Steps help your wife cuckold you with Black men . . . steps 1-8

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  1. Tempesto

    Tempesto Active Member

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    I saw this very good article on another site and am reposting it here to help wannabe cuckolds get their wives to go Black. I had to split it up so it would fit, enjoy!


    My name is Ella. I have helped a lot of guys, both on-line and in real life, get their wife, girl friend, daughter, sister, or whatever, to go black. Sometimes it is fairly easy, if she is already open sexually, and sometimes it is very difficult, and sometimes it is impossible. But, you do not know which it will be until you actually try. NOT trying is the biggest crime.

    The steps below are designed to be fairly subtle, so that it allows the opportunity to back off and adjust, or go in a different direction, or even to drop the issue entirely if need be, at least for the time being. If you must drop it, then always try again later, and never give up. Give it time and space before trying again.

    I am not the original author of these steps, and you may have seen something similar elsewhere. However, I have seriously modified the steps based on my own experiences in helping others.

    There are a lot of white guys who really would like nothing better then to get their wife, girlfriend, or daughter to get thoroughly blacked. There is nothing like sweet black cock to satisfy women of any race, and for those white guys who acknowledge that, the problem then becomes how to get her to actually go black, rather than just living out the fantasy.

If you are in that category (a white guy who wants his girl to go black), and you are uncertain about how, and think it might be risky (i.e. her reaction could be very negative), then you must take it in the careful steps outlined below. Make adjustments along the way. No two girls are likely to react to everything in exactly the same way, so playing it by ear and making those adjustments is essential. Never forget that. It is very important.

Of course, an emphasis needs to be put on this: this is a guide only, and all guides need to be adjusted to suit individual needs and responses. But the key is to take it in steps so you can always adjust or backtrack if you must, depending on her reaction.

    In undertaking the steps, you are trying to accomplish two things, really. One, of course, is getting her used to the idea of sweet delicious black cocks inside white holes. The other is to get her used to the idea of her nudity, which in turn opens her to greater sexual freedom and excitement, which then leads her to be able to more likely consider black cocks.

    
Step 1:

The very FIRST thing you must do is to absolutely make sure she KNOWS you love her. You don't do that by just saying "Hey, I love you, now how about becoming a black cock slut." That is not going to work. SHOW her you love her, not just tell her. Do things for her that truly demonstrates you care about her and her well being and her emotions and her sexual pleasure.
    
You do that by bringing her flowers frequently; writing her a little love note; going on-line and copying a love poem (be sure you don't represent that you wrote it, just that you found it and thought it fitting for her); getting her a gift card for a dress shop that has sexy clothes, etc.; doing things around the house for her that maybe you normally don't do; taking her out for romantic candlelit dinners. Anything like that will SHOW her you love her, and throughout this whole process, KEEP doing it. Don't just do it once or twice, then not again. Every step along the way, SHOW her so that she knows the things you are doing are out of love for HER, not because of your own needs. It must be for HER, and she must always feel that. Once she gets the idea you are doing it for YOU, it becomes more difficult by far.

    Step 1 must become continued throughout this whole process, not just at the beginning, even though this is the only place it is mentioned. This is critical. Never forget doing this.



    Step 2: 

Attempt to keep, as much as you can, your white dick out of her pussy. Oh, I know, that can be difficult for you at first, as you will get very horny, but why do you think God gave you a right hand? Use it to relieve yourself when you need to. For HER, eat her, suck her tits, kiss her lips, play with her asshole (fingers and tongue), and all that, and get her to cum from those things and NOT from your white dickie. When she cums from the things you do to her like that, she needs to feel good about it, but also she needs to feel a little wanting, wanting more, not being completely fulfilled, like she is missing something. Really explore her body with your mouth and tongue and make her hot and wanting more, and make her cum, but not really hard. Remember, she must always be left wanting something more that you cannot give her.



    Step 3:

    Start getting her into nudity. Get her naked as often as you can. Let her know you love watching her cook naked. You love her watching TV naked. Give her naked back rubs, massage her feet, with you sitting on the floor, her totally naked, and once in awhile, remark on how beautiful her pussy is. Throw in some sly comments about her having such a sweet body and pussy, and she should not be concealed. She is meant to be enjoyed by others, too.

