Why Become a Cuckold?

I did not choose to be a cuckold. She had an affair with a extremely well endowed man. She told me that after she had sex with him she couldn't even feel me. She said she deserved to be satisfied by a man equal to her sexual capabilities. She told me she would continue to see him. On Friday's, she worked from home. Actually, she would take me to work and spend the day with him. It was pure hell knowing what was happening. As she kept telling me how great his big cock felt, I became more and more insecure. I began to fantasize about her having sex with him. She began using the description of sex with him to play with my mind. He had us over to his house and demonstrated his dominance and his sexual control of her. I saw there was no way I could compete with him. He had me serve them and be submissive to him. That is how I became a cuckold.
 
38hsquirter said:
I did not choose to be a cuckold. She had an affair with a extremely well endowed man. She told me that after she had sex with him she couldn't even feel me. She said she deserved to be satisfied by a man equal to her sexual capabilities. She told me she would continue to see him. On Friday's, she worked from home. Actually, she would take me to work and spend the day with him. It was pure hell knowing what was happening. As she kept telling me how great his big cock felt, I became more and more insecure. I began to fantasize about her having sex with him. She began using the description of sex with him to play with my mind. He had us over to his house and demonstrated his dominance and his sexual control of her. I saw there was no way I could compete with him. He had me serve them and be submissive to him. That is how I became a cuckold.
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I take it that he was black and that you enjoyed it.
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most people generally i think have a fantasy to see their partners with another stronger man/woman and feel just helpless enjoying the view
 
38hsquirter said:
I did not choose to be a cuckold. She had an affair with a extremely well endowed man. She told me that after she had sex with him she couldn't even feel me. She said she deserved to be satisfied by a man equal to her sexual capabilities. She told me she would continue to see him. On Friday's, she worked from home. Actually, she would take me to work and spend the day with him. It was pure hell knowing what was happening. As she kept telling me how great his big cock felt, I became more and more insecure. I began to fantasize about her having sex with him. She began using the description of sex with him to play with my mind. He had us over to his house and demonstrated his dominance and his sexual control of her. I saw there was no way I could compete with him. He had me serve them and be submissive to him. That is how I became a cuckold.
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My early life was very similar, my 19yo GF wanted to end our relationship because she hated the sex we had, and so started cheating on me. In the end, just to keep her I not only painfully lived with it, but used to cover for her so she could see other men so our friends and family wouldn't find out.

At the time, the idea that anyone would find out about my size and ability would have been more painful that her with other guys. In time I became more submissive and much more bi, which in hand made it easier for her but she also lost respect for me sexually and our sex life was mainly me masturbating and her with others. Not great for 2 people in their early 20's and their sex life had already derailed.
 
38hsquirter said:
I did not choose to be a cuckold. She had an affair with a extremely well endowed man. She told me that after she had sex with him she couldn't even feel me. She said she deserved to be satisfied by a man equal to her sexual capabilities. She told me she would continue to see him. On Friday's, she worked from home. Actually, she would take me to work and spend the day with him. It was pure hell knowing what was happening. As she kept telling me how great his big cock felt, I became more and more insecure. I began to fantasize about her having sex with him. She began using the description of sex with him to play with my mind. He had us over to his house and demonstrated his dominance and his sexual control of her. I saw there was no way I could compete with him. He had me serve them and be submissive to him. That is how I became a cuckold.
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You are not alone. Many of us happened this way. She becomes addicted to big cock sex and the guy / guys who have one. Rough going at first. Then you just roll with it because you see she won't be stopping anytime soon. Then its peaks and valleys until she sees it for what it is. Then there becomes the new normal.
 
For me personally I watched a lot of interracial porn and eventually found cuckold porn. It excited me a lot though I thought I’d never be into it. For me it’s just watching my girl get fucked by someone else that’s hott. Idk why but it’s really hott to me and I have yet to be cucked by bbc but hopefully soon!
 
Suckmycuck said:
For me personally I watched a lot of interracial porn and eventually found cuckold porn. It excited me a lot though I thought I’d never be into it. For me it’s just watching my girl get fucked by someone else that’s hott. Idk why but it’s really hott to me and I have yet to be cucked by bbc but hopefully soon!
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Suckmycuck said:
For me personally I watched a lot of interracial porn and eventually found cuckold porn. It excited me a lot though I thought I’d never be into it. For me it’s just watching my girl get fucked by someone else that’s hott. Idk why but it’s really hott to me and I have yet to be cucked by bbc but hopefully soon!
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Good luck! :sex:
 
Dsoul said:
I've had this question burning inside me but always kept forgetting to post it. Its for the wives, hubbies and just about anyone/everyone here to contribute to, 'cos I feel your opinion matters a lot, though I'd appreciate your humble honesty to the question.

Have any of you ever asked the question: 'why be a cuckold?' Its not just about the wife/GF cheating on you, or that you fancy her in the arms of another, or that you can't compete with her sexually... But I want to know why or what ever brought the thought to want to do it in the first place? What really fostered the idea in your mind?

And how come a lot more couples out there are getting involved in the trend?
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Penis envy.
Size fascination.
Need to be dominated.
Desire to be submissive.
Interracial sex is magnetic. It is sweeping the country and it is a factor in the spread of cuckoldry.
Porn.
Friends.
Girlfriends interest in femdom.
Combination of interracial with cuckoldry and femdom is quite addictive.
 
