When the Hotel Staff "find out"

I have a specific hotel that I like to host new bulls in that's nearby and super convenient for me.

My problem is that after three or four times I began running into the same hotel staff who made it obvious to me that they knew I had a different hunk of man with me each time. Usually after my bull leaves and I'm going through the checkout process the staff ask if I've enjoyed my "short visit" and if my "husband" will be with me next time? With very judgmental looks and generally acting like I'm a *******.

My husband has offered to get the rooms in advance but he already does so much for me I hate to burden him more.It makes the situation very uncomfortable and I wanted to know what others have done to kind of get around this.

Sincerely,
Sara


Why don't you just tell them it's none of their business. For all they know, you could be conducting business meetings, faith healings, or Bible study sessions. Unless you're murdering people, cooking prohibited chemical, or doing hotel room surgeries, what brings you to their hotel is none of their business. And, if the hotel staff that is giving you the third degree isn't management, tell them that you're going to mention their behavior to their superiors.
 
I have a specific hotel that I like to host new bulls in that's nearby and super convenient for me.

My problem is that after three or four times I began running into the same hotel staff who made it obvious to me that they knew I had a different hunk of man with me each time. Usually after my bull leaves and I'm going through the checkout process the staff ask if I've enjoyed my "short visit" and if my "husband" will be with me next time? With very judgmental looks and generally acting like I'm a *******.

My husband has offered to get the rooms in advance but he already does so much for me I hate to burden him more.It makes the situation very uncomfortable and I wanted to know what others have done to kind of get around this.

Sincerely,
Sara
i never meet my black bulls without hubby :) he does all the prep work chats with them if he thinks they r my type & good guys he shows me there photos & asks me would i be interested in playing with him or them :) we're a team it's all for it or it doesn't happen ! i'm constantly asking his opinionon what should i wear etc. he wants drives me, stays with me cuz we want pics & vids of the event so i can look at the pics & watch the video later you get to see stuff and different angles you can't see when your involved :) in short my hubby loves being there doing his part (TEAM)
 
Checking out should not be necessary. When you are done with the room, just leave. Any incidental expenses will be put on the credit card you used for check in.
This Hyatt has an attached parking garage where I have to valet my SUV and wait for it to be brought up. That's where the majority of the harassment occurs
 
Fuck em. But worst case, you are a paying customer and they are bound to respect you as such. Report the behavior if need be, or go somewhere else. People fuck and leave hotels all the time. Besides if you're getting dicked down well enough, you should be smiling all the way to your car. You're comfortable with what you're doing; that's all that matters really.
 
I saw a video where a guy used an analogy of a bird. The bird sits in the tree and sings its song. One person wakes up and is so happy to hear the bird chirp. He says, "Thank you, bird, for singing such a beautiful song today." But the bird doesn't care about the guy. The bird's just doing what the bird does. Then another guy wakes up and yells at the bird. "Shut up, bird! I'm trying to sleep! Stop chirping!" But the bird doesn't care about that guy either. The bird's just doing what the bird does. So if people like what you do, or if people don't like what they do, who cares? You do what you do! :)


Then my cat gobbled down the bird because he was hungry. :cool:
 
i use a hotel with an automated checkin desk, specifically to avoid this kind of judgemental crap.

having said that, there's no avoiding the sheepish smirks from the housekeeping staff who now recognise me. especially on those days where i'm with more than one guy. i make sure to leave the room as nice as possible before i leave and have tipped them separately on numerous occasions. makes sense to keep people sweet, no?

i laughed when one of them, a very sweet old polish lady asked if i was ok when i was leaving with 3 black friends. she thought i was being ****** into something! lol.
 
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