When it turns into cheating it stops being fun, at least that was my experience. My wife had carte blanche to be with pretty much whomever she wanted, of course we had ground rules. At some point emotions got involved and I was left out in the cold. It was fun when I was involved and tortuous when it became cheating. So, while I believe that every white woman who wants to be with a black man should absolutely do it, if said woman is married then it should be a joint decision with her and her husband. Otherwise, get a divorce and just sleep with whomever you like whenver you like.