If it isn't that way then what's the pointFor me, the thing that I want but haven't gotten is a BBC that can come over and please me without me telling him what to do. When we invite a BBC over I always have to be the boss. Now don't get me wrong, we're not at all into the cuckold stuff but for once I would like a guy that has experience and isn't totally and completely scared and can just take charge and fuck without being a dick and trying to be dominant. Not sure this makes sense at all except me.