The Cuckoldress' Nightmare experience

[dickhurtz472]

SO I've been looking for a quality bull since way before Covid and have had some dreadful experiences. Yesterday my cuck husband and I invited a handsome black man I'd met once before for drinks to have dinner at our house. When I met with him, I made it crystal clear that I was looking for LT Bull and had to feel some connection and an intellectual match. I emphasized this point by telling him that if that is not what he wanted, then we can part as friends....no harm, no foul.



OMG: I've never had a worse experience in my whole life (and I'm not young). He stood in the middle of the room awkwardly, never gave me a hug, a kiss or any physical touch at all. I went ahead (due to my own curiosity about how lame this guy would actually be) got undressed and invited him into my bed.





NO. I never want to see him again or anyone that remotely thinks like him. I'm not sure I'll even keep looking. Looking for a quality man of color for a regular lover has been absolutely a failed mission. I'm OUT

He arrived, right on time. As we retreated to our outdoor living room to chat, my husband started to prepare a delicious dinner. I noticed this guy never stopped talking .... about himself, his point of view, and the magnificence of his BBC.

after his behavior in the living room, what made you think he would be any less self-centured in the bedroom?

 

[MsThang]

boy I hope you are right!

 

[DFWSundevil]

Thanks for posting your story . We have had that exact same experience and for that reason our interest in black men has waned. Having said that, it’s pretty much the same with white guys… boring. We have a great sex life as a couple and know how to excite one another, we generally have sex at least once a day and most often twice. Our interested in interracial sex was to be an exciting adjunct to our current intimacy…Not so …black guys would actually swagger in wearing baggy shorts, sneakers and their favorite team shirt…or chat with their buddies at a gang bamg not paying any attention to the issue at hand. At our last attempt , and it was to be a true hotwife overnighted alone with the guy he spent more time on his phone then he did having sex.. we called it off at 2am , sent him down the road and finished off the evening together… a lot of big talkers , thinking white women are simply drooling over them busting down doors to have sex with them but that certainly not reality…while a big cock certainly hits the back of the pussy the g spot is way up front and a normal size cock can send a woman over the top. we have done interracial for ten years, only two men were memorable. The rest posers and pillow princes’s , laying on the bed with their duck in the air, knowing nothing about women. We’re very disappointed in interracial sex.

This sucks for you and us a terrible lost opportunity for us as black men. I can only glean from this that these men are younger than say 45-50? I for one and could pour out 3-4 others from here that I believe are alike, in that we aren’t selfish/immature lovers. What ive seen if your wife, shows her to be the exact woman we all should want to be connected to. Maybe they were nervous or had never truly been in an arrangement where the husband was fully aware and present?!

Beats the ******* out of me…‍♂

 

[Jadzzia]

Oh yes there can be duds among the black men as well. Having a big cock does not mean you're good in bed. I hate when a man approaches you and is all ego. That is a giant red flag and why do they always have the same answer when you tell them you're no longer interested that you're issue is you have not been with them yet?

I have been fortunate enough to have many amazing experiences and meet some amazing men. I have also met some men that have taken the wind out of my sails and made me just want to go home and eat ice cream versus having sex. Hopefully you meet some quality men in the future that are more interested in a fun connection versus stroking their ego.

 

[MsThang]

Was this inept lover a young guy?

NO!!!!!! The guy was 52. Jesus.

 

[JohnEE]

SO I've been looking for a quality bull since way before Covid and have had some dreadful experiences. Yesterday my cuck husband and I invited a handsome black man I'd met once before for drinks to have dinner at our house. When I met with him, I made it crystal clear that I was looking for LT Bull and had to feel some connection and an intellectual match. I emphasized this point by telling him that if that is not what he wanted, then we can part as friends....no harm, no foul.

He arrived, right on time. As we retreated to our outdoor living room to chat, my husband started to prepare a delicious dinner. I noticed this guy never stopped talking .... about himself, his point of view, and the magnificence of his BBC.

So my husband served us steak dinner, then retreated to the kitchen to clean up. We enjoyed dinner, then decided to go upstairs and get to this physical exploration.

