Who suggested it? Him or her?

[SheLikesItHard]

Hi everyone,

One thing that has surprised me since I joined this site (perhaps it shouldn't have though), is that it seems in more cases that it is the guy who suggests this type of fantasy, rather than the girl.

In my case it was actually an ex girlfriend who first suggested on open relationship and then gradually convinced me to be faithful, but also to enjoy her sluttiness with black men. She had found out about cuckolding online and had always enjoyed sex with black men but also wanted a blue eyed boyfriend (she's Spanish). We always referred to it as a one way open relationship rather than cuckold because I'm not into any of this humiliation crap.

Anyway, I have since been in one other one way open relationship, and a mutually open relationship (she was only allowed with blacks, I had to ask permission before bedding any other girl). In the second case I convinced her, and in the third we basically agreed it simultaneously.

I've also been a bull to two couples.

So my question is, who suggested it? Him or her? And did you experiment with an open relationship first? Or how did you get there?

Best wishes.

 

[KatyMisbehavin]

My fantasy, no lifestyle experience with predictable results: going nowhere fast!!!

 

[blackdaddy51]

Personally, it's always the guy. Like 90% of the time but obviously there are exceptions.

 

[KatyMisbehavin]

And to add to the ladies side of the balance I was introduced to the idea by one of my girlfriends years ago. I thought it would be the opposite when we joined: women would be the ones in here exploring the fantasy

 

[KatyMisbehavin]

Personally, it's always the guy. Like 90% of the time but obviously there are exceptions.

Were you surprised by that initially too? Def more men in here as well as on the podcasts I listen to that are into it than I would have expected - and almost no women

 

[blackdaddy51]

Were you surprised by that initially too? Def more men in here as well as on the podcasts I listen to that are into it than I would have expected - and almost no women

Not really. Cuckoldry is a byproduct of porn IMO and most interracial porn consumers are men. The women that watch IR porn get hooked pretty quick as well but most don't watch it.

 

[MrLickalot69]

My fantasy, no lifestyle experience with predictable results: going nowhere fast!!!

I wish I could slow you down and turn you around, so you're heading "somewhere", preferablywith me!

 

[tampacuck45]

I had suggested 3way with another female. Then my wife said if she could have 3way with 2 men first then she would think about ffm. So I said fine. She found a guy I agreed to let her play in her own didn’t really have a choice because she was going to either way and she started having sex with him and many of his friends

 

[Happy sussex]

I know why I suggested my wife trying black guy’s for sex . I worked with a black guy and on one occasion we were stood next to each other at the urinals, call it intuition I couldn’t help but glance down at his cock god I was gob struck at its awesome size just hanging out of his pants like a hose pipe compared to mine and I had to hold mine between my fingers but still only had three fingers.
From that moment onwards I couldn’t get the image of Laddies huge cock stretching my wife’s pussy and I tried to instigate my wife having sex with Laddie and watching as he penetrated her .
As much as I tried my wife wouldn’t hear of it , I bought interracial porn films and realistic black dildos which would get her turned on and while in the throughs of watching and using them I would ask her if she was ready to try a real black cock she would scream oooh yes , but when I asked later she would say it’s only a fantasy. This went on for many years but eventually she was slowly seduced at a friends party y an older black guy and he eventually had her black cock virginity later that evening. She became totally addicted to black guy’s cocks from that night onwards.

 

[TomHardison]

My fantasy, no lifestyle experience with predictable results: going nowhere fast!!!

I'd like to change that

 

[FilthyAsFuck]

My first experience was down to a girl cheating on me with black dudes, and then making sure I caught her. So I guess that was kinda directly her idea.

 

[zacha37]

I’d say mutual, but for the longest we were an “only if it happens organically,” couple. My wife briefly dated a black guy before we met, hearing stories about the two of them would always turn us both on, and we eventually decided to give the lifestyle a try.

We aren't very active for a multitude of reasons, but watching her let go with a bull is a feeling like none other.

 

[demalejpo]

Hi everyone,

One thing that has surprised me since I joined this site (perhaps it shouldn't have though), is that it seems in more cases that it is the guy who suggests this type of fantasy, rather than the girl.

In my case it was actually an ex girlfriend who first suggested on open relationship and then gradually convinced me to be faithful, but also to enjoy her sluttiness with black men. She had found out about cuckolding online and had always enjoyed sex with black men but also wanted a blue eyed boyfriend (she's Spanish). We always referred to it as a one way open relationship rather than cuckold because I'm not into any of this humiliation crap.

Anyway, I have since been in one other one way open relationship, and a mutually open relationship (she was only allowed with blacks, I had to ask permission before bedding any other girl). In the second case I convinced her, and in the third we basically agreed it simultaneously.

I've also been a bull to two couples.

So my question is, who suggested it? Him or her? And did you experiment with an open relationship first? Or how did you get there?

Best wishes.

Once medication made me impotent my elderly wife insisted that she have the option of fucking other men and I readily agreed. She had put up with my teensy peepee for decades and now it was completely useless. So she took up with our Black neighbor and I became a pussyfree cocksucker which I must confess I enjoy quite a bit.

 

[jd9019]

She did, for safety reasons because it was all new to her and she didn't know him. He thought it was odd but they both enjoys it so I'm always precense at their dates.

 

[Ezekiel]

I suggested (begged) her to fuck other men. She suggested he be a black man. We both won.