My wife, Nellie, has been dating a young beautiful black man for almost 3 years and has spent every weekend with him with few exceptions. Usually I take her to meet him for dinner in his city 3 hours from us and after dinner, she goes with him and I come home unless I decide to stay and watch/clean. If so, I sleep on his couch usually. On Mondays, he comes home for a nooner which I watch and then after she cleans his place, we come home! The angst of knowing what is happening is awesome and I need relief from my hands many times each weekend! We love it.