OMG: I've never had a worse experience in my whole life (and I'm not young). He stood in the middle of the room awkwardly, never gave me a hug, a kiss or any physical touch at all. I went ahead (due to my own curiosity about how lame this guy would actually be) got undressed and invited him into my bed.

He immediately wanted to show me how magnificent his cock was....and tried to get me to suck him. I explained to him that for most women, me included, needed more than a big cock to have a good experience. That how someone makes me feel when I'm with them is far more important than a cock size. He didn't seem to comprehend that statement at all.

He proceeded to stick his cock in....dry, without one iota of affection, a kiss, or anything that could remotely resemble foreplay. I was shocked, actually. I told him that I wasn't ready...so his answer to that (instead of contemplating some kind of foreplay) was to grab the lube and head on in.

It gets worse. After he was finished (and I was thankful he didn't last long) he actually proceeded to tell me about all the women he has impressed with his large cock. How young women could go all night on it. I wanted to say: "hey you just had your DICK in me....nice after-talk you fool". But I didn't. I just wanted him to go.

SO I'm thoroughly disgusted with the fuck boy "I have a big dick so that should be enough to thrill you women" mentality. It's SO not enough. Don't believe all your own hype that white women will clamor all over you for a peek of your astounding cock. I'm very sad to say he hasn't been the first with this attitude. I'm not sure how adult men go through life thinking this is the way to engage a quality woman. I can only think that there is no self reflection and they make up for their lack of depth and character by just fucking large numbers of women. I suppose that makes them feel good about themselves?

NO. I never want to see him again or anyone that remotely thinks like him. I'm not sure I'll even keep looking. Looking for a quality man of color for a regular lover has been absolutely a failed mission. I'm OUT

So sorry to hear this .... hoep you try again .. and listen to the voice in your head .. if it does not feel right within the first few moment of meeting someone, and certainly after a meal where they have shown no interest... simply say good night!

 

[MsThang]

NO! 51. No excuse!

Let me make this clear: It's not fair nor accurate to lump all black men into a category. Jerks are evenly disbursed amongst all races. In my opinion we have this trouble with NSA sex. It's why as a rule I don't do it. Without some familiarity, some communication, and mutual respect...can end in disaster. I knew this guy was a jerk before he followed me to my bedroom....I think I was hoping he would improve....silly me! Fault was all mine. There are FABULOUS, sensitive, tuned in black men however hard they are to find. Just this weekend I went to Splash Mocha (a lifestyle event) and met a wonderful man. Refined, communicative, lovely in every possible way. He asked me "what kind of experience do you want?" I told him the "boyfriend" experience and although this was certainly a no strings event, he did his best to show up that way. I loved it. Bad sex redeemed!

I'm out of the no strings game likely permanently but now I'm sure glad I went to Houston. The key is: don't open your heart or legs to jerks. Get to know them a bit...and ask what they are seeking. If it doesn't jive with you: move on. But PLEASE don't indict all black men. I love them. I want one to keep

 

[MsThang]

Oh yes there can be duds among the black men as well. Having a big cock does not mean you're good in bed. I hate when a man approaches you and is all ego. That is a giant red flag and why do they always have the same answer when you tell them you're no longer interested that you're issue is you have not been with them yet?

I have been fortunate enough to have many amazing experiences and meet some amazing men. I have also met some men that have taken the wind out of my sails and made me just want to go home and eat ice cream versus having sex. Hopefully you meet some quality men in the future that are more interested in a fun connection versus stroking their ego.

just this weekend. Home run!

 

[MsThang]

This sucks for you and us a terrible lost opportunity for us as black men. I can only glean from this that these men are younger than say 45-50? I for one and could pour out 3-4 others from here that I believe are alike, in that we aren’t selfish/immature lovers. What ive seen if your wife, shows her to be the exact woman we all should want to be connected to. Maybe they were nervous or had never truly been in an arrangement where the husband was fully aware and present?!