    Step 4:
    
Whether she is into or not, watch Inter-Racial (IR) videos with her. She may not initially like it, but DO IT regardless. Don't back down on it. She may think you a pervert at first, but keep at it. The first few videos must have ONLY one black guy with a white woman, and try to get ones where the girl looks something like your girl. If she is blonde, have the girl in the porn also blonde, etc. Throw away ANY porn you have that have any white guys in it. While watching the IR porn, play with her, finger her, twist her nipples, kiss, whatever you have to do to get her hot WHILE watching the IR porn, but remember, really try to keep your white dickie out of her, and make her cum only from watching the porn and the things you do to her that don't involve your dick.

    While watching, make some comments about how hot it is to see BLACK cock in white pussy, how much of a turn-on it is to see that beautiful contrast of black and white. After the first few times, make comments about how white girls really need black cocks to truly be sexually satisfied and sexually liberated and free.


    Step 5: 

Get her a very realistic black dildo, preferably one that vibrates. Don't make it too large for her, and don't make it blue or red or gray or whatever, ONLY BLACK. It must be realistic looking, with veins and a nice head. Start using it on her while watching IR porn. Eventually, get her to take over control of the dildo. Get her to cum from it while watching the porn. Make comments about how beautiful the dildo looks in her, how black is so good for her.

By the way, be sure to get some good lube for the dildo, and be sure to not only keep it lubed for her, but also keep it clean for her. After use, use some soapy water to clean it. YOU do that, not her. And YOU apply the lube, not her. K-Y has some nice lubes, and you can get it at any drug store, such as in Target, Wal-Mart, Walgreens, CVS, etc. 



    Step 6: Work on her becoming a total nudist at home. Anytime she is home, try to get her naked, and used to being naked around you and other family member that live with you. Become a nudist family, if possible, but at the very minimum, get her to be comfortable with being a nudist at home.

    Step 7:

Get additional IR porn, only now, with more black guys and one girl, or with several girls and one or two black guys. Don't make it full blown gangbangs yet, but after she is very used to it and comfortable with several guys and one girl or several girls and one or two black guys, then graduate to gang bangs if her interests seem to lie in that direction. Adapt to what seems to turn her on. If she gets turned on by the thug type, make sure there are some like that in the videos. If she is turned on by guys with dreads or shaved heads or big balls or six packs or whatever, make sure there are guys in the videos like that. 




    Step 8: 

If you have followed the first 7 steps, and she seems at least somewhat responsive, you need to start pushing the envelope some. Buy her really sexy and revealing clothing now, and encourage her to wear them. At home at first, then out in public. She will likely resist, so offer to take her to another town or to a place she won't run into anyone she knows when you go to bars or clubs or out shopping with her dressed so sexy. Get her used to the idea of looking and acting sexy. 


     
  2. hungteacher

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    i found this in the archives...and it seemed no one really read it...which is probably good...
    for the most part this is a good guide...but this wont get your gf, wife to be with a black guy, or any guy other than you for that matter....but its a great fantasy.

    the one thing that is left out of this is that after you pleasure your wife without your cock, you should teach her how to suck your cock....and also how to milk you....if you desire your wife to be with other men, black or otherwise, she must also know how to release you as well....it is unhealthy for a man to not release semen on a regular basis, therefore your wife must relieve you at certain intervals....in my experience is it better for the wife to do the releasing and not the man because it validates the control she has and it creates needed physical contact between the wife and man....if she orders him to go relieve himself and he has no contact with the wife, then that marriage is probably doomed.

    So teach your wife how to milk your cock...watch videos on this....do all of this training well before you introduce IR videos and whatnot....you have to lay the ground work of how you and your gf/wife will interact before you start having he be with other men.
     
  3. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    Actually, there is no reason to not maintain as happy and healthy a sexual relationship with one's wife as possible.

    Her enjoying other lovers should be an enhancement to the sex life she enjoys with her husband, not a replacement for it. :balanced:

    Those who would intentionally refrain from giving their wives as much pleasure as they possibly can in the hopes that they can force her to become willing to take another lover to get what she s being denied just so they can fulfill their own fantasies, are not only fools, but selfish, self centered pricks that don't deserve to be married to a good, loving woman. :mad:
     
  4. hungteacher

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    hi willsrvu

    I do appreciate your comments, but it would be helpful if you could explain who you are and what your experience is, instead of just trashing ideas that are out there...the fact is that some people believe this stuff works...and i have used some of these techniques with couples to get the conversation started....it is not a way to get either a man or woman to do something, per se, but i am not sure you understand the psychological impact of sex and relationships..

    or maybe you do? i have no idea, since i dont know anything about you....can you enlighten all of us please?

