The New Black Power

MonicaV

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“By the end of the seventies the feared yet desired black male body had become as objectified as it was during slavery, only a seemingly positive twist had been added to the racist sexist objectification: the black male body had become the site for the personification of everyone’s desire.”
―Bell Hooks. We Real Cool: Black Men and Masculinity.


The sexual life of some type of people follows unavoidable milestones that always lead to the same end. In B2W, I have recently talked with a 32 years old Spaniard with a well-endowed black friend who has some kind of sexual chemistry with his girlfriend. Nothing had happened yet and problably never will, but the Spaniard had a lot of fantasies about his beloved partner having sex with the black guy. As usually, he asked for “tricks” to make it happen. At the end of the conversation, he confessed having awkward problems of erection during sex if he didn’t imagine his black mate fucking her girlfriend. In their last intercourse she had to masturbate him and he only reached the orgasm when they started to talk about his friend’s BBC. He was really concerned about this.

In a private conversation, @Jamspliff confirmed me this reality. Although he does not have symptoms of erectile dysfunction without imagining his wife with a black man, erections become firmer and his orgasms more intense as they add in their marital sex some dynamics and sexual toys that allude verbally or symbolically to a ‘black Master.’ We had a long and insightful conversation on this topic.

Many times I have written about the BBC obsession, a white fetish that some people consider a way to deshumanize black men. But in the IR sex lifestyle objectification/fetishization are mutual. Sexual attraction to others is not based only in our individual selves, but in group identities (race, age, social class) and specific physical features. Many times I have been called MILF or Queen of Spades and I clearly perceived the stereotypically associated expectations to those labels. I don’t believe in the existence of a direct relationship between fetishizing the black masculinity and racism. Fetishes are a part of our culture, shared by a lot of people with very different ideologies and life experiences. Every person integrates this fetish into his own political views and mindset.

I have been reflecting about the power that black male has achieved over the sexuality of many white men, to the point of these individuals being unable to reach an erection if they do not imagine their wives being used or abused by a well-endowed dominant black man. If they materialize this fantasy, it becomes an addiction or a sine qua nom to reach high levels of excitement. Erectile dysfunction could accompany them for life.

This process is related to the Pavlov and Skinner’s ‘classical conditioning’: associating a concrete behaviour with certain reward. The subconscious of the cuckold who masturbates watching or imagining his wife/girlfriend with a black man ends up relating sexual pleasure and this emotional turmoil with such 'forbidden' act. With the time, the so-called 'reward center' of the brain demands increasingly extreme stimuli to get the same levels of arousal. The constant need of novelties is a common feature in kinksters.

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Two phenomena related to new technologies are radically changing our sexuality. One of them is the growing popularity of location-based social search mobile apps as dating sites. Tinder and OkCupid make every attractive man on it considerably more accessible to every woman in a wide social and geographical sphere. So women have raised their standards accordingly. According to the data “the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men”.

Another study concluded that 240 of the 300 women get sex through Tinder but only less than 50 of the 300 men do. A survey at the University of North Texas found that men who used Tinder are more likely to have lower self-esteem than males who don't use dating-apps. A study on OkCupid showed that women find 80% of the men unattractive. The number of women cheating documented through several researches is also dramatically increasing. The cheating mostly happen at work with a superior figure but also through the Internet.

This phenomenom, known as ‘hypergamy’, shouldn't exist in a modern, feminist society. But it seems it is almost impossible to change evolutionary biology. The wealthiest and most intellectual men have much to offer for a formal relationship, but a sexually liberated society makes difficult for average men to be considered a serious sex choice: most guys are simply not interesting enough for women.

The second technological factor is - using Jamspliff’s words - that “unfettered round-the-clock access to porn creates a deep rabbit hole where increasingly extreme or taboo content is sought”. Sex education is still scarce and many teenagers are using porn to 'learn' about sex, and interracial porn (white woman – black man) is a growing phenomenom. Contrary to what is often said, it is not the most popular genre. But it is shaping sexual identities and reinforcing the racial alpha/beta stereotypes. The losers of the game of seduction from the digital era are increasingly embracing masturbation as a substitute of actual sex, while women have an easy access to high quality sex partners through phone apps and dating websites. In this small number of alpha males who take advantage of this situation, black men are demographicly overrepresented.