Beats the ******* out of me…‍♂

please check my latest reply to this thread.....the guy was 52

 

[MsThang]

Yeah, sorry to hear about your bad experiences those type of dudes are jerks regardless. On the other hand, some of us brothers in this lifestyle believes in chemistry, regardless how long or short conversation last. I do what to know about her, for example. while she is talking I am watching how she moves her mouth, play with her hair or just noticing something cute and special about her and I let her know. Just having an easy going interaction before anything physical. If there's chemistry, mutual attraction with
good sexual tension build up, always end up being so relieving afterwards.
Action speaks louder than words, regarding jerks whose always running their damn mouths.

THANK YOU!!!! A little maturity and genuine self-confidence is SO sexy. I want to desire and be desired. Simple but many people just don't get it. I just got back from Splash Mocha in Houston and was NOT optimistic that I would connect with anyone. Super fun event...great new friends and very worthwhile. Met a very delicious man who was polite, articulate, sensual, just adorable. He ASKED me what kind of experience I wanted. I told him I wanted a "boyfriend" experience. I want to be treated as if we are dating. Respectful, not pushy, and although there were probably 500+ beautiful women there when he was standing next to me, I got his full attention. I never felt like he was "looking over my shoulder" for the next best thing. (he did that on his own time) So he got my room key. He had the freedom to relate to whoever he wanted, and at night he stayed with me. "Mr X" fixed me, I think. Bottom line: he actually wanted to know what kind of experience I wanted on a 3-day event. I told him. He did his best to fulfill that and I loved every second with him.

 

[VegascplXXX]

Unfortunately, I think most guys especially ones with big dicks think that they are born with the ability to be great lovers. Like everything else in life, you have to learn be be a good lover. I have no problem saying No.

 

[JenNWayne]

SO I've been looking for a quality bull since way before Covid and have had some dreadful experiences. Yesterday my cuck husband and I invited a handsome black man I'd met once before for drinks to have dinner at our house. When I met with him, I made it crystal clear that I was looking for LT Bull and had to feel some connection and an intellectual match. I emphasized this point by telling him that if that is not what he wanted, then we can part as friends....no harm, no foul.

He arrived, right on time. As we retreated to our outdoor living room to chat, my husband started to prepare a delicious dinner. I noticed this guy never stopped talking .... about himself, his point of view, and the magnificence of his BBC.

So my husband served us steak dinner, then retreated to the kitchen to clean up. We enjoyed dinner, then decided to go upstairs and get to this physical exploration.

OMG: I've never had a worse experience in my whole life (and I'm not young). He stood in the middle of the room awkwardly, never gave me a hug, a kiss or any physical touch at all. I went ahead (due to my own curiosity about how lame this guy would actually be) got undressed and invited him into my bed.

He immediately wanted to show me how magnificent his cock was....and tried to get me to suck him. I explained to him that for most women, me included, needed more than a big cock to have a good experience. That how someone makes me feel when I'm with them is far more important than a cock size. He didn't seem to comprehend that statement at all.

He proceeded to stick his cock in....dry, without one iota of affection, a kiss, or anything that could remotely resemble foreplay. I was shocked, actually. I told him that I wasn't ready...so his answer to that (instead of contemplating some kind of foreplay) was to grab the lube and head on in.

It gets worse. After he was finished (and I was thankful he didn't last long) he actually proceeded to tell me about all the women he has impressed with his large cock. How young women could go all night on it. I wanted to say: "hey you just had your DICK in me....nice after-talk you fool". But I didn't. I just wanted him to go.

SO I'm thoroughly disgusted with the fuck boy "I have a big dick so that should be enough to thrill you women" mentality. It's SO not enough. Don't believe all your own hype that white women will clamor all over you for a peek of your astounding cock. I'm very sad to say he hasn't been the first with this attitude. I'm not sure how adult men go through life thinking this is the way to engage a quality woman. I can only think that there is no self reflection and they make up for their lack of depth and character by just fucking large numbers of women. I suppose that makes them feel good about themselves?

NO. I never want to see him again or anyone that remotely thinks like him. I'm not sure I'll even keep looking. Looking for a quality man of color for a regular lover has been absolutely a failed mission. I'm OUT

An LTR with a guy you can be comfy with is great!

 

[MsThang]

after his behavior in the living room, what made you think he would be any less self-centured in the bedroom?

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