Well my first black man was married. He is military and so we know he gets tested, I work as an ER nurse and get tested once a month, I am also on the pill. We have been seeing him for over a year now. He introduced us to one of his single friends who is military also. I see the single guy more often because he isn't married. Both of these men tell me that they prefer married women because it's just about the sex, plus having a female who is someone else's is an incredible turnon for them.