The fascination for interracial sex (namely, the natural place of the white woman under the black man) is quite logical, since it is a primal form of eroticism. The contrast between femininity and masculinity, whiteness and blackness, submission and dominance... If a white woman gets hooked to this alchemy, she will look for a dominant and well-endowed black man; if a black man likes by this type of sex, he will look for a (submissive) white woman. But a white man who loves interracial sex can't be an actor in this drama. He is condemned to be an abashed witness, offering his wife/girlfriend to a sexually superior black male.

The foundations of human relations are hierarchies in which there is a primary recognition of males who exercise a dominant or submissive role. When a wife discovers that her husband's erections are conditioned by his fantasies about a black phallus, this may lead to the acknowledgment of black men as alphas in an abstract form.

Black sexual superiority is not a matter of cock inches. The true power is the need of some white men to imagine a black cock taking possesion of their wives/girlfriends to get an erection, without having to do anything. A fascination who may lead a white man to offer his beloved better-half to a black male, embracing a process whose outcome could potentially ruin his manhood. For many cultural and biological reasons, this is a power they hold today.

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ConanBriggs

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“By the end of the seventies the feared yet desired black male body had become as objectified as it was during slavery, only a seemingly positive twist had been added to the racist sexist objectification: the black male body had become the site for the personification of everyone’s desire.”
―Bell Hooks. We Real Cool: Black Men and Masculinity.


The sexual life of some people follows unavoidable milestones that always leads to the same end. In B2W, I have recently talked with a 32 years old Spaniard with a well-endowed black friend who has some kind of sexual chemistry with his girlfriend. Nothing had happened yet and problably never will, but the Spaniard had a lot of fantasies about his beloved partner having sex with the black guy. As usually, he asked for “tricks” to make it happen. At the end of the conversation, he confessed having awkward problems of erection during sex if he didn’t imagine his black mate fucking her girlfriend. In their last intercourse she had to masturbate him and he only reached the orgasm when they started to talk about his friend’s BBC. He was really concerned about this.

In a private conversation, @Jamspliff confirmed me this reality. Although he does not have symptoms of erectile dysfunction without imagining his wife with a black man, erections become firmer and his orgasms more intense as they add in their marital sex some dynamics and sexual toys that allude verbally or symbolically to a ‘black Master.’ We had a long and insightful conversation on this topic.

Many times I have written about the BBC obsession, a white fetish that some people consider a way to deshumanize black men. But in the IR sex lifestyle objectification/fetishization are mutual. Sexual attraction to others is not based only in our individual selves, but in group identities (race, age, social class) and specific physical features. Many times I have been called MILF or Queen of Spades and I clearly perceived the stereotypically associated expectations to those labels. I don’t believe in the existence of a direct relationship between fetishizing the black masculinity and racism. Fetishes are a part of our culture, shared by a lot of people with very different ideologies and life experiences. Every person integrates this fetish into his own political views and mindset.

I have been reflecting about the power that black male has achieved over the sexuality of many white men, to the point of these individuals being unable to reach an erection if they do not imagine their wives being used or abused by a well-endowed dominant black man. If they materialize this fantasy, it becomes an addiction or a sine qua nom to reach high levels of excitement. Erectile dysfunction could accompany them for life.

This process is related to the Pavlov and Skinner’s ‘classical conditioning’: associating a concrete behaviour with certain reward. The subconscious of the cuckold who masturbates watching or imagining his wife/girlfriend with a black man ends up relating sexual pleasure and this emotional turmoil with such 'forbidden' act. With the time, the so-called 'reward center' of the brain demands increasingly extreme stimuli to get the same levels of arousal. The constant need of novelties is a common feature in kinksters.

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Two phenomena related to new technologies are radically changing our sexuality. One of them is the growing popularity of location-based social search mobile apps as dating sites. Tinder and OkCupid make every attractive man on it considerably more accessible to every woman in a wide social and geographical sphere. So women have raised their standards accordingly. According to the data “the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men”.

Another study concluded that 240 of the 300 women get sex through Tinder but only less than 50 of the 300 men do. A survey at the University of North Texas found that men who used Tinder are more likely to have lower self-esteem than males who don't use dating-apps. A study on OkCupid showed that women find 80% of the men unattractive. The number of women cheating documented through several researches is also dramatically increasing. The cheating mostly happen at work with a superior figure but also through the Internet.

