Total newbie couple, need some advice

In the exact same position here... we have both decided and agreed on wanting to do it but she just gets too nervous when it's finally time to pull the trigger (and tbh, so do I) and keeps getting cold feet right before... not sure how to go on about it.. so keep us posted
 
My two cents: There's no real magic/magick nor mystery in fulfilling your desire or fantasy, no headache in making it come true, no tricks. A simple, normal conversation with down-to-earth potential man would take you a long way. The main topics of conversation would need to turn around getting to know each other, your fantasy and how you wish it to happen in the first place, what would make it comfortable and safe for you. And bear in mind, you should always make sure that it all contains an aspect of safety.
 
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