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Jellycapone
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What do you mean? What other things do you think?
What do you mean? What other things do you think?
Great topic. I never had any interest in the whole hotwife fantasy, until I'd been happily married for years. I thought it would be hot to introduce the idea, to spice things up a little. I emphasise the point that I thought it would be a good idea not her. It didn't have the response I expected at all, quite the reverse in fact as the whole idea was a complete turn off for my wife. She thought I was bored of her and didn't love her anymore, which was obviously the opposite of how I felt. Managed to talk through all of that and she tried a little role play etc, but it was obvious she wasn't even intrigued by the idea. I'd never ask her to do anything she was uncomfortable with, so I don't mention it anymore. I don't see it as an issue at all, it was never her fantasy and so as far as I'm concerned that's it.
In the future who knows, but I don't see any point pestering. Chatting to several of the more experienced wives on here has only confirmed that decision, they've been really helpful.
At the end of the day, if you love your wife, I don't see any other option than to respect her decision.
In the future who knows, but I don't see any point pestering. Chatting to several of the more experienced wives on here has only confirmed that decision, they've been really helpful.
At the end of the day, if you love your wife, I don't see any other option than to respect her decision.
I've tried to introduce the idea of sharing my wife with another man, in fantasy form of course and I have to agree with a lot of the comments here. My wife says it's a no-no but indulges me by roleplaying having been out with another guy and then coming home with pussy full of their cum. But whether I'd want that to happen in real life not so sure.
I don't know fella. I don't know your wife. Maybe she's just weirded out by the idea of another man fucking her with your permission and you watching. I don't know. But from your description of her, it seems she's sexual and if yawl bone to the fantasy of her fucking a Black Guy, she can't be "not into Black Guys". She just may not yet be comfortable with the idea of fucking anyone with your permission and you watching.
georgia and d
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wife and me had fantasy of bbc fucking her,used big black dildos and watched films of black guys said if was in film getting fucked with big black cock like woman was pussy would be wetter,became swingers wife liked having guys fuck her but said love have bbc fuck her,said it was number 1 thing on her bucket list,
From everything I just read @Jellycapone it sounds like your wife has an interest in it but doesn't want to hurt your feelings or you feeling inadequate in a way if she were to play into your fantasy. I'd say take baby steps to nonchalantly show her you're confident in the man you are abd in your two relationship to be able to handle having a little extra fun on the sex side of it.
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Jellycapone
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I agree man
I've tried and tried to convince my wife to go for it.When I was out of town last week, I texted and asked if "her black boyfriend" was there. she texted back, "very funny." I'm still trying.
You sound much like myself! I had the same fantasy for almost eight years! The first time I mentioned it to Pam I spent the next several nights sleeping in the spare bedroom and the temperature in the house went from those we normally enjoyed in mid July to sub zero! Eventually she came around and subsequently, after several years, settled on a Doc Johnston BBC which she still enjoys. Then came the time that I had to go to a convention so I combined an extra ten days vacation with it, ie, two full weeks away. The night prior to the convention commencement the company held a "get acquainted" cocktail party, it was here that things came together! Surprisingly it was here that we met up with an old university friend and roommate of mine, Edwin. After graduation we quickly lost contact with each other as we, naturally, pursued our own seperate careers, in fact he moved to Europe where he still resides. Whereas we have posted about this elsewhere on this site in explicit detail suffice to say, the pleasure of giving Pam her first BBC went to Edwin! In the end it wasn't persuading Pam to go black that bought it to that point BUT "being in the right place at the right time with the right guy!"
P.S. for the information of the curious, yes, Edwin went in bareback! It's a question I'm always asked!
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Jellycapone
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Great story man
Much more than "just" a story, it's just "plain fact!"
I hear you man. We’re definitely still in the fantasy stage too. It’s still super fun, and we both get off super hard every time, and I think we’d both be happy keeping it that way. However we do keep escalating.
Started dirty talking, then bought a black dildo, then another, then another, etc. It’s pretty much every time we have sex now. If not the dildos then dirty talk.
We both have reservations about crossing the line. We both are inching towards it
Started dirty talking, then bought a black dildo, then another, then another, etc. It’s pretty much every time we have sex now. If not the dildos then dirty talk.
We both have reservations about crossing the line. We both are inching towards it
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Jellycapone
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I think this is where I kind of stand to man defenitley
jamesriske
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I keep recommending to people on here to take it slow. Take baby steps. Take your time, just as you wrote. Have fun. The whole thing is about fun and should never feel bad or rushed beyond what you're comfortable with. Be excited, yes! But don't feel pressured or don't do anything you don't want.
My wife and I started by just a hand job. She gave a black guy a massage and hand job at first. Nothing more. We wanted to test the waters and see how we both feel. Then we slowly increased it over time until she is now full on having sex with others while I watch. It's great and we both love it. But we started out slowly with just small stuff. Heck, even if you just want to watch her sit next to a black man and have a ******* with him, that's fine. It's a start and it's fun.
Take very small steps and start out with something very small. Even if your ultimate goal takes two years to obtain, it will be great fun getting there.
I never got past the fantasy part of ex-wife and live-in to go black but they both had their share of others. Neither long term relationship got to the question of black but both were hot wives. It was before I had ever heard the word cuckold so I just knew what I liked.
Aside from one incredible experiance with a good friend several years ago, I'm all talk and fantasy! ❤
But the fantasy and the desire is very strong and important to me... So chatting and sharing here with you'all is wonderful and helpful and appreciated.
So, Thank You All ❤
But the fantasy and the desire is very strong and important to me... So chatting and sharing here with you'all is wonderful and helpful and appreciated.
So, Thank You All ❤
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I started with a nice black dildo that I named Jamaica!! But recently the fantasy became a reality, and as much as I love Jamaica, oh my, the real thing is so much better!!
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Jellycapone
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Yeah that's the problem . We are gonna dip into the swinging lifestyle and take it from there I think it's a better way to open things up