This phenomenom, known as ‘hypergamy’, shouldn't exist in a modern, feminist society. But it seems it is almost impossible to change evolutionary biology. The wealthiest and most intellectual men have much to offer for a formal relationship, but a sexually liberated society makes difficult for average men to be considered a serious sex choice: most guys are simply not interesting enough for women.

The second technological factor is - using my @Jamspliff’s words - that “unfettered round-the-clock access to porn creates a deep rabbit hole where increasingly extreme or taboo content is sought”. Sex education is still scarce and many teenagers are using porn to 'learn' about sex, and interracial porn (white woman – black man) is a growing phenomenom. Contrary to what is often said, it is not the most popular genre. But it is shaping sexual identities and reinforcing the racial alpha/beta stereotypes. The losers of the game of seduction from the digital era are increasingly embracing masturbation as a substitute of actual sex, while women have an easy access to high quality sex partners through phone apps and dating websites. In this small number of alpha males who take advantage of this situation, black men are demographicly overrepresented.

The fascination for interracial sex (namely, the natural place of the white woman under the black man) is quite logical, since it is a primal form of eroticism. The contrast between femininity and masculinity, whiteness and blackness, submission and dominance... If a white woman gets hooked to this alchemy, she will look for a dominant and well-endowed black man; if a black man likes by this type of sex, he will look for a (submissive) white woman. But a white man who loves interracial sex can't be an actor in this drama. He is condemned to be an abashed witness, offering his wife/girlfriend to a sexually superior black male.

The foundations of human relations are hierarchies in which there is a primary recognition of males who exercise a dominant or submissive role. When a wife discovers that her husband's erections are conditioned by his fantasies about a black phallus, this may lead to the acknowledgment of black men as alphas in an abstract form.

Black sexual superiority is not a matter of cock inches. The true power is the need of some white men to imagine a black cock taking possesion of their wives/girlfriends to get an erection, without having to do anything. A fascination who may lead a white man to offer his beloved better-half to a black male, embracing a process whose outcome could potentially ruin his manhood. For cultural and biological reasons, this is a power they hold today.

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You should write an entire book or pdf form of your thoughts.
 

ircucked

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This is too accurate. I know that obsessing about black men fucking my girlfriend, and her loving it, is destroying my manhood. My erections are weak unless I imagine it. That I continue -- because nothing feels better -- is proof that Black Cock is indeed, for me, the symbol of true Black Power.
 

fraloi

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From
UK
“By the end of the seventies the feared yet desired black male body had become as objectified as it was during slavery, only a seemingly positive twist had been added to the racist sexist objectification: the black male body had become the site for the personification of everyone’s desire.”
―Bell Hooks. We Real Cool: Black Men and Masculinity.


The sexual life of some type of people follows unavoidable milestones that always lead to the same end. In B2W, I have recently talked with a 32 years old Spaniard with a well-endowed black friend who has some kind of sexual chemistry with his girlfriend. Nothing had happened yet and problably never will, but the Spaniard had a lot of fantasies about his beloved partner having sex with the black guy. As usually, he asked for “tricks” to make it happen. At the end of the conversation, he confessed having awkward problems of erection during sex if he didn’t imagine his black mate fucking her girlfriend. In their last intercourse she had to masturbate him and he only reached the orgasm when they started to talk about his friend’s BBC. He was really concerned about this.

In a private conversation, @Jamspliff confirmed me this reality. Although he does not have symptoms of erectile dysfunction without imagining his wife with a black man, erections become firmer and his orgasms more intense as they add in their marital sex some dynamics and sexual toys that allude verbally or symbolically to a ‘black Master.’ We had a long and insightful conversation on this topic.

Many times I have written about the BBC obsession, a white fetish that some people consider a way to deshumanize black men. But in the IR sex lifestyle objectification/fetishization are mutual. Sexual attraction to others is not based only in our individual selves, but in group identities (race, age, social class) and specific physical features. Many times I have been called MILF or Queen of Spades and I clearly perceived the stereotypically associated expectations to those labels. I don’t believe in the existence of a direct relationship between fetishizing the black masculinity and racism. Fetishes are a part of our culture, shared by a lot of people with very different ideologies and life experiences. Every person integrates this fetish into his own political views and mindset.

