the partially open bathroom door, and no there was definitely no underwear at all, but God she looked fabulous and to my surprise, shaved. All completely out of character and a surprise to me.
In the morning she acted normal, perhaps a little more attentive to me and later in the evening was rather playful and horny, what with her new idea of shaving (for me, obviously haha) and the memory of previous night, I'm afraid things happened a bit quicker than it should have, not normal. But sex is so much better and adventurous at home now. So I guess we're all winners.
A little later, (afterwards), she said her girlfriend had had such an enjoyable evening and had suggested they go out once a week, was that OK?
Absolutely, only this time I'll be right behind her with phone cam ready.
I'll give it some time and see how this plays out and try to get her to come out in the open with it - a step at a time.
I am really excited, but am I nuts? what do I do next?
