I hate the docu part. It lets me feel like I'm part of his porn collection which is flattering but alienating at the same time.
White males: How does this make you feel?
- Thread starter Lana Chambers
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That's a cool website. I guess we have enough material for our own blog too.
We have been in the swing lifestyle for many years. For us there is recreational sex which we enjoy with others. There is no emotional attachment, it's about fun. We might fuck a few times, but there is no long term attraction. Then there is the sex that i enjoy with my husband. That's more about love and mutual emotional attraction. It's long term. We have sex on a continual basis, forever. That way none of this has to hurt. It's about mutual pleasure for all.
Always working on more- I have the best life. All the sex I could possibly get! Never knew I would love it so much
Well said. I make love to my husband, nobody else can do that. All the other guys? We fuck!!!
Lana Chambers
Couple
I think you could be INCREDIBLY POPULAR if you really shouted out how much you are enjoying it.
Say things like, "I don't do *******, I don't *******, I don't smoke, I don't waste money, I clean house...BUT BOY DO I LOVE FUCKING BIG BLACK COCK!"
It does not hurt at all!
halfhardcuck
Male
Yes, romance "hurts" more, but in a really god way, if you are a true, submissive cuckold. I love the idea that my wife (if I had one) falls in love with her lover, who is clearly my sexual superior. I would so enjoy watching her own sexual and romantic enjoyment, and just be happy to observe her fulfillment. I would happily give up sex with her in exchange for being allowed to support her and her lover in any way I could. I would be the quiet third wheel in the 3-way relationship, always there to support her.
Lana Chambers
Couple
Good boy.
Even if it's "Just Sex" without an expressed element of love or romantic involvement, certain acts may cause more jealousy or angst than others. I can imagine Remmy saying "This will hurt me more than it hurts you" about this picture:
But the truth is that the surrender and intimacy involved in the act makes it sting more than just plain intercourse. Especially if she does things for her Black Master that she would never do for you.
But the truth is that the surrender and intimacy involved in the act makes it sting more than just plain intercourse. Especially if she does things for her Black Master that she would never do for you.
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This basically mimics my feelings. I feel my role is to respond to my partners need for romance while her lover's role is to provide her sexual need. Being relieved of both roles would hurt and would ruin the basis for the relationship.
In my opinion, if you are a true cuckold you realize your shortcomings and want your wife to be sexually satisfied in all ways. That obviously includes romantic activities. Very few, if any, women just want the rough sex. They are conditioned to expect a certain amount of romance in any relationship. Now I will say my wife prefers to be alone with her bull when she is feeling particularly romantic. I little dicked white boi with his dick caged sitting in the corner can be a mood killer LOL
Romance between spouses always needs to be cultivated and is a work in progress at all times. But its romance between husband and wife. Since in this lifestyle, you are no longer the sexual partner or interest, it just changes a little bit but is no less important. She will have feelings and possibly romance with her lovers too. Thats ok. He is her sexual partner and she is looking to be wooed by him too. You want that to an extent. It will keep him around and lets her know she isn't just a fuck if he turns into a regular. She will have feelings and desires for him because its important for both of you that he appreciates and makes her feel special. It will help increase the bond of attraction between them since if its not there and they go their seperate ways, she will be back at square one looking for a new bull. Mine wanted to find a regular because she was proned to fallin love/feelings with her men and knew that. So, romance, which I encouraged her to have, helped her deal with her infatuation and attraction to her regulars and feel more confident pushing barriers since she liked/loved him so much, she was open to us both servicing him since he was who she wanted to fuck her and it helped that I showed them both by sucking his cock and balls I accepted our roles. She was like the girl in those pics. She loved being naked with him and seeing his naked body and feeling not guilty that she wanted spread open for him when the feeling struck and that she choose him to sexually satisfy her and I needed to be ok and accept her feelings toward him, her desires, his desires, and that I am her husband, she loves me but now her lover is her sexual partner and she loves him and only wants to have sex with him; He can satisfy her sexually in a way i never could; he is better and she wants him in our life as her sexual provider and boyfriend and possibly more depending on circumstances. Romance can lead to many great things between the wife and bull: humiliation; calmness; bonds; attraction; increased sexual desire and frequency; pregnancy; regular bulls; it could go anywhere. Her wanting more from you: dressing her for him, sucking him off not because of humilation but because she loves and has feelings for him and since im no longer the sexual partner, I can step into a support cuckold role to help facilitate him fucking her more often and reenforcing his alpha superiority in both their minds, thus leading to more of what I just posted. Romance and acceptance, and how you the cuck deal with it can be a big deal. Cultivate it and show her you support her feelings with him and things can happen. Once I did, things got even better, moved more quickly with less drama and for a time, we both benefitted: she got fucked a lot more often; I got to watch and participate and get humiliated; he got to feel confident in his role with us and thus came over more frequently and we became friends. She would never have left me for him but she did admit she was in love for a time with him and if he would have moved in with us, would have welcomed that with us taking turns in our martial bedroom vs the spareroom with her for sleeping arrangements though if we wanted, we could put a trundle bed in the room where we could take turns sleeping on. I would have liked for him to stay in the room alone with her on certain nights as we both enjoyed her getting fucked on the martial bed and she could tell him things without me bothering them. Romance also led to her going on nice dates with him which I would prepare and groom her for ahead of time then she either spending the night with him or bringing him back over to fuck and stay the weekends. Her love and attraction for him and his dominance didnt get in the way. He would help with dinner and stuff around the house. Stay over for a weekend and with them wearing only underwear or him naked and her in a sundress it helped me feel comfortable and adjust to our new roles. It was odd but exciting at first she was so bitchey and nonchalont she would go around the house in panties or a shirt in front of me with him there knowing her lover might also naked and I had to accept it was because they would frequently fuck and she had to be ready. His huge cock was out most of the time if he was naked around the house and yes, sometimes I did suck it with her because I knew she wanted him and she loved that I accepted him as the sexual alpha and wanted to please him and reenforce his dominant alpha male role and to acknowledge to them both how much bigger and better his cock was.
Pegramguy has the right attitude and understanding that white husbands should have when it comes to their wives black lovers!
Just about all aspects of interracial sex between black men and white women arouse me - so long as its mutual and all party's are happy and consenting. Doesn't matter if it's romance or pure sex - if it's a black man and a white woman, it's sexy.
my husband was always more comfortable with it just being sex for me and it took him a while to be ok with me being more intimate and close
NotThisAgain
Male
being intimate and close is what makes it even better
I don't disagree... and we've gotten there, just took time... and I can't fault him with his then-comfort zone...
NotThisAgain
Male
course not, he loves his wife
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