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Jellycapone

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So I had this fetish/fantasy for 5 years now, my wife's aware of what I like she doesn't talk on it to much though . We have a black dildo she enjoys it alot and so do I watching her ride it , she cums and creams up on it hard and its her fav dildo out our selection.. sometimes I think things are better left a fantasy to avoid disappointment, I think the reality will never be as good as you imagine in your head , especially as my wife claims not to be that into black guys , but I love this site and I wont ever stop IR porn and the fantasy will stick with me for the rest of my life I feel , it's a hot fantasy to have i enjoy taking to people who share the same feelings . Dont get me wrong I'd love to see my wife getting blacked theres nothing more I'd love to see then some bbc balls deep in her but I know it cant be a reality for numerous reasons but still il live with this fantasy for the rest of my life as obviously you cannot ******* you wife into something you like for your own pleasure
 
You've already mentioned good points. It's your fantasy, and you can't ******* it upon her. The only thing you can do is tell her what you like and what turns you on, but it's up to her whether she goes along with it or not.

In my experience, women have grave issues when confronted with such desires by her partners. Instead of being horny like them, they initially fear that this might be the start of an open relationship or something worse. Is hubby serious or will he regain his senses once the deed is done and then freak out?

There are so many things to discuss and talk over beforehand that having your darling wife give herself to BBC can truly be considered a marathon and not a sprint.

Good luck to you ;)
 
Vietkill45 said:
You've already mentioned good points. It's your fantasy, and you can't ******* it upon her. The only thing you can do is tell her what you like and what turns you on, but it's up to her whether she goes along with it or not.

In my experience, women have grave issues when confronted with such desires by her partners. Instead of being horny like them, they initially fear that this might be the start of an open relationship or something worse. Is hubby serious or will he regain his senses once the deed is done and then freak out?

There are so many things to discuss and talk over beforehand that having your darling wife give herself to BBC can truly be considered a marathon and not a sprint.

Good luck to you ;)
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Thanks for your reply. She's a very one person women. She's been with me 11 years and we have a great relationship. Great sex life to . We literally use the black dildo every fortnight I'd say it's her favourite one but she tells me she's not into black guys.. she thinks cheating is disgusting and stuff so its quite hard to touch on .. she found IR porn on my phone before she says u love black dicks in white pussies dont you . I just laughed it off haha .. she knows I like hence the dildo . I think I mentioned it before and she was like if you love me you wouldn't want another man to touch me so I just left it there really I ain't the type to pressure her
 
Jellycapone said:
Thanks for your reply. She's a very one person women. She's been with me 11 years and we have a great relationship. Great sex life to . We literally use the black dildo every fortnight I'd say it's her favourite one but she tells me she's not into black guys.. she thinks cheating is disgusting and stuff so its quite hard to touch on .. she found IR porn on my phone before she says u love black dicks in white pussies dont you . I just laughed it off haha .. she knows I like hence the dildo . I think I mentioned it before and she was like if you love me you wouldn't want another man to touch me so I just left it there really I ain't the type to pressure her
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You don't need to pressure her, but you're always allowed to say what turns you on.
 
Vietkill45 said:
You don't need to pressure her, but you're always allowed to say what turns you on.
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Defenitley she knows it does.. I think I have these feelings because she's only ever really been with me and 1 other guy when she was younger.. I feel she must have a tiny Interest to use the black dildo out the 3 we have , when we got it she text me whilst I was in the other room saying "time for some bbc" so I just enjoyed the moment tried not to talk much more about it as I was lucky she got the black dildo in the first place and before a few years back she wouldn't even want me to get one so I made progress there for sure
 
So far it remains a fantasy and we'll see how long it lasts. I'm (we) are exploring and using this site as a means to learn and explore what this all means to us. We aren't in a rush, either.
In reality, we also understand that once it does happen, you can't go back so we need to be sure this is what we truly want. I have to admit that at first I was opposed but now I'm open to new ideas if it improves my relationship with my BF. For some reason, my BF, who at first wanted this, is now somewhat reluctant so we'll see where this goes.
Just having fun for now.
 
