The hotwife bucket list

In the hotwife lifestyle there should be basic bucket list of experiences that every hotwife should desire to experience at least once in her journey as a hotwife.

Please join me in brainstorming and jotting down some basics that every hotwife should experience at least once.

Hotwife basics: (Rookie or beginners level)
1. Fuck a stranger at a hotel while hubby watches.
2. Fuck a stranger and hubby in a threesome at a hotel.
3. Fuck a stranger in your marital bed while hubby watches.
4. Fuck a stranger and hubby in a threesome in your marital bed.
5. Fuck hubby at a swingers club in front of a group of strangers.
6. Fuck a stranger in a swingers club in front of a group of strangers and hubby.

Advanced hotwife level:
7. Fuck and or suck a random stranger at a porn theater in front of hubby.
8. Fuck 2 strangers in front of hubby either at home or a hotel.
9. Fuck 2 strangers and hubby at the same time as a prelude to a gangbang.
10. Give a blowjob, or even fuck a random guy at a glory hole in front of hubby.

Veteran Hotwife:
11. Try anal with a playmate.
12. Do a dp with hubby and a playmate.
13. Participate in group play at a swingers club or private lifestyle party.
14. Do a gangbang.

Obviously nothing has to be done in that order and I know some of you are such hotwife sluts that you skipped alot of stuff and went straight to the advanced stuff right from the start which is so sexy!

If there is anything missing that every hotwife should do at least once then let us all know?

Aslo we would love to hear what you have done and What you haven't done but want to do?
From beginners level my wife has done #1 and #3
1. Fuck a stranger at a hotel while hubby watches.
3. Fuck a stranger in your marital bed while hubby watches.

From advanced level #8
8. Fuck 2 strangers in front of hubby either at home or a hotel.

From Veteran level #11, #12 and #14
11. Try anal with a playmate.
13. Participate in group play at a swingers club or private lifestyle party.
14. Do a gangbang.
 
In the hotwife lifestyle there should be basic bucket list of experiences that every hotwife should desire to experience at least once in her journey as a hotwife.

Please join me in brainstorming and jotting down some basics that every hotwife should experience at least once.

Hotwife basics: (Rookie or beginners level)
1. Fuck a stranger at a hotel while hubby watches.
2. Fuck a stranger and hubby in a threesome at a hotel.
3. Fuck a stranger in your marital bed while hubby watches.
4. Fuck a stranger and hubby in a threesome in your marital bed.
5. Fuck hubby at a swingers club in front of a group of strangers.
6. Fuck a stranger in a swingers club in front of a group of strangers and hubby.

Advanced hotwife level:
7. Fuck and or suck a random stranger at a porn theater in front of hubby.
8. Fuck 2 strangers in front of hubby either at home or a hotel.
9. Fuck 2 strangers and hubby at the same time as a prelude to a gangbang.
10. Give a blowjob, or even fuck a random guy at a glory hole in front of hubby.

Veteran Hotwife:
11. Try anal with a playmate.
12. Do a dp with hubby and a playmate.
13. Participate in group play at a swingers club or private lifestyle party.
14. Do a gangbang.

Obviously nothing has to be done in that order and I know some of you are such hotwife sluts that you skipped alot of stuff and went straight to the advanced stuff right from the start which is so sexy!

If there is anything missing that every hotwife should do at least once then let us all know?

Aslo we would love to hear what you have done and What you haven't done but want to do?
I wish the list got more things for a single girl, most these things need a hubby :(
 
This is fun list, I was mentally checking some of them off as a read through. I realized we don’t really do any of the swinger activities - we’re really more a stag/cuckold and hotwife couple, but we checked off quite a few!

Hotwife basics: (Rookie or beginners level)
1. Fuck a stranger at a hotel while hubby watches.
2. Fuck a stranger and hubby in a threesome at a hotel.
3. Fuck a stranger in your marital bed while hubby watches.
4. Fuck a stranger and hubby in a threesome in your marital bed.

Advanced hotwife level:
8. Fuck 2 strangers in front of hubby either at home or a hotel.
9. Fuck 2 strangers and hubby at the same time as a prelude to a gangbang.

