Who on here has just kept this a fantasy

Defenitley she knows it does.. I think I have these feelings because she's only ever really been with me and 1 other guy when she was younger.. I feel she must have a tiny Interest to use the black dildo out the 3 we have , when we got it she text me whilst I was in the other room saying "time for some bbc" so I just enjoyed the moment tried not to talk much more about it as I was lucky she got the black dildo in the first place and before a few years back she wouldn't even want me to get one so I made progress there for sure
Try hiding the black dildo and see how she reacts? Toy with her. Make it fun.
 
I know that, I mean from some of my own friends, girls who outwardly wear hijab and seem religious using vibrators while they watch blacked.com lol girls wearing hijab Lezzing off with each other in shisha places. It’s all hypocrisy really. While I feel I need to be careful I’m not going to not enjoy myself because of community fears. Life is too short!
Lol I think the vibrators are standard for a lot of hijabis!! Yeah I've seen a bit of the lezzing too in shisha places but thats more of the younger gen. My missus is cock crazy, not into girls at all!

I think the whole community thing will become easier in a generation or two, most of the old people in a decade or two will have tried some bi stuff and group!! Lol they might even keep doing it when they're naanis and daadis!!
 
So I had this fetish/fantasy for 5 years now, my wife's aware of what I like she doesn't talk on it to much though . We have a black dildo she enjoys it alot and so do I watching her ride it , she cums and creams up on it hard and its her fav dildo out our selection.. sometimes I think things are better left a fantasy to avoid disappointment, I think the reality will never be as good as you imagine in your head , especially as my wife claims not to be that into black guys , but I love this site and I wont ever stop IR porn and the fantasy will stick with me for the rest of my life I feel , it's a hot fantasy to have i enjoy taking to people who share the same feelings . Dont get me wrong I'd love to see my wife getting blacked theres nothing more I'd love to see then some bbc balls deep in her but I know it cant be a reality for numerous reasons but still il live with this fantasy for the rest of my life as obviously you cannot ******* you wife into something you like for your own pleasure
Absolutely spot on.
 
I worry my husband will get mad afterwards and I don’t want to lose my marriage. I will still do it but I know the next morning I will have some regrets. If he ends up being ok with it I will also, unless my first is a total nut job.

If it weren’t for COVID we would have already met someone. The guy we were to meet last year got it, and at that time I was looking after my mom who had Alzheimer’s so we weren’t about to see him after knowing that. Since then we have had many talks with guys who want to meet us but this COVID thing scares the hell out of us.
 
I worry my husband will get mad afterwards and I don’t want to lose my marriage. I will still do it but I know the next morning I will have some regrets. If he ends up being ok with it I will also, unless my first is a total nut job.

If it weren’t for COVID we would have already met someone. The guy we were to meet last year got it, and at that time I was looking after my mom who had Alzheimer’s so we weren’t about to see him after knowing that. Since then we have had many talks with guys who want to meet us but this COVID thing scares the hell out of us.
 
I know the feeling from a husband’s point of view. When my wife took her first bull at 44 she was nervous about my reaction.
Yes I had some reservations but we had spoken a lot about it , we arranged a meet and I backed out. We talked again and she assured me it’s only for the sex and big cock she wanted to play.

we arranged another meet, this time I didn’t back out. We had a few drinks and my wife went to powder her nose . Scott was a decent guy he instantly wanted to fuck Christine when he saw her on Skype she had an amazing body , ultra petite tiny pert tits he said if he got to fuck her it would probably only be the once so he would be grinned and said he’s going for her ass as-well if he can . He knew I had reservations but he’s said to me she was determined to get fucked on our meet today. In my heart I knew any way.

she returned with a spring in her step , smiled at Scott and said let’s go. I looked at her and her heart sank , I was cool and said you are going with Scott I will stay here and watch the cricket. She didn’t hesitate, I got a peck on the cheek and a see you later. They disappeared out the door. I could not watch this younger really good looking guy fuck my wife.

they returned about 4 hours later, he kissed her and said speak soon. Pretty much silence on the way back, we spoke at home and I was right not to have watched Scott had given Christine a serious rough hammering. Which she fucking loved.

the moral is if hubby is unsure keep it a fantasy.

I am glad I never watched them she spent the next 3 months twice a week with Scott when the ******* were at school. He definitely got a lot of fun out of Christine. As it was my idea I just let her play hoping it was a one off. Nope definitely not a one off.
 