I have been reflecting about the power that black male has achieved over the sexuality of many white men, to the point of these individuals being unable to reach an erection if they do not imagine their wives being used or abused by a well-endowed dominant black man. If they materialize this fantasy, it becomes an addiction or a sine qua nom to reach high levels of excitement. Erectile dysfunction could accompany them for life.

This process is related to the Pavlov and Skinner’s ‘classical conditioning’: associating a concrete behaviour with certain reward. The subconscious of the cuckold who masturbates watching or imagining his wife/girlfriend with a black man ends up relating sexual pleasure and this emotional turmoil with such 'forbidden' act. With the time, the so-called 'reward center' of the brain demands increasingly extreme stimuli to get the same levels of arousal. The constant need of novelties is a common feature in kinksters.

View attachment 2432934

Two phenomena related to new technologies are radically changing our sexuality. One of them is the growing popularity of location-based social search mobile apps as dating sites. Tinder and OkCupid make every attractive man on it considerably more accessible to every woman in a wide social and geographical sphere. So women have raised their standards accordingly. According to the data “the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men”.

Another study concluded that 240 of the 300 women get sex through Tinder but only less than 50 of the 300 men do. A survey at the University of North Texas found that men who used Tinder are more likely to have lower self-esteem than males who don't use dating-apps. A study on OkCupid showed that women find 80% of the men unattractive. The number of women cheating documented through several researches is also dramatically increasing. The cheating mostly happen at work with a superior figure but also through the Internet.

This phenomenom, known as ‘hypergamy’, shouldn't exist in a modern, feminist society. But it seems it is almost impossible to change evolutionary biology. The wealthiest and most intellectual men have much to offer for a formal relationship, but a sexually liberated society makes difficult for average men to be considered a serious sex choice: most guys are simply not interesting enough for women.

The second technological factor is - using Jamspliff’s words - that “unfettered round-the-clock access to porn creates a deep rabbit hole where increasingly extreme or taboo content is sought”. Sex education is still scarce and many teenagers are using porn to 'learn' about sex, and interracial porn (white woman – black man) is a growing phenomenom. Contrary to what is often said, it is not the most popular genre. But it is shaping sexual identities and reinforcing the racial alpha/beta stereotypes. The losers of the game of seduction from the digital era are increasingly embracing masturbation as a substitute of actual sex, while women have an easy access to high quality sex partners through phone apps and dating websites. In this small number of alpha males who take advantage of this situation, black men are demographicly overrepresented.

The fascination for interracial sex (namely, the natural place of the white woman under the black man) is quite logical, since it is a primal form of eroticism. The contrast between femininity and masculinity, whiteness and blackness, submission and dominance... If a white woman gets hooked to this alchemy, she will look for a dominant and well-endowed black man; if a black man likes by this type of sex, he will look for a (submissive) white woman. But a white man who loves interracial sex can't be an actor in this drama. He is condemned to be an abashed witness, offering his wife/girlfriend to a sexually superior black male.

The foundations of human relations are hierarchies in which there is a primary recognition of males who exercise a dominant or submissive role. When a wife discovers that her husband's erections are conditioned by his fantasies about a black phallus, this may lead to the acknowledgment of black men as alphas in an abstract form.

Black sexual superiority is not a matter of cock inches. The true power is the need of some white men to imagine a black cock taking possesion of their wives/girlfriends to get an erection, without having to do anything. A fascination who may lead a white man to offer his beloved better-half to a black male, embracing a process whose outcome could potentially ruin his manhood. For many cultural and biological reasons, this is a power they hold today.

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I find this pretty interesting. In a nutshell, a large population of women are competing for a select few Alpha males, and large population of beta males are competing for whatever woman they can find. What this basically means is if a beta male does manage to snag a woman, in order to keep her well satisfied and happy, he pretty much has to let her be with Alpha males. His role would therefore be more of a bestie BFF supportive type partner that would be there for her emotional/mental/psychological needs, but physically she demands Alphas to fuck her right. The beta's physical needs then simply would be derived by imagery rather than actual contact, in an ideal scenario. He'd need to be weaned off physical activity.