Veteran Hotwife:
11. Try anal with a playmate.
12. Do a dp with hubby and a playmate.

I’d also add these to my veteran accomplishments:
1. Have sex with bull’s friend (in the back seat of a Suburban in a strip club parking lot, no less!)
2. Had a bull stay with us for a whole weekend, in our master bedroom, while hubby stayed on the couch and made sure we had everything we need, food/drinks, etc
3. Went away with a bull for a weekend getaway to Vegas while hubby stayed home
4. Pick up and fuck a stranger on vacation in a foreign country
5. Let hubby tie me to the bed, blindfold me and bring in a stranger for anonymous sex, and never find out who it was

Ones still on my list:
1. Do a gangbang. I’ve been with 2 guys and even 3 with hubby joining in, but I really want to have what I would consider a real gangbang with 4-6 guys, not including hubby. Seems like this is harder to set up on your own and get everyone to commit. This one is up there for me - I’ve been fantasizing about it for a while now.
2. This may be a tough one to complete, but I would love to hook up with a famous NBA or NFL player!
 
I wish the list got more things for a single girl, most these things need a hubby :(
What do single women want in the lifestyle? Couple's on swinger sites are always looking to add a female playmate that both of them can enjoy but what exactly does the single women want? What types of activities, scenarios, NSA fun, or relationships are single women looking for on swinger sites?

On the swinger sites when you read alot of profiles of single women they sound like dating profiles that belong on Eharmony or Match.com. They will start talking about "I'm a honest person, I love music and outdoor activities, I love movies".... ect and all I can think about as I read their profile is that I don't care about none of that *******! All I care about is are you a freak and can you take a big cock all night long?🤷‍♂️

Some actually say that they are looking for couples or groups to have fun with. I totally understand why most single women on swinger sites wouldn't necessarily be open to playing with most single guys and don't advertise that they are looking for guys either seeing how some guys on here are emotional and sensitive and could end up being a problem for a single woman.

So I would definitely like to know what you single women want and expect from the lifestyle?
 
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What do single women want in the lifestyle? Couple's on swinger sites are always looking to add a female playmate that both of them can enjoy but what exactly does the single women want? What types of activities, scenarios, NSA fun, or relationships are single women looking for on swinger sites?

On the swinger sites when you read alot of profiles of single women they sound like dating profiles that belong on Eharmony or Match.com. They will start talking about "I'm a honest person, I love music and outdoor activities, I love movies".... ect and all I can think about as I read their profile is that I don't care about none of that *******! All I care about is are you a freak and can you take a big cock all night long?🤷‍♂️

Some actually say that they are looking for couples or groups to have fun with. I totally understand why most single women on swinger sites wouldn't necessarily be open to playing with most single guys and don't advertise that they are looking for guys either seeing how some guys on here are emotional and sensitive and could end up being a problem for a single woman.

So I would definitely like to know what you single women want and expect from the lifestyle?
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In the hotwife lifestyle there should be basic bucket list of experiences that every hotwife should desire to experience at least once in her journey as a hotwife.

Please join me in brainstorming and jotting down some basics that every hotwife should experience at least once.

Hotwife basics: (Rookie or beginners level)
1. Fuck a stranger at a hotel while hubby watches.
2. Fuck a stranger and hubby in a threesome at a hotel.
3. Fuck a stranger in your marital bed while hubby watches.
4. Fuck a stranger and hubby in a threesome in your marital bed.
5. Fuck hubby at a swingers club in front of a group of strangers.
6. Fuck a stranger in a swingers club in front of a group of strangers and hubby.

Advanced hotwife level:
7. Fuck and or suck a random stranger at a porn theater in front of hubby.
8. Fuck 2 strangers in front of hubby either at home or a hotel.
9. Fuck 2 strangers and hubby at the same time as a prelude to a gangbang.
10. Give a blowjob, or even fuck a random guy at a glory hole in front of hubby.

Veteran Hotwife:
11. Try anal with a playmate.
12. Do a dp with hubby and a playmate.
13. Participate in group play at a swingers club or private lifestyle party.
14. Do a gangbang.

Obviously nothing has to be done in that order and I know some of you are such hotwife sluts that you skipped alot of stuff and went straight to the advanced stuff right from the start which is so sexy!

