Ways To get Wife Interested?

[husbandtim]

Hi forum!
I know that my wife would really love to be taken properly by a real man. The problem is getting her to this point, as she is super conservative and quite prudish.
She is also a hipster, and has triggers around 'patriarchy' and 'objectification'.
Has anybody found a successful way to begin this conversation?
Thanks!

 

[GreekCouple28]

Looking for ways myself

 

[husbandtim]

What angles look promising for you?

 

[GreekCouple28]

Mmm, maybe start by watching interracial porn together. Then, make jokes about her being blacked, and move to more serious approaches

 

[husbandtim]

Do you watch porn together already?

 

[GreekCouple28]

Yea, of course. Im steadily converting her

 

[husbandtim]

Cool! Do you have sex after watching?

 

[GreekCouple28]

The most hot sex ever

 

[husbandtim]

What kind of porn does she like currently?

 

[GreekCouple28]

She likes forcible, the one where females are used like meats

 

[husbandtim]

Wow... So BBC is a possibility then

 

[GreekCouple28]

Oh yes

 

[husbandtim]

You are so lucky. My wife does not watch porn.

 

[GreekCouple28]

Have you tried soft images?

 

[husbandtim]

What do you mean by soft images?

 

[GreekCouple28]

Soft erotic porn

 

[husbandtim]

I think that would work

 

[florida crackr]

So we first started watching IR porn but only where it is 1 to 1. She doesn't care for the gangbangs or where the girl looks like she's being assaulted. She also got into using only the black dildo which is pretty big. She also like the films to have a lot of passion in them and lots of kissing and holding. She likes these and now it's all part of our routine. I enjoy it, too seeing her go "fantasy black" at this point.
Recently I got her some removable QoS tattoo's that she's worn around the house in different locations on her body. I think she's almost ready to wear them outside as long as they're in a discrete location. I doubt she would put one on her forehead. LOL.

It's a slow process going from fantasy to reality but the wait and seeing her slowly transform is pretty good. She's a work in progress.

 

[husbandtim]

Wow! it seems like you are really close to having her experience a BBC!

 

[florida crackr]

Yea, of course. Im steadily converting her

I don't think it's a process of converting her. I think it's more a process of her converting herself. We, as the men, need to offer our support and slight prodding to show them the way but the decision will be hers and hers alone. (for the best result)