I can tell you when reality hit home for me with my wife in the beginning. My wife was a virgin when we met. She had only been with me and my 4.5 inch dicklet. She at times struggled taking all of me or so I thought. She’d moan and orgasm on me. At one point i introduced a thick 7 1/2 inch dildo into our lovemaking. She was hesitant to using it but gave in after me asking a bunch of times. I took it slow, And little by little she took the whole thing down to the balls. Her eyes rolled into the back of her head. She made the sexiest guttural sounds I’ve ever heard to that point. It was that point i had the realization we were in a whole new world. It’s been off to the races after that point