Should the cuckold be cut off from sex

MichaelDndJamie said:
Well it wasn't easy, we fought a lot uring those initial stages but I stuck to my guns, didn't give in to his demands for sex and over time the realisation kicked in that sexual satisfaction is not longer appropriate for his role. He a not to have any real sexual gratification or release. I have told him at the start that you can't put this genie back into the bottle. If I enjoyed it then I may not want to give it up. Suprise suprise Michael, I am not.
J
Xoxoxoxo
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This is a facinating conversation to read. I'm a white guy who wants to be cuckolded. I'm trying to understand why the drive to be cuckolded is so strong (it seems quite counter-intuitive). You'd think that I'd have some insights (I am a psychiatrist by profession) but it is quite baffling (as us English would say). There is something strangely compelling about the lifestyle.
 
Bigfunfun said:
That's how our relationship is now, it was not always that way, but with the help of my wifes Black Bull I am sub to my wife now and she is sub to her Bull as it should be.
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now that makes some sense; certainly doesn't seem like an unnatural thing that kind of hierarchy would happen for some people within those encounters. seems like it's probably more common if there's a regular third in a couple's life, and how frequently they hook up.

but the idea a man should be completely cut off from sex with his wife simply because they do cuckold stuff seems ridiculous. now if it becomes their primary sexual thing, it's more understandable, but presumably he's deriving a whole lot of satisfaction and gratification from the arrangement as well if it gets to that point.
 
I think cut off from sex for us is just how how relationship has gone. My wife always reminds me anytime I need to cum (which for me is more than daily), thats why God gave you a hand. So she feels I have no reason to whine... if I need to cum, then just do it. Her pussy is another thing all together. She never gave it up easily to me when we met (took me 8 weeks to fuck her the first time) so i'm no more cut off today than I was 12 years ago.
 
Nevada Mike said:
There are males who don't deserve sex. Sometimes the get locked up in a cage, sometimes they become porn addicts, or whatever. As long as they aren't fucking women, it's all good.
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This is probably true but I wouldn't put hubby in this category. Michael is a Damn man and he's not bad in the sack. But right now he goes without and it Will be a long while.
J
Xoxoxo
 
spin419 said:
now that makes some sense; certainly doesn't seem like an unnatural thing that kind of hierarchy would happen for some people within those encounters. seems like it's probably more common if there's a regular third in a couple's life, and how frequently they hook up.

but the idea a man should be completely cut off from sex with his wife simply because they do cuckold stuff seems ridiculous. now if it becomes their primary sexual thing, it's more understandable, but presumably he's deriving a whole lot of satisfaction and gratification from the arrangement as well if it gets to that point.
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I think a lot of fail to pickup in the points you have correctly put your finger on there. There is a gratifying aspect for the cuckold too. He sees the object of desire now our of reach. He sees his partner being sexually satisfied and dominated knowing he is now unable to actually engage with her. For instance I 28th hubby our feelings weekly and to him I have become a unicorn, he is unable to each me hence my desirability has increased exponentially (his words). He gets off on this. I get of knowing I am the literal object of his desire but he is unable to gain release. Its so hot. If Michael didn't get gratification I would stop. But he does and even though he finds it tough at times (like tomorrow night) he doesn't want me to stop. I'm happy with this. And I can't wait for date night tomorrow.
J
Xoxoxoxo
 
cuckinghim said:
My wife very rarely has sex with me. My situation is the most difficult when she doesn't have a lover to keep her sexually satisfied which is our current status. We still love each other very much, best friends, and can't sleep without the other in bed with us...but she will do without sex instead of letting me "use her pussy to masturbate" I used to try so hard to make her cum. Eat her pussy, finger her gspot till my arm cramped, tried all sorts of positions trying to get my thin 5.5" to hit the right spot but never could get her off with any consistency. Finding the cuckold lifestyle took so much pressure off and I suspect many husbands feel the same way. Sure he misses the feeling of your warm wet pussy around his little dick but as long as you keep his denial in the context of cuckolding, continue to fuck other men, and keep his feelings of inadequacy directly relatable to the fetish he will likely continue to support and love you, even if you cut him off completely. When the tease and denial stops, the sex with other men stops...then it begins to just feel like an asexual, boring old couple marriage and that's when a husband will start looking for an alternative. People don't understand how much sexual fulfillment a cuckold gains from watching, listening to, and helping his wife have fulfilling sexual experiences. The worst thing my wife could do, as far as my sexual needs are concerned, would be to stop cuckolding me. I wonder if other husbands feel the same way? I wonder if most cuckolds would admit that they'd rather be totally denied your pussy than have you lose your lust for bigger better cock?
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cuckinghim said:
My wife very rarely has sex with me. My situation is the most difficult when she doesn't have a lover to keep her sexually satisfied which is our current status. We still love each other very much, best friends, and can't sleep without the other in bed with us...but she will do without sex instead of letting me "use her pussy to masturbate" I used to try so hard to make her cum. Eat her pussy, finger her gspot till my arm cramped, tried all sorts of positions trying to get my thin 5.5" to hit the right spot but never could get her off with any consistency. Finding the cuckold lifestyle took so much pressure off and I suspect many husbands feel the same way. Sure he misses the feeling of your warm wet pussy around his little dick but as long as you keep his denial in the context of cuckolding, continue to fuck other men, and keep his feelings of inadequacy directly relatable to the fetish he will likely continue to support and love you, even if you cut him off completely. When the tease and denial stops, the sex with other men stops...then it begins to just feel like an asexual, boring old couple marriage and that's when a husband will start looking for an alternative. People don't understand how much sexual fulfillment a cuckold gains from watching, listening to, and helping his wife have fulfilling sexual experiences. The worst thing my wife could do, as far as my sexual needs are concerned, would be to stop cuckolding me. I wonder if other husbands feel the same way? I wonder if most cuckolds would admit that they'd rather be totally denied your pussy than have you lose your lust for bigger better cock?
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Having a standard white issued means you just gotta work harder and start it like you would a crock pot. Nice and slow let it simmer then turn up the heat. Tantric sexuality music after a romantic dinner. Light candles and aroma around the room. Flowers around bed. Get a couple oil lamps and put them on a atand. You tube tantric sex music. Massage her for 20 to 30 minutes not m8ssing a crevice. Tongue bathe her for the same look into her eyes and with a loom like yor gonna beat a mom truckin ass aay you gonna cum 3 to 5 times. When doing oral start around then work to clit then RAPID QUICK yp down side to side up down side to side SLOW at first r
then rapid non stop pace till she cums. Same with dick abd TELL her shws gonna cum and as she gets closer start lightly ******* her and COMMAND her to cum. We aint gettin another dick ao might as well uae what we got.
 