Yes I read Noreen’s stuff, very interesting and I compeletely understand where she is coming from. I havnt been ‘brave’ enough to do anywhere near the stuff she has done. Heck I havnt even told many people I am Bisexual, only a few of my friends know and I’m very selective over who I can tell certain things to. The fear of things getting ‘out’ is a massive one. At the end of the day I am a married woman and I want my marriage to be successful, my biggest fear is I do something with a ‘bull’ and then my husband loses respect for me or feels differently after. I have heard of that stuff happening. It is funny that our community’s are like that anyhow as so many people do stuff behind closed doors.
hi babe, every sister has those fears and its only after ur start u realise all the hangups were just keeping u from having fun and enjoying yourself. if ur husband wants this, there isnt anything u can do to lose his respect.

pm me if u want to chat more. i can speak to both u and ur hubby and talk through some of ur issues. its a fun lifestyle but there're a few things you both need to know and do right from the beginning if u want to enjoy it safely. truth is the rules of the game are a bit different if ur asian and muslim and a lot of the time non asians dont understand. but they're our baggage and we understand them well lol.
 
The truth is fantasy is where it's at for most. In every sexual fantasy there are more talkers than players. Lots of reasons for that. I suspect in this one it might just be that the men in most cases have the idea first. Talking the mate into it as some here have stated previously took years. That's a lot of effort, more than many put into making it happen.
Then there are a abundance of reasons to hesitate, too long to list. It can work but both half's of the couple have to want and work at making it a reality. I think if it were easy the numbers of those doing some form would be much higher. Communication is key to everything, talk about everything even the things that you find difficult. The chance of anything you think of cumming up are good so get them out of the way before getting hit by them.
I know of no study or publication to back it up but my feeling is look at your history. If you've had strong feelings of jealousy or insecurity in relationships previously proceed with caution. They are natural and very often repeat. They are the mane reasons for failure in the lifestyle. The falling in love with the other male or female a mere fraction in comparison.
 
Thanks for your reply. She's a very one person women. She's been with me 11 years and we have a great relationship. Great sex life to . We literally use the black dildo every fortnight I'd say it's her favourite one but she tells me she's not into black guys.. she thinks cheating is disgusting and stuff so its quite hard to touch on .. she found IR porn on my phone before she says u love black dicks in white pussies dont you . I just laughed it off haha .. she knows I like hence the dildo . I think I mentioned it before and she was like if you love me you wouldn't want another man to touch me so I just left it there really I ain't the type to pressure her
Have you actually watched ir porn together? Would she agree to do that? Or read an erotic ir-themed book?
 
Defenitley she knows it does.. I think I have these feelings because she's only ever really been with me and 1 other guy when she was younger.. I feel she must have a tiny Interest to use the black dildo out the 3 we have , when we got it she text me whilst I was in the other room saying "time for some bbc" so I just enjoyed the moment tried not to talk much more about it as I was lucky she got the black dildo in the first place and before a few years back she wouldn't even want me to get one so I made progress there for sure
Haha that was a sweet and flirty thing for her to say. It sounds like maybe she can have some fun with where you're coming from. Even if she never takes a Black partner, there's a lot of fun the two of you can have with building up a playground of BBC fantasies together if she doesn't feel threatened by that. Imagine spooning her and rubbing her pussy while the two of you watch BLACKED together, for instance. Your sweet wife, teasing you with naughty "BBC time" talk while she squirms against your hand. Maybe she makes a tinder account just for toying with the what-if hotwife snowbunny lifestyle. Teasing Black boys with coy messages so you can read what those naughty Black strangers would do with your shy white wife, if only she allowed them to. Picking out together those fuck-me heels she would wear with that slutty new minidress to that meetup that's never going to happen--no, never, because she would never seriously want to have a different partner than you, not even for one fun little hallpass night. But no harm in playing little games . . .
 
Well after discussions with my wife, she has informed me on a 1-10 scale ,1 no interest and a 10 let’s do it she is at a 6. She said what keeps it from being a 10 is moral and self confidence. She loves fucking her Blackcockdildo and pretending while videoing and sending them to me. I just don’t know how to make her feel okay and comfortable with it.
 
