its not unique to this site i'm afraid Nikki (my wife) had a few bad experiences on Xham & P hub, guys pretending to be what they are not either black or woman, hence her reluctance to come on here (i'm working on it, and then verication)
i'm afraid, albeit going on Nikki's experience's what ever site / group / forum you go on / join you will find someone living in fantasy and twilight land for kicks.
just for the record i'm an average white guy, not a cuck, married to a highly sexual woman who just happens to like BBC, and wear temp Q of S tattoo's, and anklets, and as I'm a perv and a voyeur i like to watch take photo's or videos if possible and occasionally join in or hear of her encounters
and i / we don't pretend to be anything else
just wanted to make that clear, thank you