    And I disagree that a wife should HAVE to have sex with her husband when he does not satisfy her physically...im sorry, i just think that a man needs to have his needs met physically, but that a woman does not need to have sex with him to do that....milking him, can be extremely intense and a wonderful physical release for a man and it is very intimate if done the right way and the "intimacy" between husband and wife needs to be maintained, but everything else is secondary.
     
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  5. beauandsu

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    good advice. i have tried most of it and sometimes she seems receptive but so far...
     
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  6. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    First cuckolded by high school sweetheart, who I was with almost nine years total, cuckolded the last two and a half to three.
    Throughout the years I have bounced back and forth between being slave (for lack of better term), dominant, BDSM top, bottom, submissive and cuckolded in three different relationships as well as being "master" to a submissive couple which also involved cuckolding the husband and master to a married female with her husband's knowledge and permission as he had no desire to dominate or top her, there was limited sex play in this relationship.
    Through it all I experienced depression, anger, personal discovery, elation and peace, especially thanks to two dominant women, one of who took me as her husband.

    Which brings us to the present: at which time I am a 62 year old white male, currently happily submissive, serving and married to a fabulous dominant woman in a D/s FLR for over ten years. Wife has no desire at this time to have sex with anyone other than myself although she is perfectly aware she may do anything she wishes that does not violate our negotiated limits. She does "play" with others in BDSM as I am too big a wuss to bottom for her in all of the "games" she enjoys playing.:cold:
    She can stick needles through my cock and balls until they look like a big pin cushion, but that little fucking paddle she has scares the crap out of me. :eek:


    You misunderstood my point.
    Whatever form the sex takes between the husband and wife, it is important that they maintain a happy sexual relationship. They can fuck, suck, milk, masturbate jump up and down on bed posts stuck up their asses, as long as they enjoy it and they enjoy doing it with each other. Or not do any of those things as long as they enjoy it and they enjoy doing it with each other.

    Absolutely correct and we are in agreement, especially: "the "intimacy" between husband and wife needs to be maintained, but everything else is secondary".

    Which is what I was addressing.
    The "instructions" advise the husband to withhold intercourse intentionally to manipulate the wife into wanting it with someone else. This is a violation of trust and the duty of the husband to attend to his wife's pleasure and sexual satisfaction.

    I have no issue with the wife not having intercourse as long as the husband is in agreement.
    My Wife does not perform oral sex on me, although she enjoys having me service her orally quite often. This is is something we negotiated and agreed to. There was no manipulation involved.

    I don't like the manipulation part. The rest of it could be considered manipulative as well to some degree, but it is mostly the husband introducing ideas and seeing if his wife will take to them. She always has the ability to say no. However, violating her trust and withholding sex to manipulate her into fulfilling his fantasies, sucks.
     
  7. hungteacher

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    willsrvu - i guess after you post and respond to people enough you begin to see where they are coming from. I do appreciate your commentary and your experience, i am considerably younger than you, so i have not seen as much. I hope that everyone else reading these threads can also benefit from your experience.

    The manipulation as a pure art form is not advisable, but I have definitely introduced it into cuckold relationship as a form of play, and the partner has been guided through issues. The important piece which couples needs to understand is that Trust and Respect can never be violated. And so I truly agree with you willsrvu.

    I hope other couples will post about where they are at this stage in the game.

    Any new couples? Any couples who havent taken the first step yet and wondering how?
     
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  8. cucky

    cucky Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    greeaat advices!!! thank you
     
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  9. hungteacher

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    hi cucky

    apparently you cant read after the 1st post....ummm dont follow the steps exactly, just be careful because u will lose ur girl faster than u know what hit u...there are a lot of single cucks out there, dont be one of them
     
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  10. Mrs Lovetoy

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    Fantastic guide, even for open minded couples halfway there...
     
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  11. hungteacher

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    @Mrs Lovetoy i hope you guys make some good homemade movies soon
     
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