ErikaPeter said:
My husband and I have progressed to the point that he no longer penetrates me with his dick in my pussy or my ass. I have also largely weaned him off the partial blowjobs that I used to give him, and I give him handjobs quite rarely. He is still allowed to relieve himself with his hands in my presence or on his own. We still make love in other ways. He can use his hands and his mouth on me everywhere, and when it is time to penetrate me, he uses one or two of my favorite BBC dildos. This allows us to maintain intimacy, but at the same time heighten his chronic state of arousal and accentuate my desire for other, better cocks.
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does this arrangement make him more obedient than he was before?
 
cockmunchboy said:
And you should not be asked to go back to letting him inside you. You peg Michael, as it should be. The permanent chastity is exactly as things should be. It is difficult at first, but like Pavlov's dogs, we can be trained and as time passes and our cages stay on, we lose interest in using it.... the internet, combined we the assault on white maleness and feminization of boys has exploded interracial cuckoldy. So many white women get a taste of black cock in college (like Jamie), high school or before puberty these days.


Interracial cuckoldry is NOT a passing fancy. It will continue to grow. We have already seen plenty of white wives having mixed *******, that will become ever more common. The degree of the relationship varies. Some men just go without, others, like myself are turned out and become sissies. Pegging is nice, but as a sissy I prefer when black men fuck me. More white boys will too.
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Absolutey 100% agree!!!!
 
MichaelDndJamie said:
I think a lot of fail to pickup in the points you have correctly put your finger on there. There is a gratifying aspect for the cuckold too. He sees the object of desire now our of reach. He sees his partner being sexually satisfied and dominated knowing he is now unable to actually engage with her. For instance I 28th hubby our feelings weekly and to him I have become a unicorn, he is unable to each me hence my desirability has increased exponentially (his words). He gets off on this. I get of knowing I am the literal object of his desire but he is unable to gain release. Its so hot. If Michael didn't get gratification I would stop. But he does and even though he finds it tough at times (like tomorrow night) he doesn't want me to stop. I'm happy with this. And I can't wait for date night tomorrow.
J
Xoxoxoxo
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I am going to re type this message too because my phone/tablet have a wonderful way of replacing words.

I think a lot of people fail to pickup in the points you have correctly put your finger on there. There is a gratifying aspect for the cuckold too. He sees the object of desire now out of reach. He sees his partner being sexually satisfied and dominated knowing he is now unable to actually engage with her. For instance I talk with hubby about our feelings weekly and to him I have become a unicorn, he is unable to catch me hence my desirability has increased exponentially (his words). Since entering this lifestyle I have become far more confident, sexual and far more fit. I attend gym now every other day. As time goes on and Michael desires me more and more, he sees my confidence soar and my dress style becoming far more adventurous.
He gets off on this.

I get off knowing I am the literal object of his desire but he is unable to gain release, he is not allowed to touch me suggestively or in any area likely to give him a thrill. I can touch him, I will have him sit on his hands if I want to sit on his lap wearing a tiny tank top and little boy shorts.
Its so hot.

If Michael didn't get gratification I would stop. But he does and even though he finds it tough at times (like tomorrow night) he doesn't want me to stop. I'm happy with this. And I can't wait for date night tomorrow.
Jamie
xoxoxox
 
I've been a Cuck for over 20 years, and haven't had any intercourse with my Hot-wife since 2011. I'm not "cut-off", we both agreed to this lifestyle.

For the past 3 years, she's gone totally Black, and gets laid about twice a month. Over this period, she has gradually lost interest in any kind of sex with me, and recently stopped all contact with my cock. I've let her know I'm OK with this and let her know I enjoy masturbating and her activity with BBCs. The only time I get any pussy from her is after she has sex, I get to lick her pussy after her guy leaves when she's not too tired.

Over the years, I've gradually lost my desire to have intercourse and really only enjoy masturbating before, during, and after she's getting laid. As I've gotten older, I've forgotten what pussy feels like and my cock never gets hard enough to fuck anyways.

We both enjoy each other and our marriage, but prefer this lifestyle with her sexual activity and satifaction being at the center of our sexual relationship. She's never been into humiliating me, or that part of cuckolding.
 
HW-Elizabeth said:
Coming home to have hubby fuck me with his little dick was sooo boring after just getting fucked good. Started putting him in cock cage so he can suffer through it. Kept telling him how useless his dick is and now he agrees, cutting off is the best.
However, licking my pussy clean is a must and he will always be required to do that.
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Youre a wonderful woman Elizabeth ?
 
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