Somerset said:
So far it remains a fantasy and we'll see how long it lasts. I'm (we) are exploring and using this site as a means to learn and explore what this all means to us. We aren't in a rush, either.
In reality, we also understand that once it does happen, you can't go back so we need to be sure this is what we truly want. I have to admit that at first I was opposed but now I'm open to new ideas if it improves my relationship with my BF. For some reason, my BF, who at first wanted this, is now somewhat reluctant so we'll see where this goes.
Just having fun for now.
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Yeah same here I think my wife would role play with me if I asked her for sure .. but as to actually making it a reality can cause alot of risks and if your enjoying the fantasy that's all good
 
Vietkill45 said:
She needs to feel comfortable and safe. Tell her how beautiful she looks and how much you love her.
When she uses her dildo again, you could compliment her and tell her you're impressed by how much she can take.
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I do everytime.. she never likes looking back at vids and pics of herself but when we did some with the black dildo she wanted to look . Think she might of wonder why it gets me off so she looked for herself. She never did that with the other dildos we have. So there are defenitley little positives for sure
 
Jellycapone said:
I do everytime.. she never likes looking back at vids and pics of herself but when we did some with the black dildo she wanted to look . Think she might of wonder why it gets me off so she looked for herself. She never did that with the other dildos we have. So there are defenitley little positives for sure
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That's it. You need to take baby steps. Ease her into it and always show her she can feel safe and secure.
 
Somerset said:
NOOOOO, that is the wrong thing to say. Please don't compliment her on how much she can take. UGH.
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I just tell her how hot it looks inside her not how much she can take . Cos I'm a good size to so theres not much difference. We have a 8 inch dildo 5.5 circumference
 
Interesting topic. Definitely only fantasy to us at the moment. Too many barriers right now. Been pushing too much, wife feels like cheating if would join here and talk to other men. But both of us get aroused of the idea.

Maybe later when the situation in our lives is different. Time will tell. At least on fantasy level this is great and love to visit this site. Huge plus also that wife has agreed to let me post couple of pics from her to this forum. ;)

Interesting to hear more of experiences from others. It is really bold of couples who start this journey considering all the judgement and prejudice from others. That is actually quite hypocrite as the fantasy of seeing wife with others is one of the most common fantasy for men. And from our point of view if the man is black it is even better scenario ;)
 
Jellycapone said:
So I had this fetish/fantasy for 5 years now, my wife's aware of what I like she doesn't talk on it to much though . We have a black dildo she enjoys it alot and so do I watching her ride it , she cums and creams up on it hard and its her fav dildo out our selection.. sometimes I think things are better left a fantasy to avoid disappointment, I think the reality will never be as good as you imagine in your head , especially as my wife claims not to be that into black guys , but I love this site and I wont ever stop IR porn and the fantasy will stick with me for the rest of my life I feel , it's a hot fantasy to have i enjoy taking to people who share the same feelings . Dont get me wrong I'd love to see my wife getting blacked theres nothing more I'd love to see then some bbc balls deep in her but I know it cant be a reality for numerous reasons but still il live with this fantasy for the rest of my life as obviously you cannot ******* you wife into something you like for your own pleasure
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What’s the reason it will never happen besides her not liking black men
 
Riqu said:
Interesting topic. Definitely only fantasy to us at the moment. Too many barriers right now. Been pushing too much, wife feels like cheating if would join here and talk to other men. But both of us get aroused of the idea.

Maybe later when the situation in our lives is different. Time will tell. At least on fantasy level this is great and love to visit this site. Huge plus also that wife has agreed to let me post couple of pics from her to this forum. ;)

Interesting to hear more of experiences from others. It is really bold of couples who start this journey considering all the judgement and prejudice from others. That is actually quite hypocrite as the fantasy of seeing wife with others is one of the most common fantasy for men. And from our point of view if the man is black it is even better scenario ;)
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Totally agree man
 
Jellycapone said:
So I had this fetish/fantasy for 5 years now, my wife's aware of what I like she doesn't talk on it to much though . We have a black dildo she enjoys it alot and so do I watching her ride it , she cums and creams up on it hard and its her fav dildo out our selection.. sometimes I think things are better left a fantasy to avoid disappointment, I think the reality will never be as good as you imagine in your head , especially as my wife claims not to be that into black guys , but I love this site and I wont ever stop IR porn and the fantasy will stick with me for the rest of my life I feel , it's a hot fantasy to have i enjoy taking to people who share the same feelings . Dont get me wrong I'd love to see my wife getting blacked theres nothing more I'd love to see then some bbc balls deep in her but I know it cant be a reality for numerous reasons but still il live with this fantasy for the rest of my life as obviously you cannot ******* you wife into something you like for your own pleasure
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She may be physically interested, but there are lot of other things she is considering. I think her issue is likely more than just fucking a Black Guy.
 
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