Accept it, embrace it, love it :blackheart:
 

MonicaV

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I find this pretty interesting. In a nutshell, a large population of women are competing for a select few Alpha males, and large population of beta males are competing for whatever woman they can find. What this basically means is if a beta male does manage to snag a woman, in order to keep her well satisfied and happy, he pretty much has to let her be with Alpha males. His role would therefore be more of a bestie BFF supportive type partner that would be there for her emotional/mental/psychological needs, but physically she demands Alphas to fuck her right. The beta's physical needs then simply would be derived by imagery rather than actual contact, in an ideal scenario. He'd need to be weaned off physical activity.

Accept it, embrace it, love it :blackheart:
Maybe the big question is what percentage of female population are actively using this kind of apps to find sex. My view is many woman want to 'enjoy life' when they are 18-30 years old and then want to find a loyal and loving husband. Some of them date black and marry white, trying to keep in secret their slutty life period.
 
Maybe the big question is what percentage of female population are actively using this kind of apps to find sex.
Close to 100%? That's what the app is predominantly for; casual hook ups. Yes, some might use it to find an actual long term partner but Tinder isn't for that usually. And I do 100% agree that women tend to have that 'slut phase' before settling down into a stable, long term marriage. Problem is though eventually a lot of them start to miss the glory days. Depending on how strong the marriage is, this can either lead to: 1) dead bedroom frustrations or not fulfilling sex or 2) cheating.

However, with the ease of access to the internet now, and especially in recent years now with the surge of IR porn, couples are being exposed to this and it could have a positive effect on their relationship. The way I see it is if you love your wife, have her blacked her brains out. This will lead to a stronger marriage.
 

MonicaV

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Close to 100%? That's what the app is predominantly for; casual hook ups. Yes, some might use it to find an actual long term partner but Tinder isn't for that usually.
Hahaha. Of course all women who use Tinder are looking for sex. I meant what percentage of the total female population of Western Europe and the USA have a Tinder profile and use it regularly. Sorry.
 

syscom3

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“By the end of the seventies the feared yet desired black male body had become as objectified as it was during slavery, only a seemingly positive twist had been added to the racist sexist objectification: the black male body had become the site for the personification of everyone’s desire.”
―Bell Hooks. We Real Cool: Black Men and Masculinity.


The sexual life of some type of people follows unavoidable milestones that always lead to the same end. In B2W, I have recently talked with a 32 years old Spaniard with a well-endowed black friend who has some kind of sexual chemistry with his girlfriend. Nothing had happened yet and problably never will, but the Spaniard had a lot of fantasies about his beloved partner having sex with the black guy. As usually, he asked for “tricks” to make it happen. At the end of the conversation, he confessed having awkward problems of erection during sex if he didn’t imagine his black mate fucking her girlfriend. In their last intercourse she had to masturbate him and he only reached the orgasm when they started to talk about his friend’s BBC. He was really concerned about this.

In a private conversation, @Jamspliff confirmed me this reality. Although he does not have symptoms of erectile dysfunction without imagining his wife with a black man, erections become firmer and his orgasms more intense as they add in their marital sex some dynamics and sexual toys that allude verbally or symbolically to a ‘black Master.’ We had a long and insightful conversation on this topic.

Many times I have written about the BBC obsession, a white fetish that some people consider a way to deshumanize black men. But in the IR sex lifestyle objectification/fetishization are mutual. Sexual attraction to others is not based only in our individual selves, but in group identities (race, age, social class) and specific physical features. Many times I have been called MILF or Queen of Spades and I clearly perceived the stereotypically associated expectations to those labels. I don’t believe in the existence of a direct relationship between fetishizing the black masculinity and racism. Fetishes are a part of our culture, shared by a lot of people with very different ideologies and life experiences. Every person integrates this fetish into his own political views and mindset.

I have been reflecting about the power that black male has achieved over the sexuality of many white men, to the point of these individuals being unable to reach an erection if they do not imagine their wives being used or abused by a well-endowed dominant black man. If they materialize this fantasy, it becomes an addiction or a sine qua nom to reach high levels of excitement. Erectile dysfunction could accompany them for life.

