We never have any problem having intimate encounters at clubs , what problems have you had ?Yeah that's a good solution I guess. I'm not a big fan of clubs to be honest as I like intimate encounters but it is a great way to meet new people though, I've done a few and had a good time.
I'm pretty busy too so online is supposed to be helping in that sense but it turns out to be even more time-wasting hahaha.
anonymity of the internet + free site = Fakes and dreamers! not much you can do about that.