Haha that was a sweet and flirty thing for her to say. It sounds like maybe she can have some fun with where you're coming from. Even if she never takes a Black partner, there's a lot of fun the two of you can have with building up a playground of BBC fantasies together if she doesn't feel threatened by that. Imagine spooning her and rubbing her pussy while the two of you watch BLACKED together, for instance. Your sweet wife, teasing you with naughty "BBC time" talk while she squirms against your hand. Maybe she makes a tinder account just for toying with the what-if hotwife snowbunny lifestyle. Teasing Black boys with coy messages so you can read what those naughty Black strangers would do with your shy white wife, if only she allowed them to. Picking out together those fuck-me heels she would wear with that slutty new minidress to that meetup that's never going to happen--no, never, because she would never seriously want to have a different partner than you, not even for one fun little hallpass night. But no harm in playing little games . . .
Ah I love this reply! We haven't yet watched interracial porn together , it had definitely got more fun though . We have a new dildo and she calls it mamba haha . I asked her to talk dirty to me when she was riding it a few weeks ago and she said do you like watching me ride this big black cock . I was like woah haha I was like yeah baby that turns me on and I said that black dick looks so good in your tight white pussy she was so wet and she stopped riding it and told me to fuck her so I did and then 5 minutes later she said lay down its not your turn its time for his turn again meaning our dildo. I was so turned on ! So was she! After we finished she said its her favourite dildo she's ever used and feels the most realistic one we have and she enjoyed it but after we don't either both mention anything the BBC role play. She actually gives her self a nickname "jane" when she's being naughty and kinky . So if I talk about what we just did she be like shhhh that's Jane not me 😂 so yeah we are enjoying our role play and I love it and at the same time no feelings are getting hurt. She said she's happy to play out my fantasy because she knows it pleases me .
 
Ah I love this reply! We haven't yet watched interracial porn together , it had definitely got more fun though . We have a new dildo and she calls it mamba haha . I asked her to talk dirty to me when she was riding it a few weeks ago and she said do you like watching me ride this big black cock . I was like woah haha I was like yeah baby that turns me on and I said that black dick looks so good in your tight white pussy she was so wet and she stopped riding it and told me to fuck her so I did and then 5 minutes later she said lay down its not your turn its time for his turn again meaning our dildo. I was so turned on ! So was she! After we finished she said its her favourite dildo she's ever used and feels the most realistic one we have and she enjoyed it but after we don't either both mention anything the BBC role play. She actually gives her self a nickname "jane" when she's being naughty and kinky . So if I talk about what we just did she be like shhhh that's Jane not me 😂 so yeah we are enjoying our role play and I love it and at the same time no feelings are getting hurt. She said she's happy to play out my fantasy because she knows it pleases me .
Well, who knows? Maybe Jane, instead of your wife, will get Blacked someday and it can just be the three (well, four counting the BBC gentleman) of you who keep the secret :)
 
hi babe, every sister has those fears and its only after ur start u realise all the hangups were just keeping u from having fun and enjoying yourself. if ur husband wants this, there isnt anything u can do to lose his respect.

pm me if u want to chat more. i can speak to both u and ur hubby and talk through some of ur issues. its a fun lifestyle but there're a few things you both need to know and do right from the beginning if u want to enjoy it safely. truth is the rules of the game are a bit different if ur asian and muslim and a lot of the time non asians dont understand. but they're our baggage and we understand them well lol.
Thanks that’s nice of you to say, you’re right about the hubby part he has said that to me as well. Would be useful to know what your thoughts are on getting started. You’re absolutely right about the baggage part as well lol!
 
Well, who knows? Maybe Jane, instead of your wife, will get Blacked someday and it can just be the three (well, four counting the BBC gentleman) of you who keep the secret :)
I really hope so ! We are going away to hotel soon for the night she said I'm looking forward to going to the hotel and being Jane for the night she's taking her stocking and black mamba ! She usually just calls it mamba but she said black mamba this time. I think she deep down finds it a huge turn on but won't admit it! I want to try and watch some IR porn with her soon. I said to her last time we used the dildo we should watch some porn together soon. She was like can we can watch some black mambas sliding in and out of some white pussies can't we . I just laughed and left it there but I hope she was serious :)
 
Thanks that’s nice of you to say, you’re right about the hubby part he has said that to me as well. Would be useful to know what your thoughts are on getting started. You’re absolutely right about the baggage part as well lol!
During sex I always role play as a different guy. It seriously makes me cum faster and makes her more wet. The idea of sexing another guy drives us wild!
 
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