This process is related to the Pavlov and Skinner’s ‘classical conditioning’: associating a concrete behaviour with certain reward. The subconscious of the cuckold who masturbates watching or imagining his wife/girlfriend with a black man ends up relating sexual pleasure and this emotional turmoil with such 'forbidden' act. With the time, the so-called 'reward center' of the brain demands increasingly extreme stimuli to get the same levels of arousal. The constant need of novelties is a common feature in kinksters.

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Two phenomena related to new technologies are radically changing our sexuality. One of them is the growing popularity of location-based social search mobile apps as dating sites. Tinder and OkCupid make every attractive man on it considerably more accessible to every woman in a wide social and geographical sphere. So women have raised their standards accordingly. According to the data “the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men”.

Another study concluded that 240 of the 300 women get sex through Tinder but only less than 50 of the 300 men do. A survey at the University of North Texas found that men who used Tinder are more likely to have lower self-esteem than males who don't use dating-apps. A study on OkCupid showed that women find 80% of the men unattractive. The number of women cheating documented through several researches is also dramatically increasing. The cheating mostly happen at work with a superior figure but also through the Internet.

This phenomenom, known as ‘hypergamy’, shouldn't exist in a modern, feminist society. But it seems it is almost impossible to change evolutionary biology. The wealthiest and most intellectual men have much to offer for a formal relationship, but a sexually liberated society makes difficult for average men to be considered a serious sex choice: most guys are simply not interesting enough for women.

The second technological factor is - using Jamspliff’s words - that “unfettered round-the-clock access to porn creates a deep rabbit hole where increasingly extreme or taboo content is sought”. Sex education is still scarce and many teenagers are using porn to 'learn' about sex, and interracial porn (white woman – black man) is a growing phenomenom. Contrary to what is often said, it is not the most popular genre. But it is shaping sexual identities and reinforcing the racial alpha/beta stereotypes. The losers of the game of seduction from the digital era are increasingly embracing masturbation as a substitute of actual sex, while women have an easy access to high quality sex partners through phone apps and dating websites. In this small number of alpha males who take advantage of this situation, black men are demographicly overrepresented.

The fascination for interracial sex (namely, the natural place of the white woman under the black man) is quite logical, since it is a primal form of eroticism. The contrast between femininity and masculinity, whiteness and blackness, submission and dominance... If a white woman gets hooked to this alchemy, she will look for a dominant and well-endowed black man; if a black man likes by this type of sex, he will look for a (submissive) white woman. But a white man who loves interracial sex can't be an actor in this drama. He is condemned to be an abashed witness, offering his wife/girlfriend to a sexually superior black male.

The foundations of human relations are hierarchies in which there is a primary recognition of males who exercise a dominant or submissive role. When a wife discovers that her husband's erections are conditioned by his fantasies about a black phallus, this may lead to the acknowledgment of black men as alphas in an abstract form.

Black sexual superiority is not a matter of cock inches. The true power is the need of some white men to imagine a black cock taking possesion of their wives/girlfriends to get an erection, without having to do anything. A fascination who may lead a white man to offer his beloved better-half to a black male, embracing a process whose outcome could potentially ruin his manhood. For many cultural and biological reasons, this is a power they hold today.

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That was funny to read.
 

b1ackspade

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SC, US
Maybe the big question is what percentage of female population are actively using this kind of apps to find sex. My view is many woman want to 'enjoy life' when they are 18-30 years old and then want to find a loyal and loving husband. Some of them date black and marry white, trying to keep in secret their slutty life period.
ive seen this happen alot. A chick i had fun with in college her and her best friend were all over black guys but they "cleaned up" and married white guys once they wanted to settle down
 

tristan_dirden

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I think that you've done a good job of characterising some of the underlying processes and predispositions that lead to both white women exploring interracial sexual relationships, and white men becoming increasingly interested in being submissive to black men. I think that technologies like tinder and internet porn have facilitated something that was boiling to the surface of human sexuality (but needed a little push). We see the tendency for female primates to not only seek out Alpha Males but also dominate and abuse the beta males (making them do their bidding). The beta males accept this role and in-fact relish in it. We are no different really.
 

