Don't know about the future, but in the past was very hard without the internet. If I explained the procedure of how it worked replying to adverts in swingers magazines, it would take 20 minutes to explain. But, even placing an advert for a gent in a monthly magazine couls sometimes take 6 weeks for a response. If you didn't want to swap phone numbers, it would take days for a second reply in the mail, with a few dodgy polaroids to go by, then reply again trying to meet for a ******* etc. My wife and I laugh thinking about it these days.
was different if you were swingers, there were clubs, but if you were a genuine cuckold with a genuine hotwife, was hard work finding a genuine bull.
I can imagine it was very difficult if you were into cuckolding back in the 90s or earlier. I remember those newspaper machines on the corners that had the free newspapers with all the sex personals. I was into cuckolding about 20 years before I ever heard the word. In my early 20s I would fantasize about a Black co-worker fucking my girlfriend.