If there is anything missing that every hotwife should do at least once then let us all know?

Aslo we would love to hear what you have done and What you haven't done but want to do?
Veteran Jewish wife, mom of four
 

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What do single women want in the lifestyle? Couple's on swinger sites are always looking to add a female playmate that both of them can enjoy but what exactly does the single women want? What types of activities, scenarios, NSA fun, or relationships are single women looking for on swinger sites?

On the swinger sites when you read alot of profiles of single women they sound like dating profiles that belong on Eharmony or Match.com. They will start talking about "I'm a honest person, I love music and outdoor activities, I love movies".... ect and all I can think about as I read their profile is that I don't care about none of that *******! All I care about is are you a freak and can you take a big cock all night long?🤷‍♂️

Some actually say that they are looking for couples or groups to have fun with. I totally understand why most single women on swinger sites wouldn't necessarily be open to playing with most single guys and don't advertise that they are looking for guys either seeing how some guys on here are emotional and sensitive and could end up being a problem for a single woman.

So I would definitely like to know what you single women want and expect from the lifestyle?

A Single girl/unicorn requires a good Daddy Dom to check and fulfill a lot of Wish List items 📃♠️🎀🔗

Every BBC slutbunny needs a Black Daddy to give her Direction and Purpose!

Otherwise, she's just out there bouncing from guy to guy. That is No Bueno 🚫
 
Something we've discussed is graduating from meeting single males to attending a LS house party that caters to stag/vixen couples. We are aware of the Splash Moca events but would like to start with something smaller.
Try to connect with LS couples locally and develop a relationship or clubs in your jurisdiction...small baby steps to develop your knowledge and confidence.
 
Aslo we would love to hear what you have done and What you haven't done but want to do?

This one's going to require some time and thinking, I've always tried to point out the true hot-wife is not locked into the interracial thing as depicted by many. I will answer your questions when i have more time



Well here it goes I will answer by the levels you have described.

Rookie or Beginners

1& 2 are really tied together. We’ve done it around the globe. It would be difficult to list all the hotels & motels. They would span thirty two states and over two dozen countries. In the beginning when there was only one new guy my guy would watch or not but always took turns . Occasionally I would have them at both ends. Now and then I would have them both in my pussy at the same time. That was very rare, it was my biggest desire but most of the men we connected with thought it was a gay thing and would not even attempt it.

3 Never when we started our adventure we talked first. We had a very young baby. By mutual agreement we never brought any of our extra sex adventures into our home.

4 & 6 Yes after almost two years of random adventures while traveling or at motels or hotels near our home we got invited to a swinger group party. A man we met in a bar who we had a night with arranged it. It was quite a deal, had to answer a lot of questions and have a medical check with a ******* draw before we Got a invite. Possibly it was the time or the reality. It was not like the porno at the time. In over two years and about twenty different groups I observed no big room party with people fucking side by side . My only experience with anything near that was in Europe years later.

At the first party it started with a atmosphere very similar to almost any bar I’d ever been to. Couples and a few singles drinking, dancing and just talking in different sized groups. The first person to approach me was a woman about 40. She ask what I was drinking and before I got that answer out she

Ask if I was gay or bi. I said I was neither and she seemed disappointed saying I was going to be very popular. I must have sent some type of signal because she smiled and said look around as she walked Away. I hadn’t had time to look around, when I did I saw my guy corralled by three women near the bar. I knew why he hadn’t returned from the men’s. All of them older than he was. A further look I was obviously the youngest female there. We were not children both in or twenties. He almost 26 I almost 21. I found out later the couple closest to us were in their thirties about ten years older they also had around five years between them.

I went to a bedroom with a nice looking man about 40, We had sex several times and more than once saw one or two guys looking from the open door. I mentioned being watched to my lover. He said he Was aware and added they were no doubt waiting for him to finish with the new wife. It was like a Candy store for me. I told him to invite them in I liked being outnumbered. They did, word spread, later that night at home I told my guy about fucking ten men after he told me about the three women he hooked up with. I would have done #5 but my guy only dropped in a couple of times between ladies to see I was alright. He took his turns while I told him in detail about the ten men.