MereBear

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US
Amazing stats! Thanks for sharing, helps put some science behind our instincts
I find this pretty interesting. In a nutshell, a large population of women are competing for a select few Alpha males, and large population of beta males are competing for whatever woman they can find. What this basically means is if a beta male does manage to snag a woman, in order to keep her well satisfied and happy, he pretty much has to let her be with Alpha males. His role would therefore be more of a bestie BFF supportive type partner that would be there for her emotional/mental/psychological needs, but physically she demands Alphas to fuck her right. The beta's physical needs then simply would be derived by imagery rather than actual contact, in an ideal scenario. He'd need to be weaned off physical activity.

Accept it, embrace it, love it :blackheart:
 

Siii02

Male
Reading this I couldn't help but feel my heart sink at almost every line. I felt very 'naked', the truth this brings is just overwhelming. This applies to every cuckold on this site, including me. Especially me. Thank you, I haven't felt so shaken by an article in a very long time. Powerful.
 

WelshIRcuck

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UK
“By the end of the seventies the feared yet desired black male body had become as objectified as it was during slavery, only a seemingly positive twist had been added to the racist sexist objectification: the black male body had become the site for the personification of everyone’s desire.”
―Bell Hooks. We Real Cool: Black Men and Masculinity.


The sexual life of some type of people follows unavoidable milestones that always lead to the same end. In B2W, I have recently talked with a 32 years old Spaniard with a well-endowed black friend who has some kind of sexual chemistry with his girlfriend. Nothing had happened yet and problably never will, but the Spaniard had a lot of fantasies about his beloved partner having sex with the black guy. As usually, he asked for “tricks” to make it happen. At the end of the conversation, he confessed having awkward problems of erection during sex if he didn’t imagine his black mate fucking her girlfriend. In their last intercourse she had to masturbate him and he only reached the orgasm when they started to talk about his friend’s BBC. He was really concerned about this.

In a private conversation, @Jamspliff confirmed me this reality. Although he does not have symptoms of erectile dysfunction without imagining his wife with a black man, erections become firmer and his orgasms more intense as they add in their marital sex some dynamics and sexual toys that allude verbally or symbolically to a ‘black Master.’ We had a long and insightful conversation on this topic.

Many times I have written about the BBC obsession, a white fetish that some people consider a way to deshumanize black men. But in the IR sex lifestyle objectification/fetishization are mutual. Sexual attraction to others is not based only in our individual selves, but in group identities (race, age, social class) and specific physical features. Many times I have been called MILF or Queen of Spades and I clearly perceived the stereotypically associated expectations to those labels. I don’t believe in the existence of a direct relationship between fetishizing the black masculinity and racism. Fetishes are a part of our culture, shared by a lot of people with very different ideologies and life experiences. Every person integrates this fetish into his own political views and mindset.

I have been reflecting about the power that black male has achieved over the sexuality of many white men, to the point of these individuals being unable to reach an erection if they do not imagine their wives being used or abused by a well-endowed dominant black man. If they materialize this fantasy, it becomes an addiction or a sine qua nom to reach high levels of excitement. Erectile dysfunction could accompany them for life.

This process is related to the Pavlov and Skinner’s ‘classical conditioning’: associating a concrete behaviour with certain reward. The subconscious of the cuckold who masturbates watching or imagining his wife/girlfriend with a black man ends up relating sexual pleasure and this emotional turmoil with such 'forbidden' act. With the time, the so-called 'reward center' of the brain demands increasingly extreme stimuli to get the same levels of arousal. The constant need of novelties is a common feature in kinksters.

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Two phenomena related to new technologies are radically changing our sexuality. One of them is the growing popularity of location-based social search mobile apps as dating sites. Tinder and OkCupid make every attractive man on it considerably more accessible to every woman in a wide social and geographical sphere. So women have raised their standards accordingly. According to the data “the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men”.

Another study concluded that 240 of the 300 women get sex through Tinder but only less than 50 of the 300 men do. A survey at the University of North Texas found that men who used Tinder are more likely to have lower self-esteem than males who don't use dating-apps. A study on OkCupid showed that women find 80% of the men unattractive. The number of women cheating documented through several researches is also dramatically increasing. The cheating mostly happen at work with a superior figure but also through the Internet.