WillandSusn said:
You are not alone. Many of us happened this way. She becomes addicted to big cock sex and the guy / guys who have one. Rough going at first. Then you just roll with it because you see she won't be stopping anytime soon. Then its peaks and valleys until she sees it for what it is. Then there becomes the new normal.
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I agree, when my 19yo GF started cheating on me, it was very hard to deal with, especially the realisation as to why she didn't want/enjoy sex with me. It took me years to be able to deal with it, once I saw her with other men, I was conflicted between hating what I was seeing especially the jealousy, but also the weight off my shoulders, because even though I decided to watch it, it meant she no longer cheated on me if I was there. No more lies, deceit, covering up etc.

So out of the two, watching her with others was the better of two evils. It took another couple of years before all my masturbation habits were over the sights and thoughts of her being fucked. Once I got past that point, all my orgasms were to me being cuckolded. 30+ years later, they still are. It definitely rewired my brain and its has never reversed since.
 
This is fascinating and it is for me something that I wish I had figured out sooner in life. I always had a fascination with big cocks and had many girls cheat on me when i was younger. Many!
Then in my early thirties i discussed the potential of watching my girl with a hung Black guy and she told me shed had one or two before we got together. When we split up she talked with a mutual friend about how she missed the great sex she had with her previous boyfriend and i got to find out about this conversation so i confronted her all angry and upset. She then in one conversation told me that immediately on our first sexual encounter told her friends that i was one of the smallest shes had. She told her sister i had a very small penis and this was while we were all out together. I was horrified! She then told me about the comveraation she had with our mutual friend and that she told her i was small and very thin and that i cum once and that was that.
I was absolutely gobsmacked by all this. But i was also breathless with excitement and as hard as a rock!! I never realised how powerful this could be and from that day Ive always wanted hung Black men for my girlfriends.

And..... get this..... that mutual friend, many many years later is now my girlfriend Gin. And she has embraced the cuckold lifestyle with me from day one. Although weve had our ups and downs and still yet to find a regular dominant Bull.
 
sbcplseeking1 said:
For us, I think it was a natural progression. It's not because we lack anything, it's more to show each other we love one another more than just the sex. If we remove sex with each other would our love be the same or grow stronger? If so, wouldn't that be a better situation? A deeper, closer bond? If not, couldn't we stop and just go back to being hubby and wife? For us, we got stronger!
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"...a deeper, closer bond".. DITTO
 
Dsoul said:
Do you find yourself getting quickly aroused imagining how rough a Black man would be with your woman in bed, or towards wanting her?

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. "Rough" and " Assertive" and "Forcefull" and " Aggressive" are not the same. It begins with the clarity that she wants to fuck black cock and goes on from there. The black stud knows she wants to fuck black cock so its all part of the game until she is begging him for it. Then he knows she is his and she will do what he wants because she wants the BIG O from his BBC.
 
slinky1 said:
I agree, when my 19yo GF started cheating on me, it was very hard to deal with, especially the realisation as to why she didn't want/enjoy sex with me. It took me years to be able to deal with it, once I saw her with other men, I was conflicted between hating what I was seeing especially the jealousy, but also the weight off my shoulders, because even though I decided to watch it, it meant she no longer cheated on me if I was there. No more lies, deceit, covering up etc.

So out of the two, watching her with others was the better of two evils. It took another couple of years before all my masturbation habits were over the sights and thoughts of her being fucked. Once I got past that point, all my orgasms were to me being cuckolded. 30+ years later, they still are. It definitely rewired my brain and its has never reversed since.
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. Susan black only years ago. Now its just normal that she fucks black guys. But lots of other white women and wives now doing the same. Sometimes its whatever makes/keeps them happy. Sometimes its just a huge turn on watching them naked and fucking BBC.
 
GAVnGIN said:
This is fascinating and it is for me something that I wish I had figured out sooner in life. I always had a fascination with big cocks and had many girls cheat on me when i was younger. Many!
Then in my early thirties i discussed the potential of watching my girl with a hung Black guy and she told me shed had one or two before we got together. When we split up she talked with a mutual friend about how she missed the great sex she had with her previous boyfriend and i got to find out about this conversation so i confronted her all angry and upset. She then in one conversation told me that immediately on our first sexual encounter told her friends that i was one of the smallest shes had. She told her sister i had a very small penis and this was while we were all out together. I was horrified! She then told me about the comveraation she had with our mutual friend and that she told her i was small and very thin and that i cum once and that was that.
I was absolutely gobsmacked by all this. But i was also breathless with excitement and as hard as a rock!! I never realised how powerful this could be and from that day Ive always wanted hung Black men for my girlfriends.

And..... get this..... that mutual friend, many many years later is now my girlfriend Gin. And she has embraced the cuckold lifestyle with me from day one. Although weve had our ups and downs and still yet to find a regular dominant Bull.
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. We always see it from the cuckhold view but truth be told from the womans view its all about the the BIG O. Sometimes this comes with the big cock sex and sometimes this comes with the black cock sex and sometimes it comes with the BBC. Woe be unto any man that doesnt give her the BIG O. BBC or SWP guy. However , once they have the BIG O with BBC then Woe unto all white men , SWP or otherwise.
 
For me, I've just always been comfortable with my girl fucking other guys, not as a fantasy or anything, but rather I was just comfortable if she wanted to go out and play with other guys. My wife was never into that, though. When she passed away and I met my new girlfriend and things started to get serious, she started bringing up the subject of cuckolding. Asking if I knew what it was, etc. She eventually told me that she wanted to cuckold me (she was going to be fucking other men regardless). I've always held jobs where I was required to be in charge (police officer, park ranger) and had long wanted to explore my submissive side, so I was all in with her on her cuckolding me. It just seemed natural to me.
 
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