The Advanced hot-wife level



7 Well yes I did with one little twist to your description. You said fuck or suck a stranger, I never fucked one. It was always a group event. It was also never exclusive to my guy being the only one observing. I was thrilled by one of my guys contracts. He operated a small construction company. As luck would have it he got the bid on a combination Adult book, novelty shop. It had a arcade with ten of those quarter peep booths and a theater with seating for fifty people. I could fill volumes with nights spent in that candy store. We lived in a small city with a university and there were two military bases within a fifty mile radius. The owner after becoming aware of my exploits had a special mattress made. About the size of a good sized lawn chair pad but thick and comfortable. More than one Saturday night I spread out on that mattress between the front row and the screen. Pulling a train with light from a eight ft high porno movie above me. Twice I know of the police peeked through the curtains in the back of that theater. It was well known or understood that they never entered unless ask or they observed something. They could only see the movie and the back of the heads in the rows of seats. Not knowing those in the front row were in fact watching and waiting a turn on the nympho on the floor.

I never worked the glory hole in that place for two reasons. To get in there I might have had to fight off the gay guys who worked it so often you might have thought they held a deed. Then at that time in my life I was really into fucking. I was not into anal for very good reasons. Straight fucking was my thing. I dId suck cocks at times to get things going and too get guys hard to fuck. I just loved the throbbing cocks with hot cum filling me. Almost every party I set the time on was when condoms were not needed.

So I did 7, 8, & 9

Omitting 10 not my thing



Veteran Hot-wife level



Anal is out the DP a definite yes many times

#13 & 14 it seems like your speaking of a mixed group having sex in one room, We called that a cluster fuck. It was a private joke between several couples in a swinger group we frequented. I can only think of one time and I can’t be sure of the exact location. We were in Europe at the time. You know there you can drive through several countries in a matter of hours not days. Like some states on our east coast. So small you can do the same. It was either in holland or Germany we attended sex clubs in both. Nothing like those we were used to. I’m not a authority on sexual kinks or perversions as some call them. These places were so big and I observed so much I can’t imagine everything wasn’t available. Even what many would call baby abuse. The age of consent in some places four years younger than in the USA. We were in a mixed room for awhile it seemed to be the starting point. It was not my cup of tea. Every time a guy would cum in me it seemed like some female was there to suck it out. Got to be bi to do much of that stuff. I wondered around peeking into rooms. Boy did I see some weird stuff. People pissing in the mouths of both sexes. People playing with human feces like it was playdoh. I ask a guy who looked like a employee about a gang bang room. Right around that corner he said. Not for me that Room had three places with some guy taking cocks from both ends in all three . I did finally find my room

There was only one other woman in there with about 40 men. She had to be fifty and a little on the plump side. I could be wrong but I’d bet she was not pleased I found my way into that room. There I was all 5ft 123lbs of me. I had turned 33 only ten days before. It was my birthday gift. Three weeks in Europe. Spotted I was carried to a mat that looked huge about the size of a ten person hot tub. Instantly I had cock in both ends I got the guy out of my mouth to shout NO Anal. Later I was able to inform them of my love of double penetration. Everywhere I looked there were men all naked below the waist. Some had t shirts and shoes. The cocks were hard soft, hard , big and small. Some were wet and covered with cum from being in the sloppy me already. It was a good night. I have no idea of the number of men who made a deposit in me. I climaxed so many times my whole body ached for several days.

We went into that sex club around 7:30 it must have been around 10:15 when I found that gang bang room. My guy had found me at one point and was there to help me dress and get to a taxi when they closed at 4:00am . The next day when I finally got up in the late afternoon I looked like I’d been beaten or runover . My breasts were covered with hickeys and a few teeth marks. My groin was bruised from all the bodies pounding cock . I had done a medical cleanout wash before passing out. So there was no big wet spot under me that was always there when I turned in without cleaning out.

The Gang Bang thing I did many times. In my youth I got into it with a select group of five guys. It was kept a secret in our town. Soon it involved others they knew well. Relatives or coworkers. Guys from surrounding towns members of teams the guys they knew from games played. One was in college and he Invited several frat brothers passing through town. That turned into my first frat house train and I wasn’t a student then.

