Romance between spouses always needs to be cultivated and is a work in progress at all times. But its romance between husband and wife. Since in this lifestyle, you are no longer the sexual partner or interest, it just changes a little bit but is no less important. She will have feelings and possibly romance with her lovers too. Thats ok. He is her sexual partner and she is looking to be wooed by him too. You want that to an extent. It will keep him around and lets her know she isn't just a fuck if he turns into a regular. She will have feelings and desires for him because its important for both of you that he appreciates and makes her feel special. It will help increase the bond of attraction between them since if its not there and they go their seperate ways, she will be back at square one looking for a new bull. Mine wanted to find a regular because she was proned to fallin love/feelings with her men and knew that. So, romance, which I encouraged her to have, helped her deal with her infatuation and attraction to her regulars and feel more confident pushing barriers since she liked/loved him so much, she was open to us both servicing him since he was who she wanted to fuck her and it helped that I showed them both by sucking his cock and balls I accepted our roles. She was like the girl in those pics. She loved being naked with him and seeing his naked body and feeling not guilty that she wanted spread open for him when the feeling struck and that she choose him to sexually satisfy her and I needed to be ok and accept her feelings toward him, her desires, his desires, and that I am her husband, she loves me but now her lover is her sexual partner and she loves him and only wants to have sex with him; He can satisfy her sexually in a way i never could; he is better and she wants him in our life as her sexual provider and boyfriend and possibly more depending on circumstances. Romance can lead to many great things between the wife and bull: humiliation; calmness; bonds; attraction; increased sexual desire and frequency; pregnancy; regular bulls; it could go anywhere. Her wanting more from you: dressing her for him, sucking him off not because of humilation but because she loves and has feelings for him and since im no longer the sexual partner, I can step into a support cuckold role to help facilitate him fucking her more often and reenforcing his alpha superiority in both their minds, thus leading to more of what I just posted. Romance and acceptance, and how you the cuck deal with it can be a big deal. Cultivate it and show her you support her feelings with him and things can happen. Once I did, things got even better, moved more quickly with less drama and for a time, we both benefitted: she got fucked a lot more often; I got to watch and participate and get humiliated; he got to feel confident in his role with us and thus came over more frequently and we became friends. She would never have left me for him but she did admit she was in love for a time with him and if he would have moved in with us, would have welcomed that with us taking turns in our martial bedroom vs the spareroom with her for sleeping arrangements though if we wanted, we could put a trundle bed in the room where we could take turns sleeping on. I would have liked for him to stay in the room alone with her on certain nights as we both enjoyed her getting fucked on the martial bed and she could tell him things without me bothering them. Romance also led to her going on nice dates with him which I would prepare and groom her for ahead of time then she either spending the night with him or bringing him back over to fuck and stay the weekends. Her love and attraction for him and his dominance didnt get in the way. He would help with dinner and stuff around the house. Stay over for a weekend and with them wearing only underwear or him naked and her in a sundress it helped me feel comfortable and adjust to our new roles. It was odd but exciting at first she was so bitchey and nonchalont she would go around the house in panties or a shirt in front of me with him there knowing her lover might also naked and I had to accept it was because they would frequently fuck and she had to be ready. His huge cock was out most of the time if he was naked around the house and yes, sometimes I did suck it with her because I knew she wanted him and she loved that I accepted him as the sexual alpha and wanted to please him and reenforce his dominant alpha male role and to acknowledge to them both how much bigger and better his cock was.