This phenomenom, known as ‘hypergamy’, shouldn't exist in a modern, feminist society. But it seems it is almost impossible to change evolutionary biology. The wealthiest and most intellectual men have much to offer for a formal relationship, but a sexually liberated society makes difficult for average men to be considered a serious sex choice: most guys are simply not interesting enough for women.

The second technological factor is - using Jamspliff’s words - that “unfettered round-the-clock access to porn creates a deep rabbit hole where increasingly extreme or taboo content is sought”. Sex education is still scarce and many teenagers are using porn to 'learn' about sex, and interracial porn (white woman – black man) is a growing phenomenom. Contrary to what is often said, it is not the most popular genre. But it is shaping sexual identities and reinforcing the racial alpha/beta stereotypes. The losers of the game of seduction from the digital era are increasingly embracing masturbation as a substitute of actual sex, while women have an easy access to high quality sex partners through phone apps and dating websites. In this small number of alpha males who take advantage of this situation, black men are demographicly overrepresented.

The fascination for interracial sex (namely, the natural place of the white woman under the black man) is quite logical, since it is a primal form of eroticism. The contrast between femininity and masculinity, whiteness and blackness, submission and dominance... If a white woman gets hooked to this alchemy, she will look for a dominant and well-endowed black man; if a black man likes by this type of sex, he will look for a (submissive) white woman. But a white man who loves interracial sex can't be an actor in this drama. He is condemned to be an abashed witness, offering his wife/girlfriend to a sexually superior black male.

The foundations of human relations are hierarchies in which there is a primary recognition of males who exercise a dominant or submissive role. When a wife discovers that her husband's erections are conditioned by his fantasies about a black phallus, this may lead to the acknowledgment of black men as alphas in an abstract form.

Black sexual superiority is not a matter of cock inches. The true power is the need of some white men to imagine a black cock taking possesion of their wives/girlfriends to get an erection, without having to do anything. A fascination who may lead a white man to offer his beloved better-half to a black male, embracing a process whose outcome could potentially ruin his manhood. For many cultural and biological reasons, this is a power they hold today.

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A very articulate and informative description of both the white male cuckold mindset and the white female sexual desire that unifies present technology with a primal evolutionary psychology.

I am a white cuck wannabe (single) who has an overwhelming sexual drive focused on white women who like alpha black males. And my focus is exclusively on white women who like big black dominant men, I'm not sexually interested in anyone else!

I have actually studied evolutionary biology at university and so I find this whole subject area to be interesting from a psychological, biological and, of course, a personal perspective. Amongst the primates there is great variation in the life-histories of different species with pair-bonding, polyandry and polygyny all occurring, but polygyny seems to be the most common life-history, not only amongst primates but most mammals in general.

In polygyny, a dominant male mates with numerous females and many males don't get to mate at all. A result of this is sexual dimorphism between the sexes, where there is a size differential between males and females. On average this is the case with humans, as men tend to be bigger than women, and this suggests that polygyny was a major factor at some point in our history. So alpha males were mating with most of the females and many, so called beta males, were not mating at all.

From this type of life-history and social structure there develops a particular psychology in all participants, the alpha males, beta males and females. For recent periods in our history this primal psychology has been subdued or denied due to religious, social and cultural influences but now parts of it seem to be returning as religious and cultural doctrines lose their power.

I feel that in some societies the opportunities are now there to enact and live-out those primal desires that have long been subdued. Females no longer have to be forced into pair-bonding relationships where they have to mate with an inferior male but can now actually go after and breed with a dominant alpha male. And nowhere is this contrast between dominant and beta males more pronounced than between black men and men of other races, white, Asian, Oriental etc.

This sets up a scenario where ancient primal psychologies come into play, perhaps aided by modern stereotypes of different races. The black male is seen as the dominant alpha male and most females, white and all races, see him as the ultimate sexual and breeding partner. Other males are seen as beta males and have to fight hard for sexual favours or any breeding chances. And with this comes an attendant psychology, that maybe, has at its heart, a submissive element that doesn't put them in competition with the dominant black males but still has a useful social role.

This, of course, is all tentative but as a white cuck wannabe I feel these feelings to support and serve a white female (who loves dominant alpha black men) so strongly. I think I will try to analyse this more deeply from an intellectual perspective but from a personal and psychological perspective the feelings are all consuming and so real.
 
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