I was very active when I went to university. I often ended up being the only female there or left at the party. When the subject turned to sex once started every guy who was willing and able was welcome.

Years later after marriage my needs led to swinging and adds in sex and swinger publications. Did Bachelor and stag groups Had a local party every month with regular guys who did well in a group thing and added traveling men I picked who were going to be in our area at the time of the party.



I think I’ve covered your list omitting only a few of your listed things. Hot-wife I believe I am or was as I’m no longer doing those things . My guy has called me that so many times. Even had Some very descriptive T Shirts made before they were popular. Guys at party’s ask him constantly how he Kept up with me. His standard answer “I don’t, that’s why you’re here” Pardon me if I toot his horn as they say. The guy has been with me in everything. He usually hooked up with one or several women at those swinger things. A few times he took a turn at a all male and me party. More often he went to assure nothing happened to me that I didn’t want or like. Most of the time he would be my last guy of the day. Sometimes because he loved being in me when I was so into fucking. Sometimes because he wanted me to know he loved me no matter what I’d done. If he didn’t see it I told him about it, no secrets that was our agreement and we’ve managed to stick to it.
Lots similar to me..especially the "hometown ..gb and passed around aspect from .nearly ..high school:):) thru hs ..
 
there are a FEW.. things left on bucket list and more i would so like to do again. Thing is.. I was a hot babyslut, youngslut,and young woman slut ..before I was a wife. And in my 1st 2 marriages I was a "secret hotwife" ..those huubs were boring:) Soo some on the list were with boyfriends in place of husband. A few ive done you missed are being led into a sex club in leash and collar. Being fucked onstage in front of 50 60 people. Being tied up onstage and letting everyone whip me, grope me fuck me, in a crissy freeforall, fucking a new black guy in front of 10 other guys while they jacked off all over me... and ..then..there are the ..SEVERAL.. different ..taboo things..soooo "doggone" hot and nasty..that i cant describe here:)
 

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I'm going with MagicMikes option - I think I want to meet a guy in private but I could send videos to my husband. We are still working it out but I am not sure how it would go with him actually there.... I think I would have more fun alone with someone
Im feeling that idea too..
A nice Facetime call, before you're the big date and bbc is in your face..
Sure Hubby would love to be a witness
 
My next mission…. Go to a bar to be picked up or pick up someone. I surprisingly haven’t tried that yet but it’s coming 😏
This is fun list, I was mentally checking some of them off as a read through. I realized we don’t really do any of the swinger activities - we’re really more a stag/cuckold and hotwife couple, but we checked off quite a few!

Hotwife basics: (Rookie or beginners level)
1. Fuck a stranger at a hotel while hubby watches.
2. Fuck a stranger and hubby in a threesome at a hotel.
3. Fuck a stranger in your marital bed while hubby watches.
4. Fuck a stranger and hubby in a threesome in your marital bed.

Advanced hotwife level:
8. Fuck 2 strangers in front of hubby either at home or a hotel.
9. Fuck 2 strangers and hubby at the same time as a prelude to a gangbang.

Veteran Hotwife:
11. Try anal with a playmate.
12. Do a dp with hubby and a playmate.

I’d also add these to my veteran accomplishments:
1. Have sex with bull’s friend (in the back seat of a Suburban in a strip club parking lot, no less!)
2. Had a bull stay with us for a whole weekend, in our master bedroom, while hubby stayed on the couch and made sure we had everything we need, food/drinks, etc
3. Went away with a bull for a weekend getaway to Vegas while hubby stayed home
4. Pick up and fuck a stranger on vacation in a foreign country
5. Let hubby tie me to the bed, blindfold me and bring in a stranger for anonymous sex, and never find out who it was

Ones still on my list:
1. Do a gangbang. I’ve been with 2 guys and even 3 with hubby joining in, but I really want to have what I would consider a real gangbang with 4-6 guys, not including hubby. Seems like this is harder to set up on your own and get everyone to commit. This one is up there for me - I’ve been fantasizing about it for a while now.
2. This may be a tough one to complete, but I would love to hook up with a famous NBA or NFL player!
This is a great list